# Hello from New Mexico

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [July 29, 2011, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507 "2011-07-29T05:30:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 7\
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**Author:** ![cstlouis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e79b87/32.png) [@cstlouis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cstlouis)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2011, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/1 "2011-07-29T05:30:52Z")

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Hi everyone…I am a female in her mid-thirties that just moved to ABQ, NM from Washington, DC–talk about shock 😮 In the past I have not had many issues with meeting new people–this could have been a result of my environment and the fact that I had a set circle of friends. However, I have always noticed that I am the type of girl who lacks confidence in approaching new people and simply stating: “Hi, I noticed you and would like to get to know you better.” Although, I appear to be confident I am always fearful of someone thinking of me as a bother or pest–so I keep to myself in situations in which I don’t know anyone. This usually leads to an impression that I am an introvert or a snob.  
When people get to know me, they instantly find out that I am that “quirky” girl who watches lots of College Football; a closet geek; a walking repository of absolutely useless information; obsessed with fashion and art; and funny. I am hoping that [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) will give me that extra push to go out there and meet new people and enjoy what New Mexico has to offer. In addition, I hope that the pheromones will lead to better/deeper communications with friends and family. Oh yea…I am single, so I am also hoping that the pheromones will help me to attract males–so I can Really enjoy my stay in New Mexico 😃  
I would love to learn more about pheromones and your experiences. Thanks!

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**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2011, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/2 "2011-07-29T05:31:22Z")

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**Hi and welcome**

That´s an very interesting intro you made … i like it !

like you describe yourself do you search for some help in your new situation ( now living in ABQ )

i think you´re a fun person to be with …

that´s the kinda people we need here … you´ve found a place unlike others … this here is not only a board to discuss [Pheromone Products](https://a314.com/shop/) it´s a place where people with some interest in life improvement meet

You surely will learn a lot about Pheromones and as this is the largest Pheromone board there are many people here who share their knowledge and report about their experiences

talking about experiences … you´re going to be able to report soon your own ones … once you´ve got your new toys

but before you have to tell us here a bit more about you … this will make it easier to pick the right stuff for you …

there are a couple of different routes you can take but first we need a bit more information

- how would you rate your social skills … you say you have no problems in meeting new people .. but you´re searching for something that helps you … where do you see the knackpoint

- do you think that there are other aspects of your life where you could use Pheromones except from sozializing and attracting the hot guys ?

- what made you interested in Pheromones and how have you found us ?

- in what social situtations do you want to use Pheromones

by answering those questions you will qualifiy for the 25$ welcome GC that you can spend along with the 5$ you get for registering at the store

it will take you a bit work to get the best out of mones but with time and practice and patience you will learn how to pick up what effects pheromones have on people

there are several products that AD is producing ..

you´re interested in the social mones i think

Instant Honesty is a product that deepens conversations and helps you in establishing rapport .. it´s bonding in a bottle .. people report that it´s some kinda truth serum on others ..

Instant Shine is the feel good Pheromone product … it put´s you in a very good mood when you wear it and the ones exposed to as well … that´s very attractive

Instant Openness is the Ice Breaker …the A-nol in it messages youth and healty … it makes people more chattier and you will be perceived as more approachable

Instant SexinessB ( OOS at the moment but will be back soon ) when you wear it you´re perceived as very alluring and somewhat irresistable for men … this one will make men swoon around you

take the time to check the stickies here ..in the men´s place ( yes i´m not kidding …some fantastic general info there ) and at the women´s place

let us know what you decided and

have fun here

and you know … weekend´s close

**Pago**

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**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2011, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/3 "2011-07-29T05:48:56Z")

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Hello, Welcome aboard !

Looks like you have a very charming personality.. Chill …people likes you ! I would suggest you a few pheros which you can use:

1. Instant Sexiness: Yeah as the name suggests it turns you instantly into a hottie 😉 basically attracts men to you. You normally seem to have a cheerful disposition and outlook…atleast thats what I feel from your description about yourself which is good while attracting men as well as people generally.. this one just adds to that edge several times

2. For your social confidence issues.. try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) a few sprays on your neck would simply dissolve your anxiety in opening up with people… a word of caution if you overdose on IO sometimes you may find yourself talking to the lamppost and other immovable fixtures too… 😃 so even if you wont become a chatterbox with this it would reduce your anxiety to open up with people and it also makes those people around you open up.. conversation flows easily…light and breezy

3. Instant Shine. It is a feel good pheromone. makes you as well as those people around you feel good. and when people feel good they tend to be more receptive to you be it talking to a stranger while waiting for a bus or poking ur head in your boses cabin when he/she is in a lousy mood IS can help you there…

here are some suggested combos..:

Instant Sexiness + IO + Instant Shine (Party in the new town and you dont know many people there)  
Instant Sexiness + Instant Shine (while you are on the hunt 😉 )  
Instant Sexiness + Instant Shine + Instant Honesty (First date with that guy u really like ).

Instant Honesty helps in bonding with people. makes you both feel like you have know each other for a while and promotes conversation at a deeper level. Just take care not to mention that you use pheros while wearing IH. its that good… just take care not to blurt out any inconvenient truths while you are wearing IH

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2011, 6:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/4 "2011-07-29T06:00:32Z")

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Hi there,

Pagodeiro and aghor are a lot more experienced so its probably better if they give you the advice on products so ill just be saying hi.Moving can always be a bit difficult,new environment and places can make it a little difficult to make new friends.I also had that problem quite a few times.Haha,i wouldn’t worry too much about being a bother or pest.You sound pretty nice and you wont know till you try talking to someone,someone you dont think you would ever be able to talk to may become your best friend later(\>\_\<)

Haha,you sound like a really fun person.Geek and useless information is always a good combination(^\_^)Pheremones will probably help to some degree but you still need to play the part and it wont cause mind control(:-P)Aghor and pagodeiro already gave you pretty good advice on products so i would just advise that you read up on a couple of the stickies and wait for your gift certificate so you can grab some to-gos and be on your way to [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) adventures.heres a couple of the stickies you can look at if your lazy to dig them up.

[Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)

[What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558)

[An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003)

All the best and im sure you will fit in well.The people here are very friendly and helpful.

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**Author:** ![cstlouis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e79b87/32.png) [@cstlouis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cstlouis)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2011, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/5 "2011-07-29T06:29:17Z")

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Thanks for all the info guys! I must say that I did not expect replies so soon. @Pagodeiro: I would say my social skills are great once I am comfortable…I believe my main issue is having the confidence to approach new people on my own. In addition, to the social situations I think I could use pheromones in my worklife. Let’s just say that I am the “new guy” and I am in a position of “significance” that requires alot of interaction with my colleagues. I would like them to be more comfortable with me and open to the mission of my position (I rhymed!). I found this site after a discussion with a friend who lurked on this site. I would like to use the pheromones at work, at the gym and other occasions in which I might find myself surrounded by strangers.

@Pagodeiro,@Aghor and @looifookmeng many thanks for the links, I am off to do homework. Lastly, thanks for the kind welcome.🙂

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [July 29, 2011, 6:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/6 "2011-07-29T06:41:24Z")

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> [@cstlouis](#):
>
> Thanks for all the info guys! I must say that I did not expect replies so soon. @Pagodeiro: I would say my social skills are great once I am comfortable…I believe my main issue is having the confidence to approach new people on my own. In addition, to the social situations I think I could use pheromones in my worklife. Let’s just say that I am the “new guy” and I am in a position of “significance” that requires alot of interaction with my colleagues. I would like them to be more comfortable with me and open to the mission of my position (I rhymed!). I found this site after a discussion with a friend who lurked on this site. I would like to use the pheromones at work, at the gym and other occasions in which I might find myself surrounded by strangers.
> 
> @Pagodeiro,@Aghor and @looifookmeng many thanks for the links, I am off to do homework. Lastly, thanks for the kind welcome.🙂

Haha,yeah.The forum here is pretty good,replies are pretty quick usually(:-p)Pheremones will definitely help with talking to new people but youll probably still have to work on your confidence with approaching them although they may approach you sometimes.All the best with your pheremone adventures(^\_^)

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [July 31, 2011, 10:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-new-mexico/51507/7 "2011-07-31T22:00:01Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk cstlouis!

Aghor gave some amazing advise and recommendations as usual. The quicker you start, the quicker you can start to put what you have read (the theoretical) to the practical and it will all start to make sense.

**Your gc was issued! 😉**