# Hello from FL **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 2, 2009, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540 "2009-12-02T07:41:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/1 "2009-12-02T07:41:58Z")
Hello everyone I’m a 25 year old male and have been married for the last 4yrs. I used phermone cologne before it was pherlure which I thought kinda worked, but not the responds I was looking for out of my wife. So I been researching alot these past few months to find something that will get our sex life going again like before she had our two children. I’m pretty much a nympho when it comes to sex and now that my wife has had children her sex drive is gone. My wife and I used to have sex like rabbits but not anymore. I and her are pretty health I mean we both eat healthy and workout everyday. I love my wife but she thinks that my sex drive can be overwellming at times. I just want something that’s going to be safe around my children. I was looking at a [pheromone cologne](https://a314.com/shop/) called Chikara what do you think? Also I definetly leaning more towards the “Turn Up The Heat” cologne when the kids are asleep. My wife is very open minded when it comes to sex with me and she is only 26 year old. Just like some good advice when comes to this stuff thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 7:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/2 "2009-12-02T07:58:35Z")
I would say my personality is very out going always the one to take charge. I’m a extravert, intuitive, thinker,judger and have a balanced sense of direction on life. But I know I have many faults just really looking for something to spice up my sex life again without me being the one engaging the foreplay. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 8:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/3 "2009-12-02T08:10:45Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum You are right no TUTH. It can sexually arouse your wife. It can help to spice up your sex life with your wife. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 8:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/4 "2009-12-02T08:12:55Z")
Welcome Blasian, I would try Ammo to up the attraction, then boost things later in the evening with a shot of Turn up the Heat. Depending on your wife’s current personality - if she needs to lighten up a bit try Spaceland, if you think more communication may help consider [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) or Instant Honesty. Maybe try some to-go small samples of these products. Be sure to return and let us know about your results. ---
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/5 "2009-12-02T08:35:09Z")
I definetly will be writing a reveiw after using TUTH. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/6 "2009-12-02T10:45:24Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. A lot of guys come here in the same situation you are - looking to put a little more spark into their marriage. I have been married 20+ years. There is a thread in my signature block for married guys - give it a read. A couple times. It talks about strategies and the products you can use. I will tell you that while TUTH can help - it is situational. You will probably get where you want to go faster by first using good communication, a little patience and products like [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Remember - women often need to feel emotional connection in order to go further. She has not cut that connection to you but obviously the kids are a high priority. Plus she is tired at the end of the day. And she feels pressured by you. My wife describes as everyone wants a piece of me and are constantly taking and taking. Back off a little with the overt sexual and come in from the side with the closeness and initimacy - IH will help with this. Warm things up that way - then think about TUTH. Remember everything about marriage takes a _LOT_ of work - 100% of your effort 100% of the time. It is 100% - 100%. There is no such thing as 50-50. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/7 "2009-12-02T19:08:05Z")
Bosshank thank you for the info and I also read your thread for married couples and I agree with the whole I’m tired everybody wants a piece of mom thing going on with wife nowadays. I didn’t really put the reset of the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) inperspective like you did so I’m glad that now I have more of a enlighten view each one and when it’s appropriate to use. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 8:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/8 "2009-12-02T20:08:51Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Blasan! Bossy has so much great advice especially for married persons. I am not married and although I can offer some I would let the pro handle it. The attraction was once there and so that is great. I mean it would be harder if you were trying to start something that wasn’t there. All we need to assist you with is starting back that fire that died down a bit. With all the information we have in addition to the many experienced users waiting to share their advice and guide the new comers you can’t go wrong. I wish you success and keep us updated. Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2009, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/9 "2009-12-03T17:26:24Z")
Thanks Mickealia for the positive re-enforce definetly need to hear that everyday. I think I’m going to go with AMMO and TUTH to start with once the AMMO is available for purchase again. ---
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/10 "2009-12-04T02:55:46Z")
Does anyone know when AMMO will be available again? ---
**Author:** ![Cherub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cherub/32/1282_2.png) [@Cherub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cherub)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 6:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/11 "2009-12-04T06:00:03Z")
Aloha and welcome ! you have found a great place to find some great products to help you on a incredible journey!Lots of great people here with good advice and a awsome company!And suggest you check out some of the stickies in the intro forum, they will help give you a lot of good advice, and you will also find one that says just how to qualify for the nice $25 [gift certificate](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) for making an introduction. again, welcome and best of luck BossHanks thread on married couples is great! Im in the same boat man! Married going on 4 years and need to kickstart a fire…I know I do a lot and need to put extra effort in different areas and use a little mones too…I picked up some A314,IH,IG,TUTH and slowly intro ducing them into my marrige. and i try a little at work also.Already anxious and getting ready for a second order…Im keeping a journal also if you want to follow me on my findings! best of luck to you! ---
**Author:** ![Blasian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/edb3f5/32.png) [@Blasian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Blasian)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 1:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-fl/34540/12 "2009-12-06T13:44:25Z")
Yeah just made an order for some TUTH but let you guys know after it comes also hopefully AMMO is available soon so I can get some of that.