# Hello from Southern California! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 7, 2010, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-southern-california/40638 "2010-08-07T05:09:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cthulhuone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3bc359/32.png) [@cthulhuone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cthulhuone)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2010, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-southern-california/40638/1 "2010-08-07T05:09:24Z")
Hello from the sunny and smoggy Inland Empire! šŸ™‚ I am a 23 year old male who has been interested in [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) since I first saw an ad for them in the back of a magazine when I was just a lad. I canā€™t recall what 'mone it was, but since seeing that ad, I had always been allured (albeit somewhat skeptical) by this strange technique of attracting the opposite sex. The idea never flourished into action, however, as the cost of pheromones was high and the idea of getting burned on some snake oil always deterred me. Incidentally, I actually tried some pheromones from Androtics (ammo and IShine, to be exact) when I saw I could get little travel sized bottles at little cost. This was roughly 2-3 years ago. Needless to say, I wasnā€™t initially impressed and gave up on 'mones after my wildest fantasies didnā€™t fall in my lap šŸ˜‰ Call it fate, but I was going through my desk and found about 1/2 of that bottle of ammo left over from those days past (probably expired), but it still smelled good, so I figured ā€œwhat the heckā€, and gave myself a full spray on the back of my neck. That day at work, I noticed that female customers tended to ā€œnoticeā€ me a bit more than usual (which us pretty much not at all lol), and I noticed their reactions. Could it be? Positive Indicators the first time out? It appeared so. It seemed that I had to mature a little into the pheromone scene, and realized that it would take lots (and LOTS) of research and testing in order to find my ā€œmagic mixā€. Well, Iā€™m back šŸ™‚ I just ordered 3 other travel sizes (for testing purposes) of IShine, IO, and TUTH (I know, I know-I couldnā€™t resist!), and greatly appreciated the free gift of IG that Androtics sent me! I am looking for a blend that will attract girls to me to the point that they initiate conversation (I am terrible at this, and I know I gotta step my game up, but Iā€™m hopeful that 'mones will give the edge I need!) I am admittedly a bit of a lurker more than a poster on most forums, but I am thrilled to finally be a part of this online community once again! ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2010, 5:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-southern-california/40638/2 "2010-08-07T05:45:41Z")
Welcome back cthulhuone šŸ™‚ lol To get your best results out of Pheromones you should follow this guide by Steve on how to find you sweet spot (the number of sprays that works best for you) this will help you a lot: [How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1) ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) If you are getting good results right nowā€¦after following this guide for each product you have you will get even better results. Also, you mentioned ā€œI am looking for a blend that will attract girls to me to the point that they initiate conversationā€ The closest 2 products 2 this I could suggest from my personal experiences would be **Come Talk To ME** : This really opens people up to you. When I wear it I see people, smiling at me, staring at me (in a good way), and turning their body language towards me. I have even had a few people COME TALK TO ME (lol) out of the blue while I was wearing this one. This pheromone really helped me with my shyness. It helped me to know that PEOPLE WANTED TO BE APPROACHED and that PEOPLE WANTED TO BE APPROACHED BY ME. That gave me the extra confidence I needed to start talking to more people. **[Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/)**: This really gets attention from girls. Many members (myself included) also experience a surge of confidence while wearing this. When I wear it I have noticed that girls do things for me/ let me get away with a lot. I also noticed that in almost every class that I went to (with Instant Jerk on) that girls would sit next to me in hopes that I would talk to them. The fact that Iā€™ve always worn a leather jacket also helps with congruence **Congruence will also help you get better results from your pheromones**. Congruence is basically **acting in line with the pheromone signature that you are putting out**. SO, it you were wearing Come Talk To ME and you were sitting in the corner and being Anti-social then you would not be being congruent. However, if you were Wearing Come Talk To ME and you were being friendly smiling and making yourself open and ready to meet new people then you WOULD BE being congruent. Congruence is very important because if you are not acting in line with your pheromone signature you will confuse people and they will ignore you. And if you are trying out something like instant jerk and you really arenā€™t a jerk **you can _fake it till you make it_ as long as you ACTING in line with your signature you will get good results.** Since you already have pheromones I hope to hear more about your adventures with the female customers at your job šŸ™‚ ClintX2 ---
**Author:** ![cthulhuone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3bc359/32.png) [@cthulhuone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cthulhuone)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2010, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-southern-california/40638/3 "2010-08-07T15:52:07Z")
Thanks for the quick answer, ClintX2! I am greatly looking forward to finding my sweet-spot using my current pheromones, as well as researching and purchasing new ones. As much as I want to start jumping into the MX and other experimental designs, I know I must refrain until Iā€™ve got a solid grasp on the standard product line šŸ™‚ I am thinking Iā€™ll need to cough up the dough for a314 in the near future, and who knows, maybe even instant jerk (I actually havenā€™t given this one a serious thought until now). My concern with -none heavy pheromones is this: I am kind of a quiet guy, but have often been described as ā€œintenseā€, and this is actually why many girls donā€™t try to approach me, unless they are the assertive girl type (and thatā€™s only fun for so long lol). I have been thinking of more [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/), but with a strong sense of masculine sexuality (hence IShine, IG, and TUTH). What do you, or any other member, think of such a combo (still not mixing, but testing individually to find sweet spot as of now)? ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2010, 7:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-southern-california/40638/4 "2010-08-07T19:15:41Z")
> [@cthulhuone](#): > > I have been thinking of more **social pheromones, but with a strong sense of masculine sexuality** (hence IS, IG, and TUTH). > What do you, or any other member, think of such a combo (still not mixing, but testing individually to find sweet spot as of now)? Just to give you a heads up Turn Up The Heat is not really social itā€™s more of a raw sexual product. **[Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)** is a pretty good choice though. _**I believe the ultimate product that is both social and sexy at the same time is Ammunition (which you already have) šŸ˜›**_ Note: for the heavier NONE products - **you could make them more social by intentionally talking to more people.** šŸ™‚ ClintX2 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-southern-california/40638/5 "2010-08-10T21:39:24Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Huone! Now, I know am already wrong for being late to officially welcome you. I am not gonna be wrong and strong and let you read some long post. Besides, as you can see I have incredible assistance and one my A -team helpers took care of you just fine. Your gc was issued. šŸ˜ƒ