Nice to see you here Lisa!
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Instant Jerk is male product, it has high none (the male sexual mone). It’s not the right choice for you. I think you means MX397, I hear also it is a dominant female mix, test it. Instant Sexiness is more soft, but sweetie. Instant Honesty is the trust and deep conversation mix. IO the the icebreaker, but really soft. Instant Shine is fun and mood elevating.
For more informations about the girls products:
Womens Pheromone Guide
What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers
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What "Unanswered" means and how to select the best answer to your questions
I hope you find the right product for you. Best wishes!