# Hello from Illinois! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 25, 2011, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-illinois/53893 "2011-12-25T10:26:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ZinC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/91b2a8/32.png) [@ZinC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ZinC)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-illinois/53893/1 "2011-12-25T10:26:00Z")
Hey forum members. I’m new to this forum but not that new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/). I’ve used some other pheromones in the past but had never gotten any of the desired results. But now I have discovered this site and I was unaware of the correct sweetspots! From what I searched in this forum about the other product is that I was using too little!!! That is probably why I saw no results. After that experience, I had my doubts about pheromones. Hopefully Androtics products will change my opinions. I am a 21 year old male from Illinois. I’m a pretty shy person until you get to know me. I tend to make stupid jokes but it always makes everyone laugh? What led me to where I am now is because every week my friends and I go out, the girls always seem to just obsess a single person in the group. As embarrassing as it is, I am very jealous and I want to be that guy. To sum things up, I’m looking for something to give me the edge and get noticed. I’m not looking for any one night stands but I want to find a girl that I like. The only girls I seem to attract are the ones that I’m not too interested in ☹. Either way, I hope someone can help me. ---
**Author:** ![Marihino](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marihino/32/1286_2.png) [@Marihino](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marihino)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 10:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-illinois/53893/2 "2011-12-25T10:40:21Z")
hey ZinC, pheromones will get you noticed for sure. But they will only highlight what you do. If you’re shy and don’t initiate contact, they won’t do it for you. If you do initiate, however, they will make things go much smoother and effortlessly, depending of course what you use. For what you’ve told us about yourself so far, I would recommend you some [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), Instant Openness and Instant Shine. IG might be a bit tricky if you’re _really_ shy, as it gives off a bit of an alpha man vibe. So it might send a confusing signal, if that vibe is too different to what you’re like in a group. Anyways, good to have you here, welcome to the Pheromone Talk 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Slash](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/slash/32/797_2.png) [@Slash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Slash)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 3:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-illinois/53893/3 "2011-12-25T15:39:01Z")
Hi ZinC welcome to the forum, I get what you mean man i used to be the same. You’ll see with a bit of effort, self improvement and, even better, the help of mones, things really can change for you ! But **You** have to decide that being shy isnt the way you want to live your life anymore ! Pheromones will help you get the confidence to make that choice and live by it, they won’t do it for you though. Marihino told you about some outstanding products. Especially for people our age IG is a MUST i feel. The “Cool Guy” vibe you get from it is just unbelievable. I would also suggest AMMO for party scenes. To use with care for people our age to avoid ghosting. Have fun with it and come tell us how everything goes ! Cheers ---
**Author:** ![ochrismongrelo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ochrismongrelo/32/318_2.png) [@ochrismongrelo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ochrismongrelo)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2011, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-illinois/53893/4 "2011-12-25T16:29:03Z")
> [@ZinC](#): > > Hey forum members. I’m new to this forum but not that new to pheromones. I’ve used some other pheromones in the past but had never gotten any of the desired results. But now I have discovered this site and I was unaware of the correct sweetspots! From what I searched in this forum about the other product is that I was using too little!!! That is probably why I saw no results. After that experience, I had my doubts about pheromones. Hopefully Androtics products will change my opinions. I am a 21 year old male from Illinois. I’m a pretty shy person until you get to know me. I tend to make stupid jokes but it always makes everyone laugh? What led me to where I am now is because every week my friends and I go out, the girls always seem to just obsess a single person in the group. As embarrassing as it is, I am very jealous and I want to be that guy. > To sum things up, I’m looking for something to give me the edge and get noticed. I’m not looking for any one night stands but I want to find a girl that I like. The only girls I seem to attract are the ones that I’m not too interested in ☹. Either way, I hope someone can help me. Welcome to the forum 🙂 With the sarcastic edge that you have, it sounds like you would do well with some Instant Shine to add to it. It’s really vibrant and makes ya stand out a bit more. Another thing that is good is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)… you have to show a bit of congruence with it though or people might think you’re stuck up! It will help push you to not be so shy more than likely (mones have self effects on a lot of people as well as those around them) but you have to roll with the flow of it, ya know? Instant Honesty might be a good one for you too as it helps make people want deeper conversation with you 🙂 Where are you planning on using the mones…clubs? Tell us a bit more and there’s a $25 gift certificate waiting for ya! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2011, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-illinois/53893/5 "2011-12-28T22:56:39Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Zinc! My team did an excellent job with product recommendations and advice. We love it when a man is funny but the comedian or the one always cracking jokes doesn’t do anything for moistening the panties. You should try to find a way to bring your funny personality out without seeming like the joker. _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _