# Hello from WNY **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 29, 2012, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874 "2012-09-29T19:04:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![GJR\_83](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gjr_83/32/1177_2.png) [@GJR\_83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GJR_83)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2012, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/1 "2012-09-29T19:04:08Z")
My name is Greg, I’m 29, single Father, and my life is typically busy. I think it’s probably best to throw a bit about me out there and go from there. Here goes.. I’m as simple as I am complex, so you know I’m pretty well balanced because of it. 🙂 Seriously though, I’m a kind caring person willing to do most anything for those close to me, but I also know when they need to learn somethings the hard way. I never miss an opportunity to learn or experience something new. I’m not one to instantly jump in head first, but also not one to ponder all outcomes for hours before doing anything. I find fun in almost anything. I don’t focus on the negative, but I don’t hide from it either. I know who I am, where I’m going, and what I need to get there. Now the down side.. I’m a dorkish, geekish, sharp whitted, goofball. I like my SciFi and my science. I can discuss with anyone plenty of uneeded useless facts about the world and universe on command. Granted this part of me doesn’t show often, but still there. So yeah, my geek may show, but at least it doesn’t smell like loser. 😉 One more thing as well, I am a Father of a beautiful 3 year old girl. I have her about 3 days out of the week. She is my absolute world. She keeps me on my toes like no other. Why am I here? Well, couple years back a friend told my about how he uses [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to hook up with women. Now I’m as pig headed as he is, so I’m not looking to get laid every night. I’m actually looking for something more long term. Which brings me to “What am I looking for?” I have some pretty good and solid qualities. However, my first impressions aren’t always the best. Either it’s nervousness, awkwardness of the meeting, or whatever. I know pheromones aren’t about instantly drawing women to you, you have to put some effort as well. But there has to be something out there that can help me say, “I’m a decent solid guy that can treat you right and works hard for what I have” with a mix of sex appeal as well. Something to break that ice and get some attention so it’s easier to strike up a conersation. Okay, so there it all is. Suggestions? Direction? Or perhaps I put way too much into it? Let me know. Thanks, Greg ---
**Author:** ![Spinach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/spinach/32/348_2.png) [@Spinach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spinach)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2012, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/2 "2012-09-30T02:14:06Z")
Hi Greg, welcome to the phero community 🙂 Reading your intro a few products come to mind. Instant Shine, for melting that intitial barrier - it’s an brilliantly feel-good product, that has a fun, youthful vibe to it, and will add a little confidence and positivity into the situation. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), for the charming, dependable, well, ‘gentlemanly’ vibe. This should also make a good intro to A314, which amps up your respectable & high value ‘alpha male’ side. Ammo is a well-balanced, consistent product that gives off sexy confidence, so I’d look into these to see what sounds best for you! You say that the first impression is your weak point - the socials (IS, IO) should help with that, but can you perhaps go into a little more detail with this? What field of work are you in, and in which situations will you be testing out mones? At cafes, bars, clubs, work, etc? 🙂 Hope this helped a little. Come back with any more questions, and keep us updated. 🙂 - Spinach ---
**Author:** ![GJR\_83](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gjr_83/32/1177_2.png) [@GJR\_83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GJR_83)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2012, 6:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/3 "2012-09-30T06:55:00Z")
I’m currently unemployed (as of 3 weeks ago), but I plan on continuing my career as a restaurant manager. The areas in which I’d plan on using mones would be work, dating scene, and the occasional bar night. I’m not into clubs or anything where you have to yell to conversate with the people next to you. Hope this helps. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![GJR\_83](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gjr_83/32/1177_2.png) [@GJR\_83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GJR_83)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2012, 3:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/4 "2012-09-30T15:45:16Z")
I’ve been searching the forums to get a feel for what goes on here and what I’m getting into. 😛 However, I am looking for info on proper mixes and application amounts. I just purchased TUTH, AMMO, and IG (thanks again for the gift cert) so any help there would be great. 🙂 Thanks again, Greg ---
**Author:** ![Spinach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/spinach/32/348_2.png) [@Spinach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spinach)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2012, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/5 "2012-10-01T03:40:10Z")
> [@GJR\_83](#): > > I’ve been searching the forums to get a feel for what goes on here and what I’m getting into. 😛 > > However, I am looking for info on proper mixes and application amounts. I just purchased TUTH, AMMO, and IG (thanks again for the gift cert) so any help there would be great. 🙂 > > Thanks again, > > Greg Hi again Greg, thanks for the update! 🙂 Just something to keep in mind as you test - the hits/reactions from [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) will probably be more subtle than Ammo. Also, TUTH should be used at discretion - only when you’re sure you’re going to bed the person. This thread should help you out with testing! _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) Also, have a look at the stickies for things like application points and what ‘hits’ are. Looking forward to hearing how it all goes. Have fun! - Spinach ---
**Author:** ![GJR\_83](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gjr_83/32/1177_2.png) [@GJR\_83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GJR_83)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2012, 1:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/6 "2012-10-01T13:35:37Z")
> [@Spinach](#): > > Hi again Greg, thanks for the update! 🙂 > Just something to keep in mind as you test - the hits/reactions from Instant Gentleman will probably be more subtle than Ammo. Also, TUTH should be used at discretion - only when you’re sure you’re going to bed the person. > > This thread should help you out with testing! _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) Also, have a look at the stickies for things like application points and what ‘hits’ are. Looking forward to hearing how it all goes. > > Have fun! > > - Spinach Thank you so much for your help. I’ll be around browsing the forums until I have something to report from my experiences. Thanks again! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2012, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-wny/56874/7 "2012-10-03T14:09:28Z")
Welcome to pherotalk GR, Yes, excellent suggestions. These are products that will actually help you build a foundation with these [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) and help with your situation. Keep us updated **Your gc was issued!**