# Hello from Spain! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 30, 2008, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293 "2008-05-30T23:24:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![NigelG](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ea5d25/32.png) [@NigelG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NigelG)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2008, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/1 "2008-05-30T23:24:04Z")
Hi Everyone. I’m quite new here having just found Androtics and phermonetalk only a couple of days ago, but the talk on the forum has been overwhelmingly positive so I’ve jumped right in at the deep end and ordered straight away. I’m a 33 year old guy that ended a 9-year relationship about 10 months ago. It wasn’t a horrible split - we’re still friends and chat a couple of times a week, but our lives were going in different directions and we didn’t seem to make each other happy anymore. Since then I’ve moved from London to Barcelona but I’m not naturally outgoing and am completely out of practice as far as ‘game’ goes so although I’ve got some solid friends here, I haven’t had anything intimate with anyone since the split. I think I have a minor case of Aspergers (I don’t mean to be self-pitying, close friends have also noted this..) which means I find social interaction with strangers slightly more complicated than my peers. I don’t have a confidence problem - I am quite happy to chat with people I don’t know, but things never ever progress to any emotional level. Anyway, that’s my current story. I’ve jumped in with an order of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Ammo, so let’s see what happens… Really looking forward to receiving the first order and sharing advice with all the cool people here… ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2008, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/2 "2008-05-31T00:59:03Z")
Hi NigelG and welcome to this forum! Haha, I bet everyone that sees this forum and its post by so many real pheromone users will joing and be part of it too 🙂 I am sorry for the end of that relationship, hope you already moved on and are trying to get back to the dating once again! Those 2 products you ordered are really good. As you might already saw, ishine will uplift most people’s mood around you, so they will be happy to be with you! And ammo is amazing at getting more iois from the ladies 🙂 DOn’t forget to include io next time once you are sure that [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are effective for you. That is one of my favorite which create chatting so much easier! See you soon 😃 ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2008, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/3 "2008-05-31T01:47:28Z")
Hi Nigel welcome to pherotalk! Mockingbird has made a good suggestion in instant openness, though it could be too much for someone who may be concerned they have aspergers, instant honesty might be a better choice as it lends a connected feeling & better quality to conversations rather than just fun & chatty like instant openness. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2008, 3:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/4 "2008-05-31T03:03:28Z")
hi there, welcome to the forum. sorry about your split in the 9 yrs relationship. you have selected good choice of pheros. instant shine can lift your mood and the people you meet. it will give you confidence in social. ammo is a general attraction phero. it is good to attract girls. it can also sexually arouse girls as it contain none. you can also try io and ih. io is to have light and easy conversation with girls and ih will makevthe conversation more intimate. good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2008, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/5 "2008-05-31T09:48:29Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 I suggest you start with IO and IH as well as Ishine. These are socials that will help people open up more and will also help you for more comfort in communicating, Keep in mind they will not do all the work for you but they will give you a edge and make it easier. If you have questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will be in your box shortly** 😃 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![NigelG](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ea5d25/32.png) [@NigelG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NigelG)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2008, 11:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/6 "2008-05-31T11:08:24Z")
Thanks to everyone for the welcome! I considered trying Instant Openness and Instant Honesty also, but didn’t want to end up buying everything in my first order 🙂 I think the Instant Shine and Ammo should give me a good idea if there is something going on - need to ‘see it to believe it’ if you know what I mean. If I get even a few ioi’s after I’ve given the two I’ve ordered a bit of a work out, then Instant Openness and Instant Honesty will certainly be in order no. 2. How does [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) stack up against those? Maybe I’ll get a ToGo size and see what happens.. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2008, 1:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/7 "2008-05-31T13:21:31Z")
IFM is comforting and puts women in a better mood. Its easiest to see when you around a bitchy women because of the dramtic change in behavior. It also helps ease people into uncomfortable situations as displayed in this post… He needed to see it to believe it to LOL > [@Ammo and Instant Female+TAA=Anal, Yes!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ammo-and-instant-female-taa-anal-yes/13310): > > Alright, I’m new to this forum and I have used pheros before form other companies but holy shit, I recieved my first order and Steve O or whoever does the shipping is the shit cause i got more than I paid for right of the bat, it wasn’t like some repeat customer incentive deal, I ordered three products and Androtics were so confident in their products they sent me four, kinda like a challenge, like try this out and tell me it don’t do some shit. So I answered this friendly challenge with an all … I think starting with AMMO and Ishine is a good choice, if you have the money throw in a bottle of IFM to. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![pumpkin\_cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecb155/32.png) [@pumpkin\_cat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pumpkin_cat)\ **Post date:** [June 2, 2008, 2:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-spain/13293/8 "2008-06-02T02:54:05Z")
I too feel like I might have aspergers but was never diagnosed and don’t know if i ever will be. Although wont say that i do have it cause I very well may not. I am hoping that the pheros will help ease up some of my social problems though.