# Hello from NY **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 30, 2009, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412 "2009-05-30T14:36:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JoeTheHoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@JoeTheHoe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JoeTheHoe)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412/1 "2009-05-30T14:36:07Z")
Hey everyone. I’m from NY. I’m male and VERY sceptical about phermones. Do they or don’t they work? I guess I will soon find out cause those stories that I have read here were absolutely amazing! I am a straight forward guy. I like going out with friends. I am a very helpful person, always trying to help, I like reading books, I like adventures. I am 6 feet tall, athletic body and black hair. I have a girlfriend who I love, but I feel like she doesn’t love me… Phermones might help me change that. Looking forward to your recommendations! Joe ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 2:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412/2 "2009-05-30T14:39:56Z")
Hi Joe and welcome. Most people are very sceptical when they start using pheromones, especially when they are not that aware of the science behind the products. I suggest you have a good look around the main forums, and have a slow read of [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)and let us know if you have any questions. In order to qualify for the gift certificate that Tisha kindly provides to new members, can you tell us a bit more about your personality and exactly what type of results you would like to see from pheromones? Where do you want things to go with your girlfriend? Ammo is a great all round product, used by many here. It’s very sexual and women love it. Turning up the sexual even more is the product Turn up the heat, but it must be used carefully. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty may assist with the communication barriers between you and your partner. I suggest you read further about these products. Best of luck 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![JoeTheHoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5daacb/32.png) [@JoeTheHoe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JoeTheHoe)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 2:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412/3 "2009-05-30T14:49:18Z")
I love my family and friends, and most of all love having a good time. A good night for me is anything from a quiet night in watching a movie to a night out on the town dancing and being out till the early hours of the morning. As far as my personality goes, I would say I am quite outgoing and love to meet new people. I don’t expect to meet “the one” from every person I meet, but I am always open to meet new friends. I have a sarcastic side to me, but am also very affectionate. I don’t really think I am going to find that special someone at a bar, so figured I would give this a try. Not sure how this will go, but as my motto goes, time will tell.. As for my girfriend. I feel like she doesn’t trust me entirely nor feel confortable being around me. I’d like to change that and make her open up… Hope that was enough. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412/4 "2009-05-30T15:22:10Z")
> [@JoeTheHoe](#): > > Hey everyone. I’m from NY. I’m male and VERY sceptical about phermones. Do they or don’t they work? I guess I will soon find out cause those stories that I have read here were absolutely amazing! > > I am a straight forward guy. I like going out with friends. I am a very helpful person, always trying to help, I like reading books, I like adventures. I am 6 feet tall, athletic body and black hair. > > **I have a girlfriend who I love, but I feel like she doesn’t love me** … Phermones might help me change that. > > Looking forward to your recommendations! > > Joe Hey Joe, Welcome! Tell us a little more about the “girlfriend” and what’s going on with that. You might also take a look at this thread > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) are a lot of fun and can have some amazing effects sometimes but they can’t make someone love you. Also how old are you? Thanks and we’re glad you joined! ---
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412/5 "2009-05-30T15:25:42Z")
> [@JoeTheHoe](#): > > I love my family and friends, and most of all love having a good time. A good night for me is anything from a quiet night in watching a movie to a night out on the town dancing and being out till the early hours of the morning. > > As far as my personality goes, I would say I am quite outgoing and love to meet new people. I don’t expect to meet “the one” from every person I meet, but I am always open to meet new friends. I have a sarcastic side to me, but am also very affectionate. I don’t really think I am going to find that special someone at a bar, so figured I would give this a try. Not sure how this will go, but as my motto goes, time will tell.. > As for my girfriend. I feel like she doesn’t trust me entirely nor feel confortable being around me. I’d like to change that and make her open up… > > Hope that was enough. 🙂 hi joe- for your girlfriend situation, i’d recommend ih. despite what the name sounds like, i find it works more on a “comfort” level rather than an “honesty” level. i use it with many of my mixes so that the people i’m around, namely my gf or good friends, are _comfortable_ with what they’re feeling. in the case of my gf, it’s attraction; with my good friends, it’s high social status or the “cool guy” vibe. a bit of research into ih will give you more insight into this product. like alexanderg said, let us know where you want to progress with your gf. ih will definitely help, there are other products that help with attraction or building comfort. it’s a touchy subject and i know it can be a little weird to tell a random forum these things, but the more we know, the better we can help. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2009, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/29412/6 "2009-05-31T00:12:41Z")
Hello Joe, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > [@](#): > > As for my girfriend. I feel like she doesn’t trust me entirely nor feel confortable being around me. I’d like to change that and make her open up… For this situation I suggest IH and IG. IH will increase deeper conversation and also give a feeling of comfort and connection. IG is masculine Gives women a feeling of safety and comfort…security. For going out and about AMMO and Ishine would be great. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is sexy and attractive and Ishine is warm charismatic charm. They have to-go size bottles so you can try things out before investing in large ones. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Tisha Hostess/Guide