# Hello from Midwestern USA **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 20, 2011, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822 "2011-06-20T01:41:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ETPhHm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8dc957/32.png) [@ETPhHm](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ETPhHm)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2011, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822/1 "2011-06-20T01:41:41Z")
Hey there. I am happily married to a woman that I adore. We’ve been together for about 30 years and we are still passionately in love with each other. She is my best friend and the best wife ever. Actually we both look and feel like we’re in our 40s. But, I have always had a bit stronger sexual desire than her… my desires are more like every other day and hers are more like once a week. I was kind of hoping that perhaps something like TUTH would trigger the desire in her more often so that there is more of a balance between us. Am I dreaming on this? ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2011, 2:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822/2 "2011-06-20T02:01:44Z")
> [@ETPhHm](#): > > Hey there. I am happily married to a woman that I adore. We’ve been together for about 30 years and we are still passionately in love with each other. She is my best friend and the best wife ever. Actually we both look and feel like we’re in our 40s. But, I have always had a bit stronger sexual desire than her… my desires are more like every other day and hers are more like once a week. I was kind of hoping that perhaps something like TUTH would trigger the desire in her more often so that there is more of a balance between us. Am I dreaming on this? Welcome to Pherotalk! You are certainly not dreaming my friend 😃! TUTH and A314 would help you a lot with that. Also I would highly suggest IH and/or ISHINE. TUTH + IH is a good combo you should try. A314 + TUTH + IH is also a good combo. You can always add on IS to anything and it will just help lighten the mood. Tell us what you picked 🙂! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 9:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822/3 "2011-06-21T21:13:20Z")
Welcome to pherotalk ET! Pherojack gave you some good suggestions. You can still do some researching , reading the sticky’s in the men and female section to give you some insight and of course asking questions on the forum in the men section. Let us know what you decided on and if it worked out for you. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![ETPhHm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8dc957/32.png) [@ETPhHm](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ETPhHm)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 9:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822/4 "2011-06-21T21:47:12Z")
I ordered the TUTH and IS. I opted for the IS because I am also hoping that it sends good signals to a men’s group I am involved in where there is no competition, or no alpha male thing going on, I just want to have all be as receptive and liking me as much as possible. Openess with one another is often a crucial element of the men’s group so maybe I’ll try something like IH later on. ---
**Author:** ![happycarol](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happycarol/32/788_2.png) [@happycarol](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happycarol)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2011, 1:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822/5 "2011-07-04T01:20:41Z")
> [@ETPhHm](#): > > Hey there. I am happily married to a woman that I adore. We’ve been together for about 30 years and we are still passionately in love with each other. She is my best friend and the best wife ever. Actually we both look and feel like we’re in our 40s. But, I have always had a bit stronger sexual desire than her… my desires are more like every other day and hers are more like once a week. I was kind of hoping that perhaps something like TUTH would trigger the desire in her more often so that there is more of a balance between us. Am I dreaming on this? Hi, have you considered giving her a few of the to go sprays? I mean some for a man and some for a woman. If she finds that a scent makes her more receptive and feel more sexy,it may be fun for her to experiment with you! If you give them to her wrapped in a bow and add a rose or chocolates, and a sweet card, It may give both of you a new way to be playful together. ---
**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2011, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-midwestern-usa/50822/6 "2011-07-05T22:12:43Z")
Hi, ETP! Welcome on board. I don´t know what to recommend you. I´m a newbie, and also don´t have a significant other, so this goes beyond my knowledge. However, i would suggest you to read some thereads that you may find specially informative: [The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) [Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802) [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) Also, [How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I think that the combos PheroJack already suggested you may work fine. Also, the advice happycarol gave you seems very appropiate if you think she will be receptive with the whole mones thing. I wish you luck with your research. It´s always great, and unusual now a days, to see a couple that, after such a long marriage, still cares. Hope this helps. Talk to you soon.