# Hello from northern california **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 11, 2011, 1:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-northern-california/53695 "2011-12-11T01:36:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 19
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2011, 5:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-northern-california/53695/19 "2011-12-12T05:17:41Z")
> [@Ivoryrose](#): > > Ok, neat 🙂 that really explains a lot. You are so savy. If you don’t mind, might i ask what is your favorite? when every I’m at a new resturant or bar I always ask the server their favoirte, because then I am sure to get something really good. This is a whole new venue to me 🙂 Out of the socials, I think I like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) best, though they are all awesome and I wouldn’t be without any of them, because they all have different purposes, depending on the situation and what you want to happen. For example, in a crowded social situation where I hardly know anyone, if I had to pick just one, it would be Instant Openness. If I was meeting up with a female friend I hadn’t seen for awhile, I might choose Instant Honesty for its bonding effects. Feeling a little down? Instant Shine to the rescue! My other favorite is A314, just a dab by my collarbone area/wrists, with a social product to buffer/soften it, because for a woman, A314 can be a bit harsh and she might come off seeming like a bitch. So just a teeny bit (always buffered of course, never worn alone) adds a nice little vibe of confidence/respect. A314 is really intended as a mens confidence/status/trust/respect product for in the workplace, but I’ve found many other uses for it, with the right alterations. I’ve reported many of my results here if you’re interested [A314 on a woman?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-on-a-woman/29614) . --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-northern-california/53695)._