# Hello from Wisconsin **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 2, 2010, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901 "2010-02-02T21:24:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![E-Hero\_man](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/e-hero_man/32/1348_2.png) [@E-Hero\_man](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/E-Hero_man)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2010, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901/1 "2010-02-02T21:24:11Z")
Hello to everyone reading this, my name is Van (well favorite nickname I got from my best friend), or you can just refer to me by screen name E-Hero\_man. I’m a male and 19 years old, will be turning 20 though come April, and I’m from Wisconsin! I am an extremely shy guy and have been throughout middle school and high school. I’ve never been good at just starting conversations with people or creating attraction with girls. I just recently came to know about pheromones last year and beame a member of this site. Well I went for a long period of time without a computer and have just recently found this site again. I’m hoping that pheromones will help me overcome my shyness of women and give me the boost I need to take charge of my social life. I’ve tackled my weight going from 247 to 204 lbs. (still got 44 lbs. more to go lol), and am ready to take on this part of my life. I’m glade to be a part of this site. 🙂 p.s. Last Sunday I actually ordered some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (seemed like to best choice for me being a new and all) and will be recieving it Wednesday tomorrow, can’t wait to post my results! 😃 How many sprays should I use for my first time? Also where should I apply them? Thanks for your help! ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2010, 10:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901/2 "2010-02-02T22:52:30Z")
Hello and welcome Van, Okay, E-Hero-man, Alpa 314 could be a big help, it help boosts confidence, and the people around you will scene your’re a alpha type guy: that’s high status guy. It’s well blended product, and notable results have been acheive using it in work environments. It comes in the oil form and a bottle of it usually last longer. Many users stated, it makes them stand straighter, a person have a respect feeling about themselves. It’s good to buffer A314 with other social brands, such as, IS, IO or IH: this depends on what type of affect or response you’re after. Consider [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) ([Instant Gentleman — Classy, High Value Male Pheromone - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)) which enhances the feeling of confidence, you will project a style of being of dependable, with a touch of sexiness. Instant Gentleman… he’s the man who on top of his game, he’s a man that handles his business. He’s the man that people like listening to because he’s cool and one which women find comforting. E-Hero-man, some of the experience vets. of this forum often refer IG to an untapped reservoir. It also help the younger guy seem more older in a good way. So you ordered some Instant Openness ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) for yourself, I remembered the first I use it, I spoke to 14 ladies comfortably at the mall that day. You know what? There’s a strong possibility that these products will help your confidence. You see…when you personally start noticing some differences affects using these products… _hits_… this normally has a positive effect on a person well being. Okay to you question I would start with two sprays of IO. Also, remember you have to initiate, always initiate conservations with women. There’s a saying, “that’s what men do.” It might not seem far, nevertheless “that’s what we do.” And encourage yourself. I’ve just read about some positive changes in your life, and I applause you on that. I truly believe in your sincerity and that you are glad to be a member of this community, and on behalf of everyone here, I’m glad you’re a member of this community. cheers,🙂 MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![jakeable83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f1d935/32.png) [@jakeable83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jakeable83)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2010, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901/3 "2010-02-02T22:56:54Z")
Hey there Van, With any new phero purchase the best answer to how many sprays is start of with one and see how it works for you then increase to two and so on so forth to find your sweet spot… For people who are shy I would also recommend looking into getting either Instant jerk (don’t be thrown by the name… its one of my favorites gives me a boost of confidence but for someone who is younger using a very small amount would probably be best), Instant shine, gits a mood up lifter and a lot of fun, A314 this is like respect and power in a bottle when I use it it increases the feeling in me that I can take on anything kind of like james bond, or Instant gentleman which is like A314 but more subtle and laid back… Happy testing can’t wait to read your results! ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2010, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901/4 "2010-02-02T23:04:24Z")
Welcome! Good work with your weight loss sounds like you’re on the right path. Do you have anxiety or are just shy? I had anxiety for such a long time (heart racing in certain situations, nervousness that just wasn’t normal, a variety of other things) that I didn’t even realize my shyness was a combination of shyness as a personality trait and anxiety. i find IO can be helpful, but more than 2 sprays tends to make me anxious. Find out your sweetspot first. And I like adding 3-4 IH to 2 IO to kind of balance out a chatty conversation with some seriousness. I also recommend for shyness some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), it will make you somewhat more outgoing and feel happier. More people will smile at you and be happy to be around you while reducing physical distance with you. I’d snag to gos of IO, IH, and IS. Instant genetleman to go also might be a good idea, it can make you feel more confident especially around 2-3 sprays, and is a good addition to some socials. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![E-Hero\_man](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/e-hero_man/32/1348_2.png) [@E-Hero\_man](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/E-Hero_man)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2010, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901/5 "2010-02-03T18:13:05Z")
> [@MVKBUGATTI](#): > > Hello and welcome Van, > > Okay, E-Hero-man, Alpa 314 could be a big help, it help boosts confidence, and the people around you will scene your’re a alpha type guy: that’s high status guy. It’s well blended product, and notable results have been acheive using it in work environments. It comes in the oil form and a bottle of it usually last longer. Many users stated, it makes them stand straighter, a person have a respect feeling about themselves. It’s good to buffer A314 with other social brands, such as, IS, IO or IH: this depends on what type of affect or response you’re after. > > Consider Instant Gentleman ([Instant Gentleman — Classy, High Value Male Pheromone - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)) which enhances the feeling of confidence, you will project a style of being of dependable, with a touch of sexiness. Instant Gentleman… he’s the man who on top of his game, he’s a man that handles his business. He’s the man that people like listening to because he’s cool and one which women find comforting. E-Hero-man, some of the experience vets. of this forum often refer IG to an untapped reservoir. It also help the younger guy seem more older in a good way. > > So you ordered some Instant Openness ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) for yourself, I remembered the first I use it, I spoke to 14 ladies comfortably at the mall that day. You know what? There’s a strong possibility that these products will help your confidence. You see…when you personally start noticing some differences affects using these products… _hits_… this normally has a positive effect on a person well being. Okay to you question I would start with two sprays of IO. > > Also, remember you have to initiate, always initiate conservations with women. There’s a saying, “that’s what men do.” It might not seem far, nevertheless “that’s what we do.” And encourage yourself. > > I’ve just read about some positive changes in your life, and I applause you on that. I truly believe in your sincerity and that you are glad to be a member of this community, and on behalf of everyone here, I’m glad you’re a member of this community. > > cheers,🙂 > > MVKBugatti Thanks for your advice! I definately want to get my hands on some A314, when it comes back in stock ☹. Guess I’ll go with your second choice of some [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), I like the way you outlined how it works and everything. > [@jakeable83](#): > > Hey there Van, > > With any new phero purchase the best answer to how many sprays is start of with one and see how it works for you then increase to two and so on so forth to find your sweet spot… For people who are shy I would also recommend looking into getting either Instant jerk (don’t be thrown by the name… its one of my favorites gives me a boost of confidence but for someone who is younger using a very small amount would probably be best), Instant shine, gits a mood up lifter and a lot of fun, A314 this is like respect and power in a bottle when I use it it increases the feeling in me that I can take on anything kind of like james bond, or Instant gentleman which is like A314 but more subtle and laid back… Happy testing can’t wait to read your results! Cool thanks for the tips, ahhh if only I could get my hands on some A314, though it’s good to see your not the only person who has recommended Instant Gentleman, now that’s something I’ll definately want to get my hands on, and Instant Jerk, thanks a bunch 🙂 > [@conundrum12](#): > > Welcome! Good work with your weight loss sounds like you’re on the right path. Do you have anxiety or are just shy? I had anxiety for such a long time (heart racing in certain situations, nervousness that just wasn’t normal, a variety of other things) that I didn’t even realize my shyness was a combination of shyness as a personality trait and anxiety. > > i find IO can be helpful, but more than 2 sprays tends to make me anxious. Find out your sweetspot first. And I like adding 3-4 IH to 2 IO to kind of balance out a chatty conversation with some seriousness. > > I also recommend for shyness some Instant Shine, it will make you somewhat more outgoing and feel happier. More people will smile at you and be happy to be around you while reducing physical distance with you. > > I’d snag to gos of IO, IH, and IS. Instant genetleman to go also might be a good idea, it can make you feel more confident especially around 2-3 sprays, and is a good addition to some socials. Good luck! I guess you could say I have a mixture of both. Last Friday was the first time I actually went to a party, and on my way there my heart was racing non-stop. And when I’m in groups of people I’m often too shy to even say a word outloud. Thanks for the mixing advice, something I’ll definately try out! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2010, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wisconsin/35901/6 "2010-02-03T22:50:06Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.