Hi Nitsie Welcome to the forum 
Mia is correct, You want to look at products with cops in them. Instant sexiness has a smidge in it and its a good product. It also has fantastic self effects. Alot of ladies report just feeling sexy as hell wearig it and more confident. Instant sexiness A comes in a to-go bottle or large but Instant sexiness B only comes in large. You can read the difference between them here
Lust after me has the highest amount of cops in it of the products here and is a good chose as well.
I would also look into Instant Shine. Its a great mood lifting mix and has its attracting qualities even though there are not cops in it.
Read as much as the ladies forum as you can so you can get used to what the products are like and the best way to use them and if you have any questions or just want to chat just pop on down to the ladies section.
Tisha