# Hello from NY **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 6, 2009, 9:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225 "2009-09-06T09:28:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![johnmclennon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5e9695/32.png) [@johnmclennon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johnmclennon)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 9:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/1 "2009-09-06T09:28:12Z")
Hello, I am a 31 year old male, in upstate NY. I have a little experience with mones, but have been quite skeptical. Then I decided to do some real research on the subject which ultimately led me here. These guys really seem to know what they are doing, and there is a wealth of info here. I always find that the best info on a particular subject comes straight from the people using it, so I hope to learn alot. Looking forward to the gift certificate so I can apply it to my first anxiously awaiting order 😃 ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 10:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/2 "2009-09-06T10:22:10Z")
Hi John, Welcome to the forum, Can you tell us more about yourself and your personality, are you shy or outgoing, what would you like to see when using [pheromones](https://a314.com/), using it for business, dating being more social. Any information that you can provide will help us suggest the best products for your needs. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 11:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/3 "2009-09-06T11:05:20Z")
Hey, welcome! Please tell us more about yourself, what you want to expect with pheromones, your personality, and any other info that fits this category so we can help you with recommendations or tips. We love to help, and we were also beginners at one point. I still remember my intro post, heh. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 12:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/4 "2009-09-06T12:13:36Z")
Hey there John, as they say a little more information can help us to help you. You can’t go wrong with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) IMO, spray a bunch of that stuff on ya and the effects are pretty obvious (and positive). ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/5 "2009-09-06T19:33:06Z")
Hey there, John. I was born in upstate NY, and it has always felt like home, no matter how far I’ve traveled. Nice countryside there. So tell us about you, and what you want to use pheros for, and let us make some recommendations for you. Looking forward to your response. ---
**Author:** ![johnmclennon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5e9695/32.png) [@johnmclennon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johnmclennon)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 8:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/6 "2009-09-07T08:17:59Z")
Thank you for all of the replies. Rather than quote/reply each individually, I will reply to everyone since the more info question was asked in each. Well, I am single, and looking to enhance arousal, confidence, flirtatiousness etc. with a woman who all ready demonstrates these, but is very subtle. I am also hoping to find something I can expierement with in taking down more of the personal space barrier, because as you all know, touching without feeling violating is a great plus 😃 I am open to trying and experimenting with numerous combinations of different mones, either by them selves or in conjunction with each other, to be able to fully reach the above stated goals. I would love to hear everyones recommendations / combinations ! I am very outgoing with women I all ready know, and can at times be on the shy side when I am getting to know them. But for the most part, I am easy to get along with, and like to have fun. At times, my own confidence can be affected some by extremely attractive women (I know its all in the mind), but I think thats a pretty normal expectation right? @ moonwhisper - yes, upstate ny is beautiful, and I have never really felt at home anywhere else. I hate it though when someone from another state sees your from NY and assumes you mean NYC…lol @ everyone else - thank you for making me feel welcome. I look forward to an extended stay here 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2009, 1:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/7 "2009-09-07T13:40:10Z")
You could try Instant Openness and Instant Honesty with your woman… it’ll tend to encourage communication, make her feel more comfortable. It may help to make her feel like she can express what she’s feeling more. Androstenone-containing pheros like Ammunition may help to turn things more sexual. The -none in Ammo is well buffered, so it should be fairly safe to use. I assume this woman is close to you in age? The more social pheros tend to work best on younger women (teens to twenties). Instant Shine has been shown to reduce personal space, it gives you a “halo effect” which makes people want to stand in your “spotlight”. I find that [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) tends to make me less affected by what others may or may not think of me; could be good for approaching the hotter women, because you won’t be thinking “what if I get blown out?”. A314 should have similar effects, but can give you a “powerful man” vibe that may intimidate some. OTOH, it can be attractive to psychologically healthy women with high self-esteem. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-ny/32225/8 "2009-09-08T19:53:10Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.