# Hello from The D!

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**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [May 10, 2009, 5:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-d/28839 "2009-05-10T17:06:44Z")\
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**Author:** ![WillamX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/5e9695/32.png) [@WillamX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WillamX)\
**Post date:** [May 11, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-d/28839/6 "2009-05-11T01:59:33Z")

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> [@remmy](#):
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> hey welcome!!
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> like xiphoid said, if you could tell us a bit more about where and how u want to use th epheros it would help a lot 🙂
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> u said it’s for your marriage… so if you want to add some more to the bedroom or do you want to increase the amount of conversations etc etc.
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> also, if you can tell us a bit more about your personality, that woul dbe great too!1
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> welcome!

Thanks for the warm welcome Remmy, Xiphoid and everyone else.

Okay, my personality: I’m outgoing, would consider myself self-confident. I’m comfortable with both groups and being by myself. So I have a weird introvert/extrovert dichotomy. Have no problems making conversation with people – especially women. I’ve been described as “charismatic” and that people like to talk to me or are drawn to me. Have a lot of classic Leo traits in that regard, including that “born leader” kind of thing.

Have a high sex drive naturally, which leads me to believe I have a fair amount of testosterone.

Not really looking to pheros for the office or my career – I feel like I do pretty well in that sphere. Plus, I already have some issues with 20-something women in the office hitting on me. So I don’t think I really want to encourage that any more than seems to happen naturally.

My main interest is in experimenting around with pheros for my wife. Here is a link to a post specifically about this issue from another thread:

> [@Advice for Pheros with Spouse](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-pheros-with-spouse/28840/2):
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> Hi there, I cant really help to much with what you are experiencing, but this thread my help. I can say, after my x-wife had our daughter and we started to use condoms as bc, I truly believe it was the begining of the end of our sex life. The connection that was once there, was not the same. Anyway, hopefully this thread will keep you busy until some of the married guys can get to this thread. Oh, and go to the search function and look for a forum member named Bosshank. He is married, and uses …

Bottom line: We used to have a great sex life – bordering on phreaky great with streaks of sheer brilliance every now and then. But now it seems that I constantly have to initiate things. This did not seem to be case when she was on the birth control pill. However, after she went off it, over time the chemistry between us seemed to change. I’m still very attracted to her, but she’s just not feeling the sparks as much as before.

In terms of my goals and expectations with her – I’d like to see her get in the mood more often and have some of that crazy sex we had only a few years ago. It’s torture to be married to someone you adore, but can’t get the sparks flying. It’s especially frustrating because I don’t seem to have that issue with women I’m NOT married to.

In terms of her – I would say she’s a bit alpha herself. Definitely has a dominant streak that runs in her (very sexy, actually), but has a sensitive side. “Newness” and “excitement” are important to her. She’s also bisexual, which as I pointed out in my other post, may complicate things a bit with pheros. And no, she doesn’t have a girlfriend who is taking care of her “needs” – although I sometimes think that if she did, we’d actually have better sex. In the past when she’s been involved with other women, she’s been much more interested in also having sex with me.

So, is that enough info to start with?

By the way Remmy, great dress in your profile pic. It’s as if your sending pheros through my broadband connection. 😉

Thanks!

William

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