# Hello from Florida **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 5, 2011, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677 "2011-10-05T19:58:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Eirelin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a88e4f/32.png) [@Eirelin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eirelin)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677/1 "2011-10-05T19:58:49Z")
Hello from another newbie, not only to the forum but also to [pheromones](https://a314.com/) themselves. I am a middle-aged (ugh!) female with life-long problems of low self-confidence and shyness, usually feeling intimidated by pretty much everyone I meet. Having 3 strong-willed, outgoing people in my family never helped much, either. So, a little research on the Internet led me here. I have a lot more to do, but hopefully this will be at least a start. ---
**Author:** ![Centrum\_Virium](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Centrum\_Virium](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Centrum_Virium)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 8:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677/2 "2011-10-05T20:11:35Z")
Hi there Eirelin and a warm welcome to the forums 🙂 Its great to have you here and your interested in using pheromones I’d recommend you try out some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IO and Instant Sexiness B. Instant Shine will give you a confident mood uplifting vibe that just makes you and those around you feel good. IO really increases communication, it will make others talk more which is obviously great at reducing social anxiety 🙂 And instant sexiness B will give of a attractive feminine vibe which will makes men warm up to you much easier and almost have a protector feeling over you, which again seems like a good thing for someone building up social confidence… and nothing makes someone more confident than feeling sexy I think 🙂 Hope I helped you out, feel free to ask any questions ---
**Author:** ![Eirelin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a88e4f/32.png) [@Eirelin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eirelin)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677/3 "2011-10-05T20:13:23Z")
More information: I am divorced and live with my best friend, who is a guy about 15 years older than, so everyone thinks we are married or, at least, involved, but instead, I have not been in a relationship of that kind for over 11 years, since my marriage broke up. I always shied away from anyone who may have been interested, mostly because I always seem to feel that they are just “settling for now.” I told myself that I wanted to get my self straightened out before getting into (or even looking for) any kind of relationship, but after more than 11 years, I still don’t appear to be going anywhere. I have even become worse, in some ways, in that it has even been a problem in my professional life. ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677/4 "2011-10-05T20:51:31Z")
Welcome to pherotalk I’m not good with suggesting female products but the instant social would help you tremendously. IH and io to start with God bless Joe ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2011, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677/5 "2011-10-05T20:52:00Z")
Hi Eirelin - Welcome to Pherotalk. One of the good things about this forum is that there is a whole lot of advice and encouragement for personal improvement and although the pheros are good, you don’t get the full benefit without a measure of personality as well. So we are right behind you there too. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-florida/52677/6 "2011-10-06T23:24:39Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Eirlene! I hear what you are saying and you would be surprised how many ppl feel that way or at least wanna take a long break after too many failed and bad relationships. Self esteem is something you got to work on even before you start using the pheromones. Remember no one is gonna have it all, there would always be someone smarter , prettier, longer hair, bigger boobs, wealthy parents, sexy body etc etc however if someone likes or loves you its for you and if that happens then you don’t have to worry about someone “better” coming along. Loving you takes a lot because of the media and sometimes life beating you down so hard but if you don’t have love you then no one will the way you deserve. I suggest IS/b to make you feel comfortable in your skin , soft and sweet Shine to make you feel calm and refreshed and to give off that youthful glow that make others feel drawn to you. I also suggest you read findings on experimental mixes like MX397 and MX398 to see if you want to try them out. However products like is/b, shine , IO or IH is a great start. We are all here to help you on this journey. _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _