# hello from philly!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/56541>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [August 28, 2012, 12:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/56541 "2012-08-28T00:23:27Z")\
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**Author:** ![velodip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/9dc877/32.png) [@velodip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/velodip)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2012, 12:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/56541/1 "2012-08-28T00:23:27Z")

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hey everyone! newbie here from philly 🙂 25 year old male, and asian…which puts me back a few steps behind already. i am around 5’8" and I am in fair shape…like a cyclist body…i bike a lot lol. Thing is i do have very low self esteem. I felt i was more confident back in middle school and highschool but after i’ve reached college, i felt different about me. I don’t know why but as soon as I felt that the girl was interested…i would convince myself that she wasn’t interested. and after many years of self-sabotage…i’ve been single for since highschool. I am hoping that through the use of [pheromones](https://a314.com/), I can slowly gain back my self esteem and try and go after someone who I have been interested in a long time. excited to have found this forum!

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**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\
**Post date:** [August 28, 2012, 8:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/56541/2 "2012-08-28T08:27:33Z")

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Welcome velodip!

Philly bud, you are awesome with that cyclist bod of yours. 🙂 I wish I could get to where you are as physically I’m still ‘battling’ my love handles. 😉 I’m still working on reducing them down to a svelte shape. You’re where I want to be.

As to confidence, I can tell that you’ll need a boost in that as you already have a mental attitude of ‘being behind’. But, I would ask behind, who?! Who put you in THAT Position?  
Others mental perceptions are their own so don’t adopt them for yourself. Realize they’re their and smash them. If it happens that they stubbornly hold on to them, leave them in their own mental prison. Work on your own mental image and others will take that from YOU and apply it to their own thoughts of you.

As to mones, one that gets me a boost in a confident self effects would be AMMO. Get’s me a feeling of being comfortable to be in my own skin. The sexy confident male vibe washing over others. For me, IShine will give me a bump in confidence as well with a fun to be around you vibe.  
For a bit more of a verbal increase of interactions, I would also suggest IO.

For a good handle on how you can use your mone ‘tools’, take a look at my sig, Intro to Mones and How to know what are hits are excellent guides to begin your mone journey. Plenty of other threads to help in your social growth as well as mone understanding.

1Alpha

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2012, 3:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-philly/56541/3 "2012-08-29T15:32:24Z")

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Welcome Velodip,

I don’t know if that will make you feel better but we have many people coming to us for this reason and usually our products and support from the forum have helped them out.

Good luck!

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