# Hello From New Hampshire **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 9, 2011, 1:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218 "2011-03-09T13:51:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2011, 1:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/1 "2011-03-09T13:51:07Z")
Hello everyone I am a Mold Inspector/Remediator and do a lot of selling when I bid jobs. I had a 3 out of 4 ratio til a year after Obama was elected and the damage he did crippled my business…so now I am at 2 out of 4 roughly and am hoping maybe the pheremones will give me that lil extra edge I need since I am getting less calls it is even more important I make them count… I ordered Alpha A314, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and instant openness…only the 1st one is for my biz use, the sum total I hope will help in talking with an old GF soon and if I can get the answers I need, I will decide whether its closure or something I should look further into…since we didn’t split up by choice, and eventually life happened and when we finally could be together I was messed up on drugs and now she finally appreciates how much I love her and I need to know what she is feeling. She opened up to me a couple days ago about something s she already trusts me enough to be vulnerable with me, but I worry in person the awkwardness is going to reappear so I wanted a lil edge to make it easier so I can accomplish the mission and move on with my life whichever direction I decide to go… ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2011, 2:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/2 "2011-03-09T14:16:36Z")
Hi Rizingfire - welcome to Pherotalk! 🙂 I’m sorry to see your personal and professional troubles and I hope you do resolve them in the best way possible. A314 is indeed a great choice for biz and it is good in relationships as well, it will help you project status and stability/reliability that should round out the changes you made to get your life back together, so don’t discount it there. For the IO/IH - Well it looks like you are already having excellent communication with your ex, so maybe the IH will help add a further layer of closeness/bonding - which may or may not be what you want. Indeed, if you need to lighten things up a bit, IS might be worth a look. Good luck and strength to you at this difficult time. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![paradox1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradox1/32/1196_2.png) [@paradox1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradox1)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2011, 3:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/3 "2011-03-09T15:00:56Z")
Hi Rizing, [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) will not solve all of your problems. Don’t look to pheromones to resolve all of the issues between you and your old GF. IH does improve bonding though. As far as your business is concerned, A314 is a good start but you also need to be able to run and maintain a business in any environment. Increase your web presence. Cut expenses. If you have an Expedition, Lexus or a BMW get rid of it and get a less expensive car. Invest in advertising… ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2011, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/4 "2011-03-09T20:25:32Z")
Ya, I know there is no magic potion but I have unresolved feelings and I think she does too and she has chosen on her own to open up to me but I figured maybe the instant honesty could help ease her reluctance to be open about things she would start to shut down over if I asked before…but then again the planets kinda already aligned most of the way on their own, just looking for a lil extra help…that’s all and I have read a lot of the journals and it seems that if it does what people say it does this should be a small task for what I want it for…and the other part was I figure the A314 might give me the lil extra confidence boost I need to not act stupid cuz she does something to me that I can’t explain (likely her pheromones when in person but we have just been talking on the phone and is opening up already so…) and I used to have that take over a room presence but I don’t know where I lost it, i’m only 32 and I look like 20-24…I have been friends with the ex for 14yrs… AS for the business, I have everything in check and nothing has really changed except the economy so Ihave added additional advertising and the season is right around the corner when things will be picking up. I know this year will be better but it just stinks we had to go through the last two because of someone’s warped vision for an America that doesn’t resemble the vision of the founders…I still do well as it is, things are just tight because I was expecting more and committed to more things and the money isn’t always there…it’s feast or famine so my credit gets whacked but everything is always paid in the end… ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2011, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/5 "2011-03-09T20:30:57Z")
I am working on the web presence lately…I added a link to this forum on my forum too…not for my biz but for a rather good sized side project I started 3 yrs ago…but I add links there to help my SEO on the bis site periodically…learning more about SEO daily but I have great local ranking, just waiting on cash to by a few dozen more domains so all the old addresses I had can have pages too on different hosts…but it gets costly… ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 12:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/6 "2011-03-11T00:32:07Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Rizingpower! The products A314/instant honesty and openness is going to help you in your social life as well as business. A314 takes sometime before you can get that alpha vibe to trap the ladies so I suggest for the situation with the young lady you try [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). Let us know how it all went. **Your gc was issued! 😃** ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 2:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/7 "2011-03-11T14:31:47Z")
Thank you for the GC, I am going to use it on a big bottle I think or maybe a small bottle of ammo…I haven’t gotten out too much cuz my battery was dead but I can say for the 1st time in 3yrs I didn’t have ANY anxiety yesterday and am good right now too and usually I would be miserable til about noon, but still fine. Yesterday I did 2 sprays of A314 and 1 of IO before reading I should use 1 at 1 spray for a few days, so now that I know that I did 1 spray of A314…I don’t really know too many people around here so I am basically testing on strangers…the only downside is that when I am confident I get results without anything, just a matter of keeping myself confident long enough. When you say the A314 takes a while for the alpha vibe do you mean it will take some extended use before it works on me or I have to be around her for multiple days before she will pick up on it? Cuz I don’t see her often so that would make it more complicated, but if it is a matter of a change taking place in me by using it then I have time…just curious… I will order some ammo as soon as I have some more cash. This girl was someone who used to be in love with me and her mother split us up when we were young but every time we hang out for any extended amount of time she would fall back in love with me, as soon as someone would point it out to me I would act too sensitive to her needs (basically whipped) and then she would lose interest. If I could have maintained control instead of turning into a lovesick puppy it is likely we would be together, cuz when we were together we were happy and never fought…and she admits she thinks I am her soulmate and she really opened up over the phone a coupe days ago so I need to see if there is anything there under the surface…she isn’t really happy in her current situation either so I am just trying to sort stuff out. We have bounced in and out of each other’s life for over a decade but I was mentally a mess for a while so every time it could have gone somewhere, I wasn’t in the position to deal with it…but now it is ruining my life…I just need to really close the door but I can’t until I get some answers…I worry that if we are made for eachother that I am costing her happiness… ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 2:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/8 "2011-03-11T14:56:08Z")
> [@Rizingfire](#): > > When you say the A314 takes a while for the alpha vibe do you mean it will take some extended use before it works on me or I have to be around her for multiple days before she will pick up on it? It is both really - A314 works best with a bit of build-up on your skin, whilst it will also take someone who knows you well a little while to come to terms with your new alpha signature. In fact, folk who know you well can be a bit strange for a while - They maybe won’t quite know how to take you. This will pass and almost inevitably it will be for the better. In fact, it can take you a little while to come to terms with it as well - and you too may need a bit of an adjustment period. And don’t worry about it needing repeated exposure - that too is good. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 5:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/9 "2011-03-11T17:29:10Z")
Ok, well when we went out I was somewhat of an alpha personality (I think, I was usually the center of the party or whatever and everyone liked me and came to me for personal advice on everything, to the point that people’s problems weighed me down so much that I almost cracked) and when I was assertive and basically told her how it is was when I seemed to catch her eye on an intimate level, I just hope I haven’t ended up in the permanent friend zone but either way I need to know. I was thinking IJ may be helpful cuz she seemed to respond more when I was harder on her and basically treated her like crap. She has grown up some so is less into being treated bad but still seems to respond to being ignored…but she has seen me with a few different personality types since I have 1st met her…so a confident me that is more alpha wouldn’t be too unusual, I just have toned it down a lot over the last several years and I haven’t seen her in 5yrs, though we txt daily and talk on the phone. It’s a super long story and I don’t even remember everything that happened, but I wanted to be sure how they work cuz I’d rather go it alone then risk messing something up cuz I think I can do this on my own but if I can get an edge I would gladly take one, so I am just testing the waters and I will decide whether or not to use something…fortunately it looks like I have a couple weeks before I see her but who knows…I’ve always been someone people trust with important secrets and life advice but after reading more I think you are right and since I just noticed the taxes came in so I bought some ammo…got a ‘to go’ of the world version cuz I am curious of what it smells like but I am 32 and the 2x is recommended if over 30 (I look like 20-24 if that makes any difference) and the ‘to go’ bottles only have regular strength so I am buyng it more just to see what it smells like cuz I must say so far they all smell pretty good. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 8:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/10 "2011-03-11T20:32:29Z")
I think Ammo and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) are perfect for what you’re trying to accomplish with your girl. I wouldn’t recommend IJ, because although the jerks may get the one night stands, a permanently IJ personality/mentality will not help to sustain a healthy relationship. In most relationships, there is kind of an ebb and flow, where when one person pulls back a little, the other will pull forward to try to close that space, and vice versa. You don’t need to treat her like crap, you will lose her in the long run. If anything, just pull back a little if you feel she is not responding. The Ammo will help to amp up your manliness and attractiveness, and Instant Honesty will help her to feel more comfortable with you and trust you more. ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/11 "2011-03-11T21:20:28Z")
Thanks for the advice I got the IH already and Ammo on the way so I will keep the IJ for someone else…or some experimenting in public with people I don’t know. I’m not looking to pick up any other chicks, but I like being flirted with or hit on…so for experimentation purposes I am excited to be able to go out and play…it’s gonna be an expensive hobby, I can see that already…lol ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/12 "2011-03-11T21:21:19Z")
and so much fun…I ordered some p83 too, can’t wait to try that on a few people…lol…sucks I gotta take it slow and get the calibrating part down…I got a journal I am writing in since my memory lasts about 30 seconds…so I am writing stuff as I go. How long does the to go A314a last? Is it like once a day or do I have to re-apply cuz it isn’t the oil based one? I plan on that being my next purchase …Maybe some p86 too when it come in… I am curious to see what all of the experimones do but I am gonna stick to the main ones for now cuz I wouldn’t even notice a lot of stuff that may be actual interest, though after looking at that list, my ex did a lot of that stuff every time we chilled in the past…but like I said earlier it was my being a mess (I used to have a drug issue so I wasn’t in any position to give anyone anything emotionally, just sucked I waited 7 yrs for the time to come and when it did I walked away instead or persuing it, though it would have ended bad then anyway), so it was all bad timing…but things change so I want to know and it seems that I am still getting IOI’s, we shall see what happens in person ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 9:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-hampshire/49218/13 "2011-03-11T21:38:13Z")
> [@Rizingfire](#): > > How long does the to go A314a last? Is it like once a day or do I have to re-apply cuz it isn’t the oil based one? I plan on that being my next purchase …Maybe some p86 too when it come in… A314 is an oil-based product, and you should only have to apply it once a day, it should last at least 8 hours. Alcohol-based products last anywhere from 3 to 5 hours, depending on the product, and also the environment (indoors/outdoors, hot/cold, etc).