# Hello From Florida **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 4, 2009, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/32992 "2009-10-04T19:20:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/32992/1 "2009-10-04T19:20:00Z")
Hey, Im Richard a 21 year old ABC (american born chinese) male. I live in south broward which is like 20 minutes or so from Miami. I work as a Pharmacy Technician at the hospital while going to community college during the day.I was looking up Androgynous information for a short paper i had for botany class and somehow out of curiousity i fumbled on androtics. The amount of support and congregation on here not to mention the amount of users definately persuaded me to see what “pheros” could do. For my personality I’d say I’m more reserved than just shy because when I’m in a situation where my comfort level is decent and the right crowd is present I can be really social. I don’t really have a problem conversing and making eye contact with women in the literal sense but my personality is rigid in the sense that I treat every situation in a purely professionally congenial way. Basically that means that I rarely joke or flirt with women even when the situation is appropriate or otherwise. Really beautiful girls (8.2-9) phase me in the respect that I don’t think they’ll “get” me so I avoid approaching these girls almost as if I’m an Aestheticist (racist for looks haha). My height is about 5’5-5’6 at 160 lbs. and as far as my approach I’d say I’m a romantic wallflower who doesn’t go out much. My face, eyes, and lips are my main selling point with women deeming myself fairly attractive.I’m looking to garner respect from people in general BUT not like a star as I’d figure thats hard to pull off with my own persona. As far as women goes I myself want to be more of a social wizard by loosening up my lighter side so i can flirt/joke more in order to make women find me as a good-great prospect. As bad as it sounds I tease 5-6 rating girls quite a bit when i can tell their into my look but when I find the apple of my eye I’m inclined to LTR’s since I’m more emotionally inclined when it comes to women so One night stands don’t do it for me. I mainly want to command some respect when I go to work and a bit at school is nice. Also want something with self effects to induce or at least help coerce myself into a more fun lighter attitude so I may engage the ladies properly =). If theres a way to sort of melt awkward barriers with women I’m interested in that as well. On a side note if theres specific application points for duration/ diffuse difference/ particular situations I’d be highly appreciative of some insight into that as well. Thanks for all the support and replies in advance =) ---
**Author:** ![dragonfly44](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dragonfly44/32/493_2.png) [@dragonfly44](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dragonfly44)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 8:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/32992/2 "2009-10-04T20:23:36Z")
That’s a great intro!! I’m too new to help you but believe me, the experts will be jumping all over this post and you’ll have fantastic answers!! I’m in south Florida myself, just further north in Martin County. Welcome aboard!!! Keep us posted on your trials. ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/32992/3 "2009-10-04T20:26:29Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) I would say would give you good self-effects and have a boost in confidence. It will make you and people around you feel good and reduce personal space. For the socials to use instant openness to make you appear more approachable and break the ice easier in conversations and instant Honesty for deeper conversation. A314 for work for respect. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2009, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/32992/4 "2009-10-04T21:50:26Z")
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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/32992/5 "2009-10-05T00:07:08Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum I would suggest A314 for the respect at work and socially. People will think you are trusted, capable and respected. It can make girls out of the league intereested in you. It gives you the James Bond effect. As to loosen your lither side, Shine will do the job. It makes you and the people around you in lighter mood. Cheers