# Hello from Philly! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 27, 2008, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508 "2008-06-27T04:37:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tester1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/977dab/32.png) [@tester1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tester1)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/1 "2008-06-27T04:37:41Z")
Hi all! I’m a 41 year old gay male in the Philadelphia area, and I knew next to nothing about pheromones before I started reading some of the threads on here. Let me just say, it’s great to be in touch with real experienced, knowledgeable, and _nice_ users. Why am I here? Well, I typically don’t have a problem getting dates, but not always with the guys I want to be dating… ya know what I mean? And for once, I just want to feel like I can go up to that hot guy and be confident. Or better yet… maybe _I_ could feel like that hot guy. I’m thinking Ammo and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) would be good initial purchases… Whaddya think? Ultimately, I want to settle down with one steady partner. But I’m still in that frog-kissing stage. And I intend to have fun in my search 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![runnerxvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@runnerxvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/runnerxvr)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 5:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/2 "2008-06-27T05:47:34Z")
Hello Tester1! Welcome to the forum! Here you’ll meet lots of GREAT people that will be very happy of helping you with any advice. Thank youy for telling us a bit about yourself and how you’d like to use the products. I think that you’re already on the good way. If I may, I’d also suggest you Instant Openess with the ones that you alreadyw rote, as it helps a lot on meeting new people. I hope this helped you. Keep us updated! See ya Franz ---
**Author:** ![tester1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/977dab/32.png) [@tester1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tester1)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 6:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/3 "2008-06-27T06:02:33Z")
Thanks for your post and your suggestion! I’ll try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) as well 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/4 "2008-06-27T06:16:36Z")
hello tester, welcome to the forum 🙂 you made the right choice joining this place and i see that you’v already done some reading on the topic, i think Ishine would be a good choice for you, it’s a must have for almost any beginners, you can’t go wrong with it really. it will make you feel confident and happy around people. IO is a good choice is you wanna break the ice with more ease, it is a chatty, friendly [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/), i think it would help you in some situations. I suggest you also have a look at mystery boy in the product section, it might be suitable for you. if you have any questions, feel free to ask dude 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tester1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/977dab/32.png) [@tester1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tester1)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/5 "2008-06-27T06:49:30Z")
Thanks for the reply! Ya know… I would try [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) if it were in stock. It sounds like a great social mix. Unfortunately, I have to try something else, at least for now. When Mystery Boy is available again, I’ll give it a try. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/6 "2008-06-27T06:49:44Z")
Hi teeter, Welcome to the forum. For gay community, Mystery Boy is good for attraction. Hope you can get the ‘hot guy’ you want. Try social phero as well. Like both gentlemen said, IO is good. It can make people talk to you more easily. You will enjoy some good light conversation with people. To lift your mood, try [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). It ups your mood and boost your confidence in social. Good luck Cheers ---
**Author:** ![runnerxvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@runnerxvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/runnerxvr)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 7:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/7 "2008-06-27T07:55:14Z")
Hi Tester1, let me say that I never tried “Mistery Boy” as I never felt the need of it, so I can’t be of much help with it. Anyway, it looks like the “socials” like Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty are working well in the gay community too. See ya Franz ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2008, 9:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/14508/8 "2008-06-27T09:38:27Z")
Hello Tester Welcome to the forum I also suggest MB over ammo for you. I will send them a messege to restock asap . Now if you went ahead and got the AMMO thats ok. Just wear alot of socials with it and only use small amounts. Other products that will work well for you are IH and Ishine. If you have any questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email shortly** 😃 Tisha