# Hello from Oklahoma

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/56577>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [August 31, 2012, 7:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/56577 "2012-08-31T07:38:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![BackInTheGame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3ab097/32.png) [@BackInTheGame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BackInTheGame)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2012, 7:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/56577/1 "2012-08-31T07:38:18Z")

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Hi. I am new (obviously) to the idea of using [pheromones](https://a314.com/) but am intrigued. I am a 45 year old fairly attractive widow (2 years now) who really would like to get back in the game of a social life. I had been a stay at home mom for the past 18 years and really had lost a lot of my social skills and consequently, my self-confidence in a social situation. My goal is to get a job or a career and possibly start dating as well. I have started a clean life regimen which includes an exercise program to get my body back in tone and I feel like pheromones wouldn’t be a bad addition to re-instilling my confidence. Looking forward to trying them.

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**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2012, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/56577/2 "2012-08-31T08:13:25Z")

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Well, backinthegame, welcome to the mone forum! Excellent to see you taking charge of the outcome of your social life. Focused activity in yourself is good for YOU as well as you’re self esteem.

I would suggest you start with some socials for sure. As to mones, IShine and IH would likely be a good combo for the comfortable, feel good vibe of IShine with the depth of conversation of IH. These will be a bump in confidence. Though, my wife tells me that IS/a will give her a feeling of Control and confidence, along with a reduction of patience in others.

There aren’t as many mones which are specific to women, but, that being said, the one’s available here are excellent in quality.

In the women’s section, I would ask that you start up a mone journal so as you get experience with mones, your observations of what works and what doesn’t can be helpful for the development of future women’s mones. AD is a primarily about Research and looking at improving mones for men and women.

Wish you well in your social pursuits!

1Alpha

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [September 4, 2012, 1:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-oklahoma/56577/3 "2012-09-04T13:20:05Z")

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Welcome Backinthegame,

I definitely feel that pheromones will be a nice addition to the progress you are making and the steps you are taking to start fresh and new

> [@Whats the difference between "Instant Sexiness" and "Instant Sexiness B"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-difference-between-instant-sexiness-and-instant-sexiness-b/39530):
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> Whats the difference between “Instant Sexiness” and “Instant Sexiness B”??? for women advice would be appreciated, Thank you! slight_smile

In addition to the social products I think either one of the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) will be good to make you feel attractive again and to attract that special someone

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