# Hello from little town of Auburndale FL

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [August 24, 2011, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969 "2011-08-24T06:48:21Z")\
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**Author:** ![Misumena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/41988e/32.png) [@Misumena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misumena)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/1 "2011-08-24T06:48:21Z")

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My name is Ashley Haxton.  
I am a 21 year old mother, who recently moved in with her mother with her baby girl, after my husband and I became seperated. I have always been a really shy person “in person” on the internet no problem I can tell you my life story with no issues. Dont get me wrong I have some friends in real life as I like to call it, but there mostly family and I can count them all on one hand. I thought as I got older and moved out into the “real world” it would be easier for me to interact with others, and I have tried somewhat but there are times I feel I push off this “dont bother messing with her vibe” =/.. I just think I need this little push to be more open with others I dont share much and in my opinion thats why people just walk away so to speak, but i dont share much because when life was supposed to give me lemons they gave me rotten lemons lol and I have trust issues, one of the problems with my husband and I. I have read that there are [pheromones](https://a314.com/) that can help with being more open, is this true and what exactly does it mean?..I also have another question this is kind of random I guess but pheromones is it possible for a woman to use a pheromone thats meant for a man and get the effects he would and attract females? I have always wondered about this Im bi-sexual and was wondering if that was possible? Im a complete noob when it comes to this and will start reading as soon as im done posting here, I want to know everything I can.  
I found this website on google a friend has been telling me about pheromones for quite some time but she didnt know alot just that it helped her attract alot of male attention or so she tells me. Im not looking for male attention just help be more open with others maybe help make new friends im willing to put myself out there get off the computer and actually go out and become more part of the social scene, although male attention would boost my self esteem lol and who doesnt need a little boost =). Well I hope I didnt ramble on to much, any feedback would be most helpful thank you =) ( just a side note that might be helpful I even met my husband online and I couldnt even get the courage to meet him in person for 2 years not that theres anything wrong with meeting people online Ive met some pretty wonderful people online who Ive grown to care for like family, I just wanted to point out more of my shyness I guess lol)

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 6:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/2 "2011-08-24T06:50:08Z")

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Hi there Ashley Haxton,

Sounds like youve been through a lot.Can understand being shy,i also have trouble talking to people in person but find it easy on the internet.Im kind of an introvert though so people get the dont mess with me vibe as well like you do.Can understand that you would have issues with trust though after your husband.There is one pheromone that is used to make people more open.Instant openness is a good icebreaker and makes you and the people around you more chatty and you seem more approachable which may be good in your case.Instant shine is also good as it will make you and the people around you in a better mood.Havent really noticed the self effects though but can definitely see it having effects on others.There has been some women on the board who have used some male products,im not really that familiar with that though.You could post it on the womens advice board and im sure they will be able to tell you more.Ive posted a link at the bottom that you can check out which might help you.Pheremones work pretty well but they are more of a booster and set the vibe that you put out but you will still have to do the talking to fit with it.This links pretty good to get some expectations on the effects.

[What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558)

Haha,pheromones arent only for male attention so i wouldn’t really worry about that.You will probably like to look at the socials if your using it more to make friends.Instant shine will make everyone in a better mood and you shine.Its also known to give a confidence boost.instant openness is good as an icebreaker and makes people more chatty,instant honesty will increase bonding and make talk deeper and then there is [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) which will give you a sexy confident vibe(^_^)Its good that you want to go out and interact with people as they help but they cant do anything if you dont talk to anyone(\>_\<)If you want to help a bit with your shyness,you could try reading up on some leil lowndes stuff.Her books on conversation and overcoming shyness are pretty good.You will be able to get a 25$ gift certificate also for your introduction which will help you to cover the costs of your first purchase.I think youve already qualified but you can check out the link anyway.Ive also listed a couple of stickies that are good ones to read before making your first purchase.All the best and hope you get good experiences with them.Im sure you will have fun here since everyones friendly and helpful(^\_^)

[How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)

[An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003)

[Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)

[Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517)

> [@Advice for a bi-girl](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-a-bi-girl/6853):
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> Hi all! I didn’t see any thing listed for women attracting women, does anyone have any advice/thoughts?

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**Author:** ![Misumena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/41988e/32.png) [@Misumena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misumena)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 6:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/3 "2011-08-24T06:52:40Z")

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Lol okay thanks =)

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**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/4 "2011-08-24T07:20:43Z")

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**Hello and be welcome here**

**good to see you here with us Ashley 😉**

i see you´d get great advice from looifookmeng .. there´s not really much to add …

and btw … you made a great introduction

and i see you´ve read the how to get the 25$ GC

what should be already yours …

**[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)**

and like looifookmeng said …

get some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) … it will make you more confident ..and more upbeat .. and it´s stress reducing

as well some Instant Sexiness B should help in your situation as well .. you´ll get more attention by males … they´ll hit on you more ..and that´s good for a young mom who has doubts about how attractive she still is

( did not meet any young mom who did not have such issues )

well … i think concerning Pheromone usage ..

you should invest some time in reading the sticky threads … very useful information there

and stick around the board as much as you can … you´re gonna love this place ..

and .. very important ..

post the questions in your into again in the main female section as there will more women see it and will be able to give you some female adivse

not everybody has the time to check the intro board …

have a good time here …

**Pago**

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 7:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/5 "2011-08-24T07:21:45Z")

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Lol,sorry it took so long to type(\>_\<)Think a good introduction deserves a good reply(^_^) All the best and dont hesitate to ask if you have any questions since everyone here is friendly and helpful(^_^).Though im not familiar with all the womens products so you may have to ask some of them in the womens advice section as you will get a lot more attention by the women members(^_^)

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**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2011, 7:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/6 "2011-08-24T07:25:23Z")

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Hey there! Welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)!

Ashley, there are many reasons why people tend to end up in where they are. And usually those reasons are personal.

In terms of helping you to overcome your shyness and trusting issues, it must first start with your mind.

Generally, it is understandable that throughout your life, there must have been situations whereby you encountered where that trust has been misplaced.

However, there are some products here which might be able to help you in your goals;

1. IS
2. IH
3. IO

Well Ashley, I really do hope that using mones will benefit you in your life as well as creating a better future for your child. Children are great because their eyes shine of hope and dreams. And so could yours should you want it to be.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2011, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-little-town-of-auburndale-fl/51969/7 "2011-08-25T22:03:24Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk Ashley!

IO is our ice breaker and does ease you into conversation. Persons who are shy love this product.

Honesty works to make ppl open up to you more. I have read some reports where it had self effects and let the person open up but I am not sure it will work on you that way.

I recommend is/b because it will make you feel more comfortable with yourself, soft and girly.

Keep us updated on your results.

**Your gc was issued! 😉**