# Hello from Michigan **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 10, 2012, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884 "2012-03-10T16:11:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bmc525i](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c0e974/32.png) [@bmc525i](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmc525i)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2012, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/1 "2012-03-10T16:11:25Z")
I’m 31 and in good shape. I’ve been told I’m attractive and dated hot girls but I’m horrible with the beginnings of all types of relationships, casual or serious. I’m looking for a little help getting a foot in the door and keep girls interested enough to get to know me. Any advice appreciated 🙂 Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2012, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/2 "2012-03-10T19:50:53Z")
Welcome to the forum. If you can get oer the initial conversation start or even to the first date, [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can certainly be a great help in facilitating easy conversation and getting to know each other. Tell us a bit about your personality and what types of girls you like. You may get some good hints if you can supply a bit more info. ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2012, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/3 "2012-03-10T23:20:12Z")
Hello and welcome!! It sounds like you can use a combo of the sexual and [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/). Ammo is the sexual one that will help with your sexy vibe. Instant shine helps with shyness and confidence IO helps you open up IH helps for deep conversation Hope this helps! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2012, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/4 "2012-03-11T16:43:11Z")
Welcome to pherotalk bmc! I know we can definitely help you but first some more info : How did you get to know about this site what is your personality like ---
**Author:** ![bmc525i](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c0e974/32.png) [@bmc525i](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmc525i)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2012, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/5 "2012-03-11T16:51:54Z")
Thanks for your replies. I have a phobia of approaching random girls which really sucks. If I do get a foot in the door and get some game going, I can usually get laid or a date or second date, whatever the goal might be. It seems that girls lose interest fast for no apparent reason. I am definitely too much of a nice guy which is likely part of the problem. I’ve been unusually frustrated lately, hence my experiment with mones. I’m into all types of girls, beautiful obviously, but smart and career driven women is usually what I 'm into. This is also typically a problem. I need to keep the girls interest. I have AMMO, IS, TUTH and A314. Going for 1st experiment at the gym tomorrow, any advice for experimenting is appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![bmc525i](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c0e974/32.png) [@bmc525i](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmc525i)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2012, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/6 "2012-03-11T17:00:34Z")
I also have a friends with benefits date this week (sure thing). Any advice on making things extra spicy? ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2012, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/7 "2012-03-11T19:17:36Z")
If it is a guaranteed friends with benefits date then try a combo of TUth & Ishine. The TUTH can certainly spice it up but the IShine will keep it friendly. Just do not use too much TUTH or it might not be so much of a sure thing. ---
**Author:** ![bmc525i](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c0e974/32.png) [@bmc525i](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmc525i)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2012, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/8 "2012-03-12T18:28:09Z")
I’m totally addicted to the smell of instant shine. Used IS, AMMO, A314 at the gym today. Not much to report as there werent that many females there period, so not much chance for interaction. Better luck tomorrow hopefully. ---
**Author:** ![mastadon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/65b543/32.png) [@mastadon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mastadon)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2012, 6:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-michigan/54884/9 "2012-03-12T18:32:16Z")
> [@bmc525i](#): > > I’m totally addicted to the smell of instant shine. Used IS, AMMO, A314 at the gym today. Not much to report as there werent that many females there period, so not much chance for interaction. Better luck tomorrow hopefully. I love the smell of IS. It’s by far my favorite of the starter pack (instants, A314, AMMO, TUTH)