# Hello from Oklahoma **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 1, 2011, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617 "2011-10-01T02:30:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Shyguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19adc/32.png) [@Shyguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Shyguy)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/1 "2011-10-01T02:30:16Z")
I’m 39 year old male living in Oklahoma Hello all well I got my first shipment today I have read on here not to target one girl but that’s one of my main reasons And the other is I’m very shy and have a hard time meeting new people and I have hopes that this will help so I can raise my quality of life Well I started my first test today an sprayed instant openness on my wrists and one on my neck and went to my parents to see what happened and couldn’t tell but they are normally chatty but it helped with me I wasn’t overly quiet as usual. So when I got back home I did the same with instant gentlemen an was heading for Walmart and it made me buzzed an euphoric. Is this normal? Ok now back to the first reason I stated imgetting to know this girl pretty well an I fear I’m being placed in the friend zone. We talk everyday an have loads in common and like to know what the best edge is to pull myself out. Any advise is welcome ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/2 "2011-10-01T02:43:44Z")
Hey and welcome I would like to to say that you should look at the sweet spot testing thread in the mens section stickied. since you guys are friends already and talk lots, why don’t you confront her and be honest with your feelings?. I realize you are shy and I was shy once and the only way I got rid of it is jumped into what I feared and stood firmly until shyness was out of my being. What other [pheromones](https://a314.com/) did you order? ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/3 "2011-10-01T02:52:36Z")
Here is the link to give you a better understanding of the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) usage[here](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/4 "2011-10-01T02:52:37Z")
Hey there! Welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)! You seem to have already begun testing out mones for awhile, it great that you finally took the initiative to participate in this community 🙂 I’ve never heard about the buzzing effect from IG before, so it might just be sensitivity on the scent on yoru part 🙂 For your needs; you might want to consider; 1. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) 2. IShine Simple products, but very effective in attraction 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Shyguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19adc/32.png) [@Shyguy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Shyguy)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 3:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/5 "2011-10-01T03:14:07Z")
> [@Joe10](#): > > Hey and welcome > > I would like to to say that you should look at the sweet spot testing thread in the mens section stickied. > > since you guys are friends already and talk lots, why don’t you confront her and be honest with your feelings?. I realize you are shy and I was shy once and the only way I got rid of it is jumped into what I feared and stood firmly until shyness was out of my being. > > What other pheromones did you order? I have told her and got comfortable enough with her and made my feelings real clear an said she wanted to get to know herself more and did want persud yet I’m the only person she talks to out side of her family. She is shy to. So I’m just waiting on her. And hope this can speed her up. I bought instant openness, instant honesty, instant gentleman, a314 and instant jerk for fun I also got a freebie mx429 I read that everyone’s mixing so I just wanted to cover my bases I have tried scent of Eros, pherazone but only got those a week ago. ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 4:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/6 "2011-10-01T04:09:59Z")
I would suggest you go with instant gentle man and instant openness for a few or so and find out your sweet spot. A314 is good for your confidence issues but because of the authority aura of A314 it may be a bit intimidating to others… so My feel is A314 and shy guys dont spell good news for social life… but when u use A314 in work life for a while your confidence increases overall and that shows as an improvement in socializing. till then use instnat gentlemen for social life.. its charming stuff and women love it (not sexual though) ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2011, 12:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/7 "2011-10-01T12:43:56Z")
> [@Shyguy](#): > > I have told her and got comfortable enough with her and made my feelings real clear an said she wanted to get to know herself more and did want persud yet I’m the only person she talks to out side of her family. She is shy to. So I’m just waiting on her. And hope this can speed her up. > > I bought instant openness, instant honesty, instant gentleman, a314 and instant jerk for fun I also got a freebie mx429 > > I read that everyone’s mixing so I just wanted to cover my bases > I have tried scent of Eros, pherazone but only got those a week ago. Hey there instant openness helps people open themselves up to you but she is very shy and not used to this whole relationship idea, so try what the pheromones you have on her and wait it out, or look else where. Can you mention her age group? A314 and IH ( apply one pheromone, let it dry for 5 minutes on your neck then apply another) is known to cause massive attraction in women. I have to tell you though, wear it a couple of times around her, after finding your sweet spot , and see what happens. Pheromones in general don’t make girls step out of their moral upbringing, so if dating you challenges one of those , then you better look else where my friend. God bless Joe ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2011, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/52617/8 "2011-10-04T19:39:40Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Shyguy! You received lots of advise and recommendations. Think it over and decide on what you think is best for your situation because they all gave reasons for their response so it makes it incredibly easy. No rush and when testing take your time as well to ensure your results are not hit and miss. Good luck with everything. _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _