# Hello From NZ too **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 1, 2007, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810 "2007-10-01T10:12:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![arbek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce7236/32.png) [@arbek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/arbek)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2007, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/1 "2007-10-01T10:12:26Z")
Hello, Hello I’m from New Zealand too 😛. 22yr old male, just looking to attract a nice female for a meaningful relationship… My last one, I’m still very much in love with but too much complexly. I try but everything I do turn to fights.. We were really good in the begin but things started to change… I think she maybe attracted to her workmates or on the rebound with him. Trying to make me jealous I don’t know. So I just want to find someone new or find that fun and exciting part with us again… Didn’t really do a whole lots of research myself, just wanted to try something in a flash lol. I ordered a few to start off with A314, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), Instant Shine. Any suggestion welcome 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2007, 11:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/2 "2007-10-01T11:23:48Z")
Welcome. Please tell us a little about your personality and your previous interactions with women. Don’t hold out too much hope of patching the previous relationship. It won’t make the fights go away. Perhaps something like tuth could stimulate more interest but there would probably be more fights too. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) show the most evident effects for people we are just meeting. effects on people who know us are more subtle. ---
**Author:** ![arbek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce7236/32.png) [@arbek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/arbek)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2007, 6:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/3 "2007-10-01T18:20:30Z")
I’m been knew to be funny and talkative. Yes patching the previous relationship is something I know that going to very hard or not gonna happened at all. It more like everything I say she take an insult too now, before I can say anything and we would laugh and joke. Interaction with women is pretty at my work place and bar etc..but it harder for me to walk up to them and started talking. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2007, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/4 "2007-10-01T20:47:33Z")
The ones you ordered should be great for meeting new people. Let us know how they work for you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2007, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/5 "2007-10-01T23:22:05Z")
Hi arbek Welcome to the forum 🙂 You got some good products to start out with. I suggest while you wait for them you read the sticie posts in the mens section. Its like a crash course in pheromones 😃 If you have any questions just let us know Steveo will be around when he can to let you know when to expect your GC. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2007, 4:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/6 "2007-10-02T04:27:19Z")
Well I hate to say this to you but pheromones just wont bring back the one that got away like you describe. The only thing that will do that is when you move on and realize that it was you that was the prize that got away. I wish you the best of luck and used to know how you feel, but I got over it. When you start seeing the amazing results that pheromones have on you and start dating many other women she will notice what she lost. I think you will be disappointed if you believe that by wearing pheromones she is going to come back into your life. Relationships don’t work that way! With that regard I am sending your email GC to your inbox. It will be there in about 24 hours. ---
**Author:** ![arbek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce7236/32.png) [@arbek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/arbek)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2007, 6:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/7 "2007-10-02T06:18:17Z")
I know deep down, I lost her… It never my intention of using this to regain her back, but really it more to help and have that confident of going out there and started meeting new people again. Love, Life, Lost just one of those things. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2007, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/8 "2007-10-02T22:49:58Z")
Don’t be so hard on yourself. When I lost Melissa, the girl of my dreams, the one I thought i couldn’t live without, out of the ashes arose a new man. Sometimes from great loss comes great triumphs. How can we really succeed if we don’t know what it is to fail? Pull yourself up man, dust off your shoulders and look at all the beautiful relationships just waiting for you to start them. ---
**Author:** ![arbek](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ce7236/32.png) [@arbek](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/arbek)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2007, 5:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/9 "2007-10-03T05:02:32Z")
WOW, Her name is Melissa too… Yea, I will learn from the mistakes and make myself better like you did steveo.. and Thank you. ---
**Author:** ![gen\_tso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8dc957/32.png) [@gen\_tso](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gen_tso)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2007, 5:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-nz-too/5810/10 "2007-10-03T05:23:32Z")
> [@arbek](#): > > WOW, Her name is Melissa too… Ha ha ha, you guys were dating the same girl…oh, I’m sorry that’s really not funny…life is all about making the best of your “current” situation, and learning from past failures, that’s why I love history.