# Hello from Europe **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 14, 2010, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029 "2010-07-14T15:21:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![chillingfields](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/edb3f5/32.png) [@chillingfields](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chillingfields)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/1 "2010-07-14T15:21:01Z")
Hey everyone! Just got my account to the forums, which I’ve been reading quite regularly lately after stumbling upon them by chance. The sincerity of the post(er)s made me place my first order. I just couldn’t believe this whole thing could be made up by some marketing department or what have you. Whilst writing this my doorbell rang and my A314 (2nd order already - this might turn into one hell of a hobby) was delivered btw hehe. Anyhow, I’m a 36 y/o (single) guy from Holland. I count myself to the lucky few who pretty much have it all: a decent brain, fairly well developed social skills, better than moderate looks, raised by loving parents, nothing to complain about really. Now whether it’s just my psyche or something that happens to more people in my situation I don’t know (I think the latter tbh cos I’ve seen it plenty before), but I’ve made damn sure in the past that the troubles I never had to begin with, I created myself. And with great success. So much so that I’m having a hard time reinventing myself as the cool suave social guy that I once was, or wanted to be. Point being: my self respect or image isn’t what I’d like. I find myself constantly thinking other people are better, more this or more that, I’m not worthy, women are out of my league etc. Sad thing about it is that it’s a self-forfilling prophecy; as soon as I deem myself unworthy, I become unworthy. And that’s where I can use some help. Enter [pheromones](https://a314.com/). So, I got carried away for my first order: 2x shine, 1 honesty, 1 openness, 1 ammo, and of course I couldn’t resist getting tuth. Wore shine (2), openness (1) and ammo (2 or 1, not sure) to a beach party this weekend. Something happened that really made me wonder. I felt pretty confident to start with, which was great in itself. Had a good time at the party, talked to many people (more than I would usually I think), so it was all good. Could’ve been just my night or something, but I did feel exceptionally solid. At some point I was sitting down to skin up, and some girl sat down next to me. She was stone drunk, and she was staring at me. I was busy rolling anyway, she was pretty, so we made some smalltalk. Very small really as it was more of a monologue; I could barely understand what she was saying on account of her drunkenness. However, the freaky thing was: she just kept staring at me for a good 10 minutes, never taking her eyes off. I know of alcohol and what it does to inhibitions, but seriously, I’ve never seen anyone do this. She had no qualms, shame or second thoughts about just blatantly staring at me from half a meter away. After a while she said: “you must be a very sweet guy” and continued staring. Is this what you’d call a DIHL? And if so, what happens to these people? What’s going on in their minds? Frankly I’ve never seen anything like it, and I have more than normal experience with going out. Right, wall of text and all so I’ll leave it here for now. You’ll be hearing more of me I’m sure, so might as well put me on ignore now 😉 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/2 "2010-07-14T15:37:37Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. You have some great pheromones there. It is hard to judge whether the staring girl is a result of pheromones as alcohol was involved. For confident, you can try A314. It makes you feel more confident and people will respect you more. Don’t leave AMMO behind as it can help to get the attention from girls. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 4:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/3 "2010-07-14T16:47:16Z")
Great reporting! I mean you pretty much have the basics down pat. You will get great results from the products that you ordered. The $25 GC should be issued to you, you have plenty of information out there. A314 is really powerful stuff. If you want lifelong change in the right direction A314 can really help. Remember that thinking positive and encouraging words can make the difference for you in your lifestyle. This will grant you success with women and other facets of your life. We also like to have fun and AMMO is a great product for you to wear. The socials like IS give you such a great and healthy vibe that it almost does the initial work for you. Remember that initally this is one of the best products to open doors, it also takes time and testing and falling down but as long as you keep going with this you’ll have an awesome time doing things. This is why this is one of the best support forums for these products. ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 5:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/4 "2010-07-14T17:03:28Z")
Hey, great intro i really enjoyed reading it ! and you better believe that we wont ever ignore great reports ! 🙂 Im going to venture out and say that alcohol lowers our inhibitions like you just stated, there people tend to be more overt in their actions, however if you mone signature is really hitting her hard, she is going to respond to that more blatantly as well. A DIH stare is usually a big eyed stare of shock and it can be somewhat subtle or right out to the point where you think is there a booger hanging out of my nose? what is she staring at me so peculiar for? But pupils tend to dilate, and theres generally a sense of mystery and attraction in the stare. I think it pretty much sums things up since you had on IO, IS, and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). She was attracted from the ishine, ammo and wasnt afraid to open up and express that to you hence coming from the IO. Its important to find your sweet spot with each but you are probably very close with one, a few, or all if not right on with one or all since you were very surprised by this hit. A hit is generally any form of behavior or talk that is not normal from that individual, therefore strangers are harder to tell whether or not it was the mones or the alcohol or so many other factors that are involved. Hope to see you round ! 🙂 and that you continue to share your stories ! ---
**Author:** ![chillingfields](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/edb3f5/32.png) [@chillingfields](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chillingfields)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 5:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/5 "2010-07-14T17:17:34Z")
Thanks for the replies. I do think this might just be what is needed to get some of that old bravado back. At least there should be plenty of options to keep me busy testing for a while. Got a free tester of IJ with the order, which intrigues me enormously but scares me a little too 😛 Any hints on relatively safe testing environments? As for the staring and the alcohol: I guess it could’ve just been a coincidence, but my experience with the inebriated is rather extensive, and yet this was a first. Ah well, we’ll see if it happens again. I’ll let you know if it does 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![chillingfields](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/edb3f5/32.png) [@chillingfields](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chillingfields)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/6 "2010-07-14T17:28:08Z")
Hah thanks for the DIHL explanation! It wasn’t a DIHL then, she was just smiling contently whilst staring. No being distraught or anything. She just kept at it for an unlikely stretch of time. ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2010, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/7 "2010-07-14T17:49:55Z")
Definitely an indicator of interest and attraction then. You had her attention thats for sure and she was happy around you (smiling) and very in to you it seems. But that could also backfire as you start driving home and they puke in your car or at your place haha. I hope you get your bravada back and just believe in yourself because self destruction is the worst kind ! Believe you are the best and others will believe it too, it will show. Look forward to hearing your reports in the near future and as far as IJ, just read in the mens section or use the search tab at the top of the page and find threads about it ! Edit: heres one link to get you started 😉 > [@Twogunz and Instant jerk](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/twogunz-and-instant-jerk/39680): > > I tried not to kick any puppies while in the gym . I had used 1 spray of IJ and felt a tpouch arrogant, but was not sure if it was my normal self or self efects from the IJ. I went back to the locker room and hit another spray. So far two sprays. Well it was the IJ. I just had this sense of I dont give a damn what people think. Guys gave me these big smiles lots of waves and friendship stuff. The women well i could have cared less what they thought. I am always a gentleman but this stuff turned… ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 16, 2010, 3:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-europe/40029/8 "2010-07-16T15:49:53Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.