# Hello from Ireland **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 14, 2011, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881 "2011-04-14T21:32:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![DLord](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/43a26b/32.png) [@DLord](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DLord)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2011, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881/1 "2011-04-14T21:32:05Z")
Hi there! I’m newbie here and on pheros as well 🙂 . Actually I’m interesting to try ones, but not sure are [pheromones](https://a314.com/) useful in my case. I have a concrete goal I want to achieve and wondering can any pheros give me a help to achieve that goal. So here is my story: There is one women I have fallen in love with. I’m a 35, she’s a 33. It lasts more than a year already. But she was in relations with my friend, so I didn’t even think about something with her. First time I met her was 2 years ago and all this time we were a very good friends. To make a long story short, she know my feelings about her. About month ago, my friend and she broke up their relations. Her situation at that moment become dramatical because she remained alone, with no job and her son. Of course I couldn’t left her in that situation. Only way to help her at a moment was to leave everything and move to live in house she live, to pay all bills and so on.Thats what I did. So, we are living in one house, she know my feelings, but I’m just a good friend for her. She doesn’t have any feelings about me, only friendship. I trying to change that, but I dont want to be obsessive. For now, I cannot get through that wall. So there is my question. Can a pheros make a little help in trying to attract a woman in such case, to make her a little more open for me, or it is worthless if she knows me well, but doesn’t have any feelings about me, only good friendship? I mean I’m not planning to seduce her with help of pheros, I just want to make her a bit more open minded about me, make her more social with me (at a moment she is a bit closed, don’t talk much with me) . Can pheros give a little help to see me as a man, not just a friend? Or in such cases it is impossible? Sorry for my english if it is a bit difficult. ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2011, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881/2 "2011-04-14T21:55:12Z")
Mones could help, but if she doesnt have feelings for you mones are most likely not going to help. They’re not magic potions and wont make a spark where there isn’t one already. Think of them like an accessory, they can help but wont MAKE emotions or feelings for you. I think you should find out if she has ANY feelings for you whatsoever and if not, it’s probably best to move on cause you’ll just make yourself miserable. There are attractants like ammo that can help with attraction, but again, if she isn’t attracted to you this wont necessarily help. Let us know how things go! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2011, 11:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881/3 "2011-04-14T23:32:05Z")
Yes, this is a very, very difficult situation DLord. Mones may help but TBH, you are also going to need a very radical change in your behaviour towards her and it may have to go against your obviously kind, caring, supportive and highly honourable behaviour. Sadly, this although admirable, this is not always the best way to promote attraction. You also need to appreciate that she is only weeks out of a serious relationship, so she is very likely to need a good amount of time to heal, get her head, life and emotions bsck together before moving-on. Until then, she may not be in any way able to be attracted to anyone seriously. The mones that could help are IMO, A314 oil, IH, IS, Ammo and maybe TUTH & [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/)/390. A314 - A hi-status “alpha” signature with a “catch”/fallout (staying close) IH - promotes closeness & bonding. IS - Happy & good to be around. Ammo - well rounded social/sexy with a confidence boost for yourself. TUTH - Useful if you are in or very close to a sexual relationship. Huever I have found it good with women in their 30s, esp in conjunction with A314 and MX297/390 MX297/390 - same mix, different scents. A good social, happy, attractive mix but needs steering in a sexual direction with a little none - eg Ammo or TUTH. IME, if she fails to respond to A314, 297/390 is the polar alternative - don’t use them together, it confuses. Good luck. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2011, 5:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881/4 "2011-04-15T17:07:08Z")
Hi thanks for joining PheroTalk. In normal situations Mickaelia, one of our forum hosts, would stop by and personally welcome you and offer [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) advice, but she has been out sick all week. I’m sorry that nobody else from the company has been able to swing by and welcome you properly and offer you personalized assistance. I’ve been doing my job and Mickaelia’s this week and I guess everybody else was just to busy to help out ☹. With that said I totally appreciate your patience in this matter. Please do not let this influence you as to the community we actually are. I’m just super glad, as always we have such a great member community who are always available to help guide you. I really wish I could offer some personalized assistance but there is just to much to do. The good news is, that I am issuing your Gift Certificate to your registered email in just a little while. I have one of the busiest PM boxes on the forum and asking for personalized help via PM, will just be met with a reply to post it on the forum. It’s not that I don’t want to help you, but I simply don’t have the time to answer PM’s and still help people on the forum. I totally appreciate your patience and understanding, but I didn’t want to leave our newest community members waiting in the wings. I’m just glad I was able to step up to the plate myself and at least keep you informed of this situation 🙂. Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![DLord](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/43a26b/32.png) [@DLord](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DLord)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2011, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881/5 "2011-04-15T18:17:40Z")
Thanx for your answers. I do understand, that mones aren’t a magic wand and probably wont do anything to help me in my situation. All I would like to achieve in help of mones is to make her a bit more comfortable with me, a bit more open minded. She knows about my feelings, and as I think this is a reason why she become a bit closed to me. I feel some kind of stress from her side related to me. I do understand, I’m a too close to her at a moment and probably being more distanced would be better, but for now she is in so bad situation I just can’t dump her. If I will leave now that will crush her and her sons live. Not sure how long it will last, but I will leave (if needed) when she will be able to live without my help. It is hard to explain, but it is so for now. So as I told, I’m not looking for some magic pill to have that woman. I’m looking for any possible help in making her feel good with me. Rest I’ll try to do myself. I hope mones can do a little job in helping achieve this. As I understand, I could try ammo? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2011, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ireland/49881/6 "2011-04-15T23:34:23Z")
Yes, you could try [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) but the situation you describe above may be better helped by one or other of the socials - particularly IS, IH or maybe IG. The none in Ammo may increase the stress on her further?