# Hello from NJ **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 18, 2010, 10:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705 "2010-10-18T22:27:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Roadstrguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a8b319/32.png) [@Roadstrguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roadstrguy)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2010, 10:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/1 "2010-10-18T22:27:11Z")
Hello All, New to the pheromone forum and [pheromones](https://a314.com/) in general. I’m a 25 year old male living in North NJ. I have charm, charisma and good looks, but want something to give me that edge. After a while I stumbled across pheromones and the possibilites seem beneficial. Right now I am dating a few women here and there but no one serious. There is this one woman who I have pursued in the past, but due to some issues with her ex boyfriend, not ever materialised between us.. Looking for some input here. I keep hearing about TUTH. Is it something I should invest in? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2010, 10:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/2 "2010-10-18T22:35:45Z")
> [@Roadstrguy](#): > > Hello All, > > New to the pheromone forum and pheromones in general. I’m a 25 year old male living in North NJ. I have charm, charisma and good looks, but want something to give me that edge. After a while I stumbled across pheromones and the possibilites seem beneficial. Right now I am dating a few women here and there but no one serious. There is this one woman who I have pursued in the past, but due to some issues with her ex boyfriend, not ever materialised between us.. > > Looking for some input here. I keep hearing about TUTH. Is it something I should invest in? Hi Roadstrguy! Welcome to the forum!!! Good that you have your game on! You have several pluses going for you but we all wouldn’t mind an edge!! 😃 AMMO and a social like [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) or IO will working in many scenarios. But, are you looking to have mones help get that woman with an ex issue, or looking to get into a LTR? Give a little more or go up to the top of the Intro post to find out what more you’ll need to get the $25 GC and we can all help out with our experiences. You’ll find we are all very friendly around here! ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2010, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/3 "2010-10-18T22:36:19Z")
Welcome! Use TUTH when you already know the girl and you are ready to, well, turn up the heat with her. You can’t go wrong with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and IShine. Either one of these is GREAT by itself, and together they make a GREAT combo for beginners. Also, you can get a $25 gift certificate if you click here: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![Roadstrguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a8b319/32.png) [@Roadstrguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roadstrguy)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2010, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/4 "2010-10-18T22:41:55Z")
Hello, Thank you all for your responses! I’d like to see myself in a LTR with this girl.. I’ve known her for 3 years now. She does have an ex issue.. but It’s only a matter of time until shes over that. I think I might go for the TUTH.. bad idea? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2010, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/5 "2010-10-18T22:49:21Z")
> [@Roadstrguy](#): > > Hello, > > Thank you all for your responses! I’d like to see myself in a LTR with this girl.. I’ve known her for 3 years now. She does have an ex issue.. but It’s only a matter of time until shes over that. I think I might go for the TUTH.. bad idea? Has she cubby holed you into the FZ? Depending on where you are now with your relationship with her, TUTH could put out the vibe of being a weeny, looking for sex now guy. If she is still getting over her ex, AMMO and a social like Instant Shine could help. Here is a basic run down, some depends on the person: AMMO - Cool guy with a hint of sexual vibe Instant Shine - Happy with life attitude with others feeling that way as well [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)- Make you and others feel ready to talk, brings down some social communication barriers we all put up. Instant Honesty - Give you a better quality of communication on a deeper level. You will need to make that call at this point as to whether TUTH is where your relationship is.🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Roadstrguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a8b319/32.png) [@Roadstrguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roadstrguy)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2010, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/6 "2010-10-19T18:17:02Z")
Thanks a lot! I just might experiment with IO and IShine along with some AMMO once I get the $25 gift certificate. This sounds like a pretty good combo ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2010, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/7 "2010-10-19T20:46:12Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Roadguy! Instant gentleman is also a good way to her feel that you are that dependable yet cool guy she will love to have a ltr with. Since you guys have been in a situation for quite some time and she has some ex issues I suggest you get some advice from the men on how to handle this girl delicately but look out for signs or get some tips on how to prevent yourself from being put in the friend zone. I wish you good luck with your situation. Your gc was issued. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Roadstrguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a8b319/32.png) [@Roadstrguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roadstrguy)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2010, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/42705/8 "2010-10-19T21:31:14Z")
Awesome.. thanks Mickaelia! =)