# Hello from the desert! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 9, 2011, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-desert/53681 "2011-12-09T19:37:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rknlvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c5a1d2/32.png) [@rknlvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rknlvr)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-desert/53681/1 "2011-12-09T19:37:31Z")
Hi, my name is Ed. I’m pushing 50 but still in good shape. I’ve been married to my second wife for over 7 years. she is 5 years younger. She works so hard at her job and at being a good mom to our kids that she’s quite tired by bedtime. whether or not she’s pre -menopausal I don’t know, but her interest in sex seems to be decreasing. We love each other, and she says that once we get started,she enjoys our lovemaking, but it’s very hard to get her started. I want to spice up the relationship and enjoy more frequency. I dabbled in [pheromones](https://a314.com/) with a product called Andron by Jovan that my first Wife bought me years ago. she liked and recognized the scent, so when I wore it she knew what was up and was usually happy and agreeable,but who knows if it really worked. not exactly a double-blind test. I want to find a product with little or no scent that my wife won’t be able to ignore. A mix would be nice. something to assure her of my intent and ability to protect and provide as well as “knock her socks off”, and strong enough to stop her in her tracks no matter how busy she is. I know it’s a tall order but maybe I can interact with more experienced users on this forum and learn enough to fill it, while providing good feedback for others who seek similar results I’m looking forward to this!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![arcabiff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b9bd4f/32.png) [@arcabiff](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/arcabiff)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 7:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-desert/53681/2 "2011-12-09T19:46:13Z")
Hello there and welcome! What I noticed first of all from your question about fragrance. You can order custom orders and choose different fragrances. From my personal point of view, many of the products are quite subtle in terms of smell. I haven’t read about Andron by Jovan, but it’s good you have some prior experience. Remember to read the good FAQs and Application Point 101 on the Men’s Forum side. Kids can take quite a toll on life, even though I for myself have none. But thinking myself as a kid to my parents, well, heck, they’ve done a lot of work! In your situation I might suggest some TUTH for the bed side. Also socials are good, like maybe Instant Shine or Openness. I think you might have good connection already, for being married for 7 years, so [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is maybe not necessary. It could come handy in other situations though. Anyhow, Instant Shine for feel-good spirits and more energy overall. TUTH for bed time usage, when it’s time for action. Build some tension, lots of kisses and all that. Well, that’s just what I’ve read … I hope you will enjoy your adventure with the pheromones! I’m just starting as well. There are my “tips”, surely more people will answer to you soon! ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 7:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-desert/53681/3 "2011-12-09T19:46:16Z")
Hello and welcome!! Usually when people are looking for the spark back into their sex life, TUTH seems to be one of the good ones to go with. So I suggest you give that a shot. Most products are currently scented, so that might be an issue. However they are working on new stealth fusion, which will allow the products to be unscented, but not sure how far away that will be. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2011, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-desert/53681/4 "2011-12-10T02:30:38Z")
Just popping in to say hello! I was looking at the recommendations and yes definitely try out TUTH for in the bedroom. But from experience one on one bonding is great with IH, its good for an outside of the bedroom solution. Picture dinner with candles or looking into one another’s eyes sort of thing. IS is good for cheering you too up, could be used at the same time as IH or TUTH. Something fun to play with. 🙂 I would recommend IO if you were looking to talk to new people sort of thing, or if you want quality of conversation as opposed to quantity. I wouldn’t go with something unscented, they don’t work as well but the scent is light I believe so you can cover it with what you usually like. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2011, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-desert/53681/5 "2011-12-14T00:09:25Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Ed! A few products come to mind when I read your intro. You want your wife to see you as that dependable yet cool guy so instant gentleman does just that [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) for confidence and to let her know you are interested tuth just when you think you caught her attention and its time to take it to the bedroom. All attraction products but gives of different vibes you can use at diff times to lure your wife back into your bed _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _