# Hello from NYC: Looking For Advice... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 5, 2009, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528 "2009-01-05T13:41:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LookingForTheOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6a8cbe/32.png) [@LookingForTheOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LookingForTheOne)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2009, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/1 "2009-01-05T13:41:55Z")
Hey All- I am new to the whole [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) scene. 27M NYC. I posted in another forum but I was advised to post here. Using an internet dating site I started talking to this girl who I think is probably perfect in every shape and way. Our personalities click and we can talk on the phone for hours but I am nervous about our first meet. I am looking for something that will help make her very attracted to me and make this go well. Personality wise from what I observed is that she is not shy and really outgoing. And based on what she has said she probably has one of the highest sext drives I have ever seen. Just wondering what product would work best to give us that connection she is looking for. I see so many different products but I cannot decide which would be best. I think Ammo is great for the sexual attraction but I also want something to draw her in and just want me in every way possible. Is there any reccomendations out there that you think I should use? ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2009, 1:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/2 "2009-01-05T13:52:03Z")
> [@LookingForTheOne](#): > > Hey All- > > I am new to the whole pheromone scene. 27M NYC. > > I posted in another forum but I was advised to post here. > > Using an internet dating site I started talking to this girl who I think is probably perfect in every shape and way. Our personalities click and we can talk on the phone for hours but I am nervous about our first meet. I am looking for something that will help make her very attracted to me and make this go well. > > Personality wise from what I observed is that she is not shy and really outgoing. And based on what she has said she probably has one of the highest sext drives I have ever seen. > > Just wondering what product would work best to give us that connection she is looking for. I see so many different products but I cannot decide which would be best. I think Ammo is great for the sexual attraction but I also want something to draw her in and just want me in every way possible. > > Is there any reccomendations out there that you think I should use? Hi NYC, a bit more information about yourself would be useful (check the “how do I get the $25 gift certificate” thread in the new users section) but here goes. 27yo Male, androstenone probably dropping, the daddy of products is A314, big alpha male vibe, think good provider, high status leader = LTR potential for the ladies. Plus the self effects are that you feel like THE MAN. Also my favourite, IFM, often described as catnip for the ladies with good reason, especially if coupled with ammo. Sounds like you can probably get away without the TUTH so that’s the sexuals sorted out. Socials, where do we start, they are all good but IS is, in my opinion, superb for making you stand out. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2009, 1:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/3 "2009-01-05T13:56:54Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. YOu are right, ammo is a good choice for attraction. It will attract her and it can also sexually attract her. It is well buffered and Imwould think it is better for first meeting with her even though she has a high sex drive. After she is close to you, then you can try TUTH. It has a strong sexual attraction. Try IFM too. It can make her clam, comfortable and relax beside you. She will love to stay by your side. This will make her closer to you. Good luck for the meeting. ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/4 "2009-01-05T16:11:24Z")
Hey I see you posted here. These guys are great and you got some good advise. Like I said [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is a sure product to get. Like Jamesbonded said Turn up the heat would work also but you need a few hours of getting to know her after the comfort is there than put on 1 spray to get things going. A314 might be a good one too for what Diamond has said. I hope we gave you some products that you are looking for. See you around. ---
**Author:** ![LookingForTheOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6a8cbe/32.png) [@LookingForTheOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LookingForTheOne)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2009, 8:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/5 "2009-01-05T20:11:36Z")
Would you suggest coombining the [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) with Ammo. How would that work? I want her to be very comfortable with me and feel that click as if she thinks I am dating material. Some girls want instant clicks and will only date a person who gives them that rather than give them a chance. I also want to feel more confident. There are so many choices out there. Can you guys tell me what a good combo would be? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [January 5, 2009, 11:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/6 "2009-01-05T23:12:01Z")
So you like Those two go for it. For confidence I think A314 is a possibility but Instant shine might work better for you here. If you get the three you would have Ammo-attraction, I-F-Magic- comfort, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)-Mood Any more questions ask? ---
**Author:** ![LookingForTheOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6a8cbe/32.png) [@LookingForTheOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LookingForTheOne)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/7 "2009-01-06T01:38:31Z")
Few more and than I am done. Do they really work? What are some realistic expectations and are the results more noticeable than a perceived placebo effect where you may think more woman are looking at you but its just so you are paying closer attention because you are now looking for a result? Also, is there overnight shipping or how fast is standard shipping usually run? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 1:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/8 "2009-01-06T13:06:24Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 AMMO would be best to start with in this situation. While A314 is a excellent product it comes on strong in the Alpha department and can be intimidating. Meeting people from a dating service can be a little scary and make her nervous so you do want to go for maximum comfort and connection. AMMO will add sexy plus make her more interested. IFM is a good choice for comfort. Be sure to cover and use to the back of your neck as its a little stinky. Nothing to worry over though. One more suggestion is to get IH to form a good positive connection and make conversing more comfortable and easy. > [@](#): > > Do they really work? What are some realistic expectations and are the results more noticeable than a perceived placebo effect where you may think more woman are looking at you but its just so you are paying closer attention because you are now looking for a result? Yes they really work, but they are not magic or what some other sites have hyped them up to be. Please read “What mones can do and what they cant do” the link is below this post in my signature. > [@](#): > > Also, is there overnight shipping or how fast is standard shipping usually run? Yes everything go’s out overnight shipping at this time. They use DHL exclusively but since DHL is closing to domestic deliveries there will be more options soon. Consumer product Orders take 24 to 48 hours to process. Advanced products can take a little longer. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![LookingForTheOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6a8cbe/32.png) [@LookingForTheOne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LookingForTheOne)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/9 "2009-01-06T23:48:33Z")
How can I change this to answered? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 7, 2009, 9:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nyc-looking-for-advice/24528/10 "2009-01-07T09:59:41Z")
You vote for your favorite anwser and then it switches over. There is a sticky post at the top pf the intro section explaining it. Tisha