# Hello from the Carolinas! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 11, 2008, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838 "2008-12-11T02:06:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CGRL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@CGRL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CGRL)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/1 "2008-12-11T02:06:52Z")
Hello to everyone from South Carolina! I’m 49, female and very new to the world of pheromones. I took time and read up on the various products to learn what they can do, what they can’t do, what effects they can have, etc. And I hate to admit I’m as lost as ever. A little about me. I’m unattached and trying to live life to the fullest when I’m not working. I’ve grown to love working out most days of the week, either with swimming, resistance training, online skating or the elliptical. Given an opportunity I’ll take a couple of days and head to the coast. I love to read and learn new things. I’m open to new ideas and to try new things. And I love to learn about people and discover what awesome perspectives they have about life. After checking out the various products on the internet I chose the following ‘TOGO’ products: Instant Sexiness, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, MX135, and also received Turn Up The Heat. Now that I have them I’m not sure how to proceed in trying them out. I haven’t been on the social scene for quite awhile and part of my quest is for me to regain some of the confidence and ease I had when I was younger. I really do like being around people and getting to know them, but sometimes I have a touch of anxiety that sets in and it inhibits the real, charming, lovable and witty self from shining through. In addition, there is a guy (there always seems to be ‘a guy’) who I would love to have his attention more than what is there. He’s been a great friend. For a while we were getting closer and then, all of a sudden, everything just stopped. We work for the same company but often there is minimal contact, so, it really hasn’t been uncomfortable. Some days he treats me as a casual aquaintance and we may speak in passing. Other days I see that spark return in his eyes and he seems so glad to see me. Those are the days he goes out of his way to do little things for me. I didn’t know if there was a pheromone to help stabilize a little warmth in this hot/cold communication we have going on. (Confession: I really am crazy about this guy.) Then again, you all wonderful men and women may tell me it is time to let go and move on. And, if that is the case, I’ll greatly appreciate what words of wisdom you might have to share. Sorry for being so chatty… especially since this is an introduction and my first email. But there is so much life ahead of me and I don’t want to miss anymore of it. Thank you all for being so awesome! Best wishes to you all in your individual quests! Now… can anyone give me ideas how to proceed with trying my new little TO GO wonders? ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/2 "2008-12-11T03:11:05Z")
Hi, welcome to the forum. Sounds like you’ve made great choices. You should have a lot of fun with all those goodies. Take one product at a time and spray it on yourself like cologne (neck, arms) start out with a single spray. Test each product for a couple of days until you begin to understand the properties of each product. After a while, you can try several products together. Make sure to read through the Women’s section for additional advice. Good luck here! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 3:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/3 "2008-12-11T03:13:36Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Another person from the Carolinas - those states are goona be under a huge phero cloud soon! It looks like you got a great spread of products. They should be able to help you with Mr. Hot and Cold. Hard to say why he is like that - could be a lot of things at play. What I would tell you is to try things one at a time at first. The IO, IShine and and IH will be the easiest to test and see results with first. Of course you know the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A is the one you want for Mr. TG. Hope this gets you started in the right direction. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 3:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/4 "2008-12-11T03:14:41Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. To regain confidence, try [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and B. A will make you sexy and tough lady, just like Angelina Jolie. B will make you softer and sexy. Shine is good to boost confincdence too. It also lift your mood and the people around you. For him, try some IH. It can make him closer to you. He will tak more personal, meaningful and longer with you. Have fun ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/5 "2008-12-11T03:19:26Z")
Hey there carolinagirl and welcome to the forums! Glad to see you finally got this thread up and running. 🙂 Wow! Sounds like you may be even more active than i am! Way to go, girl! Robbie has really given you the best advice for trying out each product. Start off slow with one product at a time and slowly increase the number of sprays you use each time, until you find that sweet spot for your body. Some of the best places for applying [pheromones](https://a314.com/) are your pulse points (wrists, inside of elbows, neck, chest) as well as your hair. You can vary where you wear each product, based on who you want to affect. Places like wrists and inside of the elbows are better for other people, when you reach by them and such. Places like the neck and chest can be great when someone is going to be closer to you. Hope you have a great time trying out your products and good luck catching your man’s eye again! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![CGRL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@CGRL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CGRL)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/6 "2008-12-11T03:33:00Z")
Thanks to all of you who have responded so far. I appreciate that you’re making me feel welcome and taking the time to give helpful advice. I’ll certainly employ the suggestions and I’m excited at the possibilities. Again, thank you all for everything! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 7:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/7 "2008-12-11T07:36:12Z")
Hello, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Great intro. Can I ask you what “online skating” means ? I have never heard of this as a workout and I am always looking at new interesting things to try out in that area. Well you have a nice assortment of products. I suggest you hang on to your GC for when they release LAM again and work with what you have in your new mone arsenal now. Lam is the high copulin formula. As we age into our late 30’s and 40’s we begin to make less copulins. These are the vaginal secretions of young fertile females and they signal attraction and sexual attention from men. Hold of on using the TUTH for now. Its a mens product. The ladies here use it to increase arousal in ourselves and to make men more aggressive during sex. To much anone on a women can make us cranky and out of sorts. As the guys suggested start with one product at a time to get a good feel for what each one can do. Your 49 so you will use more then the average 20 year old would so you can start with 2 to 3 sprays if you like. We do generally suggest starting with one though but being in my 40’s and using all the products you have there I know you will need more the 1 spray. About the guy at work, dont give up just yet. Could be he is shy or has approach anxiety. Its hard to say what will work on him but all of them should effect him in some way. Give him time to respond to each dont get disappointed if he dosnt react instantly. Sometimes it takes a little time for them to process this new feeling they are feeling and to decide to react on it especially with people who know us already. If you have any questions or need help just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 🙂 Oh and can you tell me how you found out about mones and this site ? It helps Androtics see where there customer base is coming from. Have fun, cya in the forum Tisha ---
**Author:** ![CGRL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea5d25/32.png) [@CGRL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CGRL)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/8 "2008-12-11T08:13:15Z")
Tisha23 - Thanks for the welcome and support. And, Oh My Gosh! About the ‘Online Skating’ thing… No matter how many times I proof read a post, I miss something. What I MEANT to say was ‘Inline Skating’; what some people still might call rollerblading. But that is funny. Maybe we have a new concept. Sorry about my faux pas! Online Skating - how funny! To answer the question about how I found out about the pheromones and this particular site. Exploration. I knew I wanted to try pheromones and began utilizing the search engines seeking legitimate pheromone businesses and learn more about pheromones. Pheromonetalk and the Androtics products came up frequently and seemed to have the best and most consistent overall support and ‘thumbs up’ for the products from buyers/users. Hope that answers your question adequately. Again, thank you for the support. I look forward to learning more and to getting to know you all! Have a great day! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-carolinas/23838/9 "2008-12-11T08:38:46Z")
Ohhhh lol 😃 With all the crazy new things coming out everyday to try in the workout area I thought I was missing out on something LOL . No worries about the typo, we all do it. Usually I pick up on it though 😛 but that one threw me. Thanks for letting us know how you found us. If you need anything or have questions just let me know. I look forward to chatting with you in the forum. Tisha