# Hello from RedHeadTam **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 29, 2008, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237 "2008-10-29T21:21:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![REDHEADTAM](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b38774/32.png) [@REDHEADTAM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/REDHEADTAM)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2008, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237/1 "2008-10-29T21:21:52Z")
Hey there my name is tammy “redheadtam” is my nickname. I live on the gulfcoast of Alabama. I am 40 and a really cool person. I do live concerts for a living and work with hundreds people all the time. From local artists to national recording artists. It has its moments of being really fun and also really aggravating. Some performers are real primadonnas guys and girls alike. I came to this site to find out info on [pheromones](https://a314.com/). I meet people and talk to lots of people all the time but it seems that most guys are intimidated by me and i am hoping that a pheromone could help me out. I do not like that most men are afraid to loosen up and treat me like a lady. Yes i work in predominently male occupation, but that does not mean I am not a lady. So I can pick up big speakers it shouldn’t scare the men away. I want to be able to go out dancing and for men to feel at ease around me. I want guys to feel relaxed and attracted to me not intimidated. Someone please offer advise. I am very easy to talk to all my co-workers say so. They just say I am a very strong woman and that intimidates most guys especially with me being a red head. Feel free to let me know your thoughts or suggestions. Thanks for listening redheadtam 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2008, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237/2 "2008-10-29T21:25:16Z")
hello redheadtam - welcome to the forum! i think the ladys might have some more suggestions for you but [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and shine might be a good start for you. Do you intend to use pheros more at work or in the evening? that might help give you further recommendations. Also tell us a bit more in which situations men are intimidated as you seem to be very approchable. have fun magnum ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2008, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237/3 "2008-10-29T21:32:50Z")
Hello Tammy and welcome to the forum. There are a lot of ladies here I promise and one of them will be by to welcome you properly. In the meantime try reading up in the sticky section of the women’s forum to get a feel for what is really going on here. Welcome again and hope to hear more from you. ---
**Author:** ![REDHEADTAM](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b38774/32.png) [@REDHEADTAM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/REDHEADTAM)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2008, 9:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237/4 "2008-10-29T21:33:15Z")
I would like to try something to soften my image at work and something a little sexier for evenings out. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2008, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237/5 "2008-10-29T22:03:00Z")
Hi, Tam, welcome to the forum! First, sounds like you’ve got a great (though physically demanding) job. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will get people chatting with you and feeling comfortable around, Perhaps also some Instant shine too. As magnum mentioned, Instant Sexiness would probably be a good bet. There are two versions, A and B. You might be more congruent with version A (more rough and sexy), but you also might like b (soft and kittenish). Hope this helps, good luck! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-redheadtam/22237/6 "2008-10-30T10:12:13Z")
Hiya TAM, Welcomw to Pherotalk 🙂 Sure we can help soften you up. Right now its out of stock but it will be back very very soon. IS/B [Instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). This is a sexy, soft, girly, attractive vibe. IS/A is more your strong confident sexy female vibe. Next I suggest Ishine, Its upbeat charismatic and draws people to you. IH for a deep connected comfortable vibe. Out of the advanced products look into posts on… Keep in mind they do not fall under the guarantee. MX135 may be a great choice as well. Its the “center of attention” mix its sexy sassy and softer the the alpha mixes. MX274 is also good. sexy upbeat bonding. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC has been sent.** Tisha