# Hello from North Carolina, **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 21, 2009, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259 "2009-11-21T01:23:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Surelock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/edb3f5/32.png) [@Surelock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Surelock)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/1 "2009-11-21T01:23:49Z")
Hi from North Carolina! I’m a 61 year old male that has been out of the dating scene for more than 20 years. I’m on the shy side and won’t just approach anyone in fear of feeling like a jerk only to be rejected, which I’m not. I would feel better if people approached me instead. Then I would get the courage to continue a conversation. I don’t think I’m all that bad looking and my weight is average for a guy my age. The picture I posted is a few years old and I need to take a new one, only to show I’ve grown younger. Actually, I refuse to grow up. I was hoping the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) would give me the boost I needed. I was looking into pheromones as I have tried some in the past, but I felt I was just taken for a ride, i.e., they didn’t do a thing for me. I came across this forum and store and wanted to learn from others experiences and advice on how to use pheromones. I’m trying to get back into dating. I meet a lot of people and want to make a good impression. I thought by reading the posts on this forum I might learn a thing or two. I’d really like to try it and hope I can report some good positive results. I’m excited to be here! I was hoping that the $25.00 would help me get started. This is my third post and I still think I put it in the wrong place. Tell me if I did! I’m not used to posting on a forum. Surelock 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/2 "2009-11-21T01:53:11Z")
Welcome Surelock! Yup, you posted in the right place. You probably won’t get your GC until Monday, Steve & Mickaelia usually have the weekends off. Ok, as far as having them come to you. Get Come Talk To Me. It works like a charm. Every time I wear it I get random people starting conversations with me. To keep the conversation going smoothly, also get [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It makes others light & chatty & should keep things going. Have fun & if you have any questions, just ask! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/3 "2009-11-21T02:07:56Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. LOTW has given you some good advice. CTTM2 and IO can both help you with conversations. However as a guy you may still have to initiate but once you get something started they will really help keep them moving along. You may also want to think about: [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as a base, once they get it back into stock. It has enough none in it to let the ladies you are interested - which may help with those conversations. IG as a base. No none but it gives off a cool, smooth vibe. It may help cover a certain lack of conversation on your part. It often also helps older guys seem younger. A very nice effect esp. if you happen to meet younger women. Hope this helps some. Please ask any questions - we are happy to help. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 2:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/4 "2009-11-21T02:26:29Z")
hi, welcome. i suggest you try IG, IO and AMMO. IG will nake girls think you are capable and trusted. there are reports saying girls will feel you are younger and more vibrant. IO will increase the possibilty being approached by girls. it makes you more approachable. AMMO can help in getting the girls attracted to you. good luck ---
**Author:** ![Surelock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/edb3f5/32.png) [@Surelock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Surelock)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/5 "2009-11-21T13:30:27Z")
This is all new to me, but you guys and gals have made me feel so welcome here! I hope some day I can be as warm and helpful, as you are being to me, to someone else. I will take your advice as a good start and begin to build my arsenal. I’ll give you my results when something positive happens. I really don’t know how long that will take but the holidays is a good start. In the mean time, I’ll start to study this forum to learn how to do things right. Thanks so much and have a great Thanksgiving. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2009, 7:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/6 "2009-11-23T19:28:08Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Surelock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/edb3f5/32.png) [@Surelock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Surelock)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2009, 2:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-north-carolina/34259/7 "2009-12-02T14:37:18Z")
To each of my new friends that have given me their best advice, I have been using A314 as a base and I/O at work. I recently took some relatives to a show where I work and they were astounded at my popularity as I led them through the theatre! I’ve since received my GC and added I/H and CTTM2 to my arsenal. I can’t wait for them to arrive! Once AMMO arrives back in stock, I’ll get that along with I/G to see how things may progress. With the pheromones help aside, I think the attention I’m receiving has provided a big boost in my own self esteem and confidence. I feel that using the A314 as a base and experimenting with the other products week by week will help me determine how each product works. I sincerely hope I can report good results. Thanks again!