# Hello from the Midwest **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 26, 2009, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386 "2009-04-26T00:05:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/1 "2009-04-26T00:05:03Z")
Hi everyone! My name is Tara and I was searching for new perfume on Ebay (with the economy it seems the “fluff” items are going for less) anyway this is when I stumbled across some perfume with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I wanted to research the pheromones a little (having heard about them, but not knowing much about them) and I was brought to this site. On to why I’m here now…I live in the Midwest (USA) but was not born nor raised here (your probably thinking where’s this going 🙄) the Midwest is known for the friendly and kind people that live here but interestingly enough, even though people are very kind here, the cliches are a lot tighter and harder to get into ☹, thus I would like to try something that will make me irresistible to befriend 🙂. I want to be happier by being more accepted or trusted in being the “outsider” here. In addition to this I am a very happily married women of 11 years, but I am am always interested in things to turn up the heat in the bedroom! A little about myself: I am 29 years old I have always looked like the girl that would I love physical activity I love Jazzercise I love to eat if the food is good I love to learn new things I love my husband Thanks for taking the time to read my introduction! Tara ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/2 "2009-04-26T00:16:46Z")
Hello and welcome! 🙂 I’m glad you chose Androtics for your phero needs. You will be very happy when you try them. So you are looking to gain friendship? IH is great for that. It makes people closer to you and brings out intimacy in others and in yourself. IO is another great one because it melts away the barriers and helps you to have an effortless conversation. Are you just looking for friendship or would you like to use pheros for something else? Romance? Sex? Work? Respect? Also, what type of personality do you have? Are you friendly, shy, confident, talkative? And finally, would you say your more of an aggressive or a sweet women? Please get back to me and I’ll be happy to help as best I can. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/3 "2009-04-26T00:36:03Z")
Tara, welcome. Based on your description, I would recommend [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). I suggest you have a good read of the [Women’s Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) and let us know if you have any additional questions. Once you start using pheromones be sure to return and let us know your results 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/4 "2009-04-26T00:38:30Z")
Thanks for getting back to me there are a lot of choices with pheromones!🙂 _Are you just looking for friendship or would you like to use pheros for something else? Romance? Sex? Work? Respect?_ I am looking for respect, openness and friendship at work. For home I am just looking for something that will turn up the heat and possibly something for my husband. We are both O+ bloods types (I only know this because I take blood for a living!) _Also, what type of personality do you have? Are you friendly, shy, confident, talkative?_ Well I guess I am a little to open (leaving myself open to judgment more than I should), very outgoing, which sometimes makes women instantly hate me and look for the bad (hence too open), I seem very confident but inside not so much, I am sometimes to talkative when I get nervous! I am a friendly person. _And finally, would you say your more of an aggressive or a sweet women?_ I am aggressive and sweet, nice to anyone (and I mean anyone), I am pretty aggressive also…when I see something I want, I go after it and generally find a way to get it. I am also very driven…seen in every aspect of my life! ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/5 "2009-04-26T00:49:17Z")
Hey there! 🙂 For openness I suggest you try some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)! It will help get people talking to you more at work and you will make more friends. I think Instant Sexiness is a must for every girl. Instant sexiness comes in two versions… A and B. A is more strong and confident (Angelina Jolie type) B is more soft and kittenish (Marilyn Monroe type). Would you consider yourself to be more sexy or cute? So nice to meet you 🙂 ~Tiffany~ ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/6 "2009-04-26T00:49:22Z")
Tara, you sound like a very interesting chick! Hey I suggest you wait for Tisha to pop in and give you some final advice before she gives you the $25 gift certificate. Also, make sure you spend a decent amount of time reading the Womens Forum which contains many experiments from ladies just like you. Cheers 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/7 "2009-04-26T00:57:08Z")
_Would you consider yourself to be more sexy or cute?_ Well Tiffany I have been compared to Marilyn Monroe (cute) by many of my friends so I guess I would say that is what I am, but I would like to be a little more Angelina Joliess (sexy)! LOL We always want what we are not aye? ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/8 "2009-04-26T00:59:26Z")
_Hey I suggest you wait for Tisha to pop in and give you some final advice before she gives you the $25 gift certificate._ Thanks for the advice AlexanderG, I will! ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/9 "2009-04-26T01:01:19Z")
_So nice to meet you_ BTW it’s nice to meet you also Tiffany!🙂 ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/10 "2009-04-26T01:08:34Z")
> [@Tara0528](#): > > _Would you consider yourself to be more sexy or cute?_ > > Well Tiffany I have been compared to Marilyn Monroe (cute) by many of my friends so I guess I would say that is what I am, but I would like to be a little more Angelina Joliess (sexy)! LOL We always want what we are not aye? > > ~Tara Yeah many people who are cute usually do better with the IS/a because it brings to them something they don’t have. Like me, I am more aggressive and dominant so I do better with IS/b cus it makes me cute and approachable. I think you’d do great with IS/a 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/11 "2009-04-26T01:12:22Z")
_Yeah many people who are cute usually do better with the IS/a because it brings to them something they don’t have. Like me, I am more aggressive and dominant so I do better with IS/b cus it makes me cute and approachable. I think you’d do great with IS/a_ Thanks for the advice Tiffany, I wouldn’t have guessed that! ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/12 "2009-04-26T01:21:55Z")
> [@Tara0528](#): > > _Yeah many people who are cute usually do better with the IS/a because it brings to them something they don’t have. Like me, I am more aggressive and dominant so I do better with IS/b cus it makes me cute and approachable. I think you’d do great with IS/a_ > > Thanks for the advice Tiffany, I wouldn’t have guessed that! > > ~Tara Whoa, huh? My name is not Tiffany ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/13 "2009-04-26T01:27:17Z")
_Whoa, huh? My name is not Tiffany_ Sorryhappykitsune, was thinking you were Tiffany! 😕 It’s not even that late here! ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/14 "2009-04-26T01:29:25Z")
> [@Tara0528](#): > > _Whoa, huh? My name is not Tiffany_ > > Sorryhappykitsune, was thinking you were Tiffany! 😕 It’s not even that late here! > > ~Tara It’s alright. There are avatars and names at the left corner if you get confused again ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/15 "2009-04-26T01:32:14Z")
_There are avatars and names at the left corner if you get confused again_ Thank you happykitsune, it won’t happen again! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/16 "2009-04-26T01:34:48Z")
lol good good. Have you found what you want to get yet? ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/17 "2009-04-26T01:58:36Z")
_Have you found what you want to get yet?_ Well happykitsune I was thinking about Instant sexy a type and instant openness, also I am very interested in MX134, but it says this is for experienced [pheromone](https://a314.com/) users… ~Tara ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/18 "2009-04-26T02:04:52Z")
> [@Tara0528](#): > > _Have you found what you want to get yet?_ > > Well happykitsune I was thinking about Instant sexy a type and instant openness, also I am very interested in MX134, but it says this is for experienced pheromone users… > > ~Tara Both are good choices. But didn’t you say that people get annoyed because you are too open? IO opens other people up, but it also will open you up even more. You could take the chance and just apply to the back of your head so the effects aren’t as strong. Not sure if you wanted to be more talkative or not tho 😕 True they do say they are for experienced users, but they do work the same way that the instant line works. You just use one spray at first, see if there are any results and then move on to the next spray. Keep going until you’ve found a number of sprays you are comfortable with. They say it’s for experienced people because often times people who are new to pheros are skeptical and won’t notice subtle results. Often times things like MX134 will show subtle or no results if the dosage is wrong. So my advice to you is get it if you really like what it’ll do for you, but only if you can be very observant and patient enough to test it with different amounts of sprays. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/19 "2009-04-27T01:12:14Z")
Hello Tara, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 They have small to-go bottles here and I suggest you get both [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and B and try them out separately and see which one you like before investing in the big ones. Ishine and IH work well for it. Ishine for a warm feeling of well being and IH for deeper intimacy and feelings of connection. For you hubby you kept answering your own question LOL TUTH is what men wear to cause arousal but be sure to read up on it so he uses it right. Using to many sprays can make women cranky so 1 or 2 should do it. he would wear this before bed or afternoon delite. 😃 AMMO is sexy and arousing as well and more for all environments. **Your GC is on its way** Have fun and hope to see you in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Tara0528](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tara0528/32/276_2.png) [@Tara0528](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tara0528)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2009, 3:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386/20 "2009-04-27T15:55:46Z")
Hello Tisha, Thanks for the warm welcome and helpful advice I was wondering about the MX134 also, but it seems it is out of stock what would you suggest in comparison to this? For my work I was wanting to layer it with the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and instant shine series. Or if anybody else has suggestions, please feel free to answer. I know the ALPH314 is for men…has any women tried this? ~Tara 🙂 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-the-midwest/28386.md?page=2)