# hello from NJ **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 21, 2011, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987 "2011-04-21T20:13:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rlc620](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e36b37/32.png) [@rlc620](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rlc620)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2011, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/1 "2011-04-21T20:13:32Z")
trying this out i heard a lot about it im 24 from central nj and looking for success! i am a current grad student i am not bad looking but very shy and lacking confidence. I read so much about phermones and see that many people have been successful and this is something that can help me build confidence and help me carry conversations. I am hoping to get the good results everybody else has been having. i will try these products and will keep everybody posted on my experience i am happy to be a part of this thanks everybody! ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2011, 9:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/2 "2011-04-21T21:56:10Z")
Hey there rlc620 and welcome. Sounds like IO might be suited to you, it makes you feel chatty and causes others to be chattier too. It containts Even a grumpy git like me starts chatting with IO in the air 😉 Here is some info on IO vs IH which are great for shy people like me. > [@](#): > > Alpha Androstenol: Alpha androstenol is a communication pheromone. It promotes communication and openness between people regardless of gender. Alpha androstenol is friendly, approachable, and can make you seem less of threat to women. It is also chatty, and at times silly and spacey. It is used in many products. It is very good for breaking barriers in regards to dating/prowling/relationships. Take mild caution as androstenol can be feminine and decrease your masculine presence, cause people to not stop talking to you, or space out at higher doses. > > Alpha androstenol is used in many men’s products as well as womens. I’m going to focus on the men’s products (some are offered for both sexes). Alpha androstenol is used in Instant Openness (70% alpha, 30% beta), Instant Honesty (70% beta, 30% alpha), Come talk to me 2 (50/50 alpha/beta), and Spaceland (100mcg per spray alphanol + an herbal additive). Remember as before with the Ammunition and Turn up the Heat (T.U.T.H. or Turn Up The Heat) the –Androstenol products offered have other ingredients to further the effects. > > Beta Androstenol : Beta – Androstenol is also a communication pheromone like alpha – Androstenol . It differs in the type of communication. Beta – Androstenol is relatively new compared to Alpha – Androstenol so there is not as much information. (there is still plenty of information though). Beta – Androstenol promotes deeper connections and conversation. It can also promote honesty (ie instant honesty having a higher ratio of beta to alpha). Beta –Androstenol is not as approachable as alpha –Androstenol. You may have to initiate more conversation with beta –Androstenol than with alph –Androstenol. Beta –nols decreased approachability is not the same as –none’s. Beta –Androstenol is not offensive in it’s approachability like –none’s somewhat aggressive vibe. > > Beta Androstenol is normally used with alpha Androstenol. It can be worn by its self, but better results may be seen with the use of alpha –Androstenol Hope this helps ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2011, 11:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/3 "2011-04-22T11:05:36Z")
Hiya - welcome to Pherotalk. If confidence is an issue, many users have reported a decent confidence boost from Ammo - mainly due to its none content, which is otherwise pretty well balanced. IJ also gives a big confidence boost but is much harder to work with due to its far higher none content and the behaviours that suit it best may not be appropriate for general social situations. A combination of Ammo and one of the socials - [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IO or IG might be far more appropriate. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![rlc620](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e36b37/32.png) [@rlc620](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rlc620)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2011, 6:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/4 "2011-04-22T18:10:19Z")
thank u for the suggestions i am definetly getting alpha314a and using iether the confidence booster or the IO to have a great combination i did plenty of research and this site shows the best phermones on the market so glad to have found u all!! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2011, 6:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/5 "2011-04-22T18:18:54Z")
> [@rlc620](#): > > thank u for the suggestions i am definetly getting alpha314a and using iether the confidence booster or the IO to have a great combination i did plenty of research and this site shows the best phermones on the market so glad to have found u all!! If you’re getting A314, and as you haven’t used it before, I’d suggest you go with A314/b. I mean, with your age, A314/a may be a bit much for you with just one spray… A314/b will give you the same type of respect me NOW signal, but you could always go with between 2 to 3 sprays to get the same amount of mones from A314/a… I personally, prefer A314/b… BE sure you pick a social like IS or IO if you need to tone down the A314. Check this thread out… > **[PheromoneTalk](https://pheromonetalk.com/store-announcements-feedback/new-two-a314-sprays-1-23a-46800.html)** > > Everything about using pheromones to enhance your social life ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2011, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/6 "2011-04-25T19:09:14Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk rlc620! mobo gave you excellent advise and what I actually recommend for your age and situation. Have fun with these. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![rlc620](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e36b37/32.png) [@rlc620](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rlc620)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2011, 1:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nj/49987/7 "2011-05-17T13:26:27Z")
hello my friends sorry i havent been posting my experience like i said i would, but i only got to experiment last week and my conclusion is this product definetly has an effect and DOES help you a tremendous amount i abosolutly love all of then especially the IO and turn up the heat. Long story short we went out with a bunch of buddies to a nice bar. The bartender was COLD and a bit mean she wasn’t giving my buddies the time of day i was barely getting looks until i went into the bathroom carried my travel sized IO and turn up the heat sprayed one on each wrist came back hung out for about 20mins ordered a drink but got real close so she could hear me. INSTANTLY i really saw her pupils dilate(if you know about attractions u know this is one reaction) she said kindly “what can i get u papi” i mean she was seriously being COLD since we got there and i played it cool tried not to get excited. So i ordered a beer by her recommendation she kept coming back asking me if i liked it i casually said yes very good. It was getting close to the time to close so long story short asked what she was doing after shes like EH usually just go home, i was thinking whoa maybe i’m not as in as i thought so quickly i reacted like really just go home on a sat night? I was like if i were to invite u for another drink would u accept she said “yea possibly” kind of cold i was a bit disheartend but she didnt say NO! So she was getting ready to take off i hung around and SHE looked for ME and i offered a beer she said NO i was almost shocked but then she said how about a shot instead? i was excited! but long story short had a nice small convo and we exchanged numbers and i texted her last night and again awesome outcome calls me papi and again i played cool. I will continue this and see what happens but i definetly feel confident i just need to continue playing cards right like anybody should! Thank you so much for all your recommendations i got awesome results mind you shes a latina bartender i mean bartenders alone are hard to score!!