# Hello from Iowa! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 7, 2008, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741 "2008-12-07T19:05:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![baseball\_guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@baseball\_guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/baseball_guy)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/1 "2008-12-07T19:05:40Z")
Hello all, I’m a 40 year old male. I have been married to my hot wife for 13 years. Her only problem is she has very low libido. She does make love for me, but could go for 6 months or longer with out it if where her choice. We / She has tried quite a few things. The high dosage of Fish oil has work the best so far. Even though it works, she hated taking the 8 FO pills per day. She stopped taking fish oil in July and things have slowly gone down hill. It has become a chore to have sex again. Last night I ordered IFM and TUTH. I hope these will help get her fire going again like is was while on fish oil. I am open for any suggestions. I am a hog farmer, so I shower at night and sometimes smell bad even after a long shower. Thanks! BBG ---
**Author:** ![dahujznaet](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dahujznaet/32/843_2.png) [@dahujznaet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dahujznaet)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/2 "2008-12-07T19:09:15Z")
Hey Welcome to forum. Actually i think that you should get AMMO 2x either :] But since I’m not into it for all 100, I’m not sure if im on the right way. Anyways.. I really hope that this place will help you to get better with your wife. I’m young, but i trully understand your situation :] ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/3 "2008-12-07T19:20:44Z")
Hey BBG, welcome to the forum. It actually looks like you have made some great choices for your first order.. Those were the two I would have recommended to you. I am sure some experts around here will have some more ideas, but other than that you are right on track. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/4 "2008-12-07T19:39:41Z")
Hey there baseball guy and welcome to the forums! Let’s see what we can do to help you out here. From what you’ve told us, i think you actually did a fairly good job ordering your first order. Instant female magic will help her feel a bit more cuddly and relaxed around you, which will help get her close to you more often. Just remember that you should spray it on the back of your neck… it has a depressing effect on some guys when they are affected by the pheromones, which would be the opposite of what you want. As for the Turn Up The Heat, since you’re 40 you shouldnt have to worry quite as much about overdosing. Probably 1-2 sprays will still do you right before you’d like to go to bed, however. That will send out a sexual vibe which will hopefully get her geared up as well. Now, both of the products you ordered have been known to smell a little funky at first, so hopefully you have some good cover scent at hand… a favorite cologne, perhaps? If not, i’d recommend you invest in one. If you decided you liked the effects of the products you ordered, my other suggestions would be [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and possibly Instant Sexiness for your wife. Instant Shine gives off a signal that gives you a “healthy glow” and a bit of a confidence boost too. Instant sexiness might help her feel more sexual and attractive, which could also get her geared up for a night in. 😉 Well, i really hope this works out well for you and your wife! Let us know what happens! ---
**Author:** ![baseball\_guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@baseball\_guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/baseball_guy)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/5 "2008-12-07T19:51:21Z")
Thanks for the input. I will try my first two products then buy the two you suggested. What is the best cover scent to use? I don’t where much after i shower in the evening. Is there one that I could use that also is a deodorant fragrance? Would you use [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) on your wife with out her knowing it? I am going to try this in secret to see if it has a real effect on her. Thanks much! ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/6 "2008-12-07T20:24:16Z")
> [@baseball\_guy](#): > > Thanks for the input. I will try my first two products then buy the two you suggested. What is the best cover scent to use? I don’t where much after i shower in the evening. Is there one that I could use that also is a deodorant fragrance? > > Would you use instant sexiness on your wife with out her knowing it? > > I am going to try this in secret to see if it has a real effect on her. > > Thanks much! Hmmm… there are always the axe products, which are as you said, deodorant sprays. Howver, i’ve read that deodorants cut down on the ability of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to function correctly, so i dont necessarily recommend that course of action. For the first few times, before your wife knew about the pheromones, you could wait for about 15-20 min before seeing her (thats the time it takes for the pheromones to settle down and release less scent), then put a small spray of something on, just a hint. You could always give the excuse that you wanted to spruce up a bit for her and not smell after work… which would be true. 😃 As far as the Instant Sexiness goes (there are actually two varieties, but we can get into that more when you plan on getting them, yes?), it would be a bit difficult to use it on her without her knowing. It’s not recommended to mix the pheromones in with a fragrance, since then you dont know how much pheromone and how much fragrance is being sprayed each time. You could remove the label i suppose, but thats a bit suspicious, in my opinion. I would recommend you see if she reacts to the pheromones, then ask her if she’d like to try some herself. Stress the fact it would make her feel more sexual and sexy, make her feel better about herself (do it in a nice way, or you’ll get slapped when she thinks your saying she hasnt been looking as sexy lately 😉). Then go from there! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 9:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/7 "2008-12-08T09:59:33Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 You chose well, TUTH is a arousing product. Start with **one** spray and work up so she becomes accustomed to it. It smells good to women so no worries there. Some men users can pick up the smell of the anone but its only because your wearing it. IFM is calming, affectionate and creates a feeling of wellbeing. Use to the back of you neck at first to see how you react to it. It can cause a down feeling in some men. Start with one spray also. I suggest with your GC you try some IH which increases a feeling of closeness and intimacy If you have questions let me know **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Hope to see you in the forum Tisha ---
**Author:** ![baseball\_guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@baseball\_guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/baseball_guy)\ **Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/8 "2008-12-08T13:38:04Z")
Tisha, Would you start with the IFM first? If so how long would you wait until you introduced the TUTH? I have read here that some guys use IFM when their SO in PMSing. Do they use a normal dose or do they use more? Also. Are there any phero’s that help with sleep? Thanks for the GC! IH will be on my next order. Everyone here is so helpful. BBG ---
**Author:** ![baseball\_guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@baseball\_guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/baseball_guy)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2008, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/9 "2008-12-09T19:17:06Z")
Wow! My order is here already! Hello all, My order arrived this morning. I will try IFM tonight wish me luck. Thanks for the IH free togo sample. Regards, bbg ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2008, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/10 "2008-12-10T02:28:55Z")
Yes use IFM first to get a comfortable affection going and to slowly change your mone signature. Yes it works well for PMSing women but it does so much more. It gives them a feeling of well being and affection. Helps to ease them into situations they are otherwise reluctant to venture into. Increases affection. When a girl feels these feelings they are more in the mind of pleasing there men so a little IFM can go a long way. Do give her time to adjust to it though. TUTH I would use a hour or so before bedtime or before you know you will have free time to be intimate. Start with just a little and work up so she can get accustomed to it. One thing not to do… Dont wait till she go’s to bed and spray it on and jump in bed in the dark the first few times you use it. We had a member whose wife didnt recognize him when he jumped in bed with it on and scared the crap out of her. She flew out of bed and landed on her ass. LOL Just another example of how people who know us well know our natural mone signatures and need a little adjustment time. Its not something we are consciously aware of but it is part of how we get to know each other and communicate Tisha ---
**Author:** ![baseball\_guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/53a042/32.png) [@baseball\_guy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/baseball_guy)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2008, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/11 "2008-12-10T02:37:28Z")
Tisha, Not much to report tonight. I used one spray of the standard IFM. I did get a good headache. My wife is pleasant tonight but now is watching DHW. I’ll try 2 sprays tomarrow. BBG ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2008, 3:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-iowa/23741/12 "2008-12-10T03:12:29Z")
Spray it to the back of your neck, The headache is normal, Its the neurotransmitters in your brain rapid firing. Its normal and stops after a few uses Its kinda like the effect you get with caffeine till your used to it. The rapid firing occurs with that at first to. Tisha