# hello, hello, hello. Hi! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 2, 2009, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653 "2009-03-02T04:55:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hyozanreckoners](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hyozanreckoners/32/645_2.png) [@hyozanreckoners](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hyozanreckoners)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/1 "2009-03-02T04:55:08Z")
Hey guys, I’m a 19 year old guy from Utah. I got kind of bored one day and there was an ad for pherlure. I looked it up to see what it was all about and came across this site. I am a fairly shy guy and it takes me a few dates before I can open up and be myself. Any suggestions to help with this would be amazing. But the big problem I’m having is that I’m always getting stuck in the friends zone. I was just wondering if there was any way to break free of “you’re a real nice guy, but let’s just be friends.”? ---
**Author:** ![future777](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/future777/32/2258_2.png) [@future777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/future777)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 4:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/2 "2009-03-02T04:57:44Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! To help with the shyness, try instant shine and IO. Shine really makes people enjoy being around you, while IO gets people (and you) talking nonstop haha. To help push you out of that friend zone, I would go with ammo. It is an attractant that will give you that extra “edge” that every guy needs. Hope this helps! ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 4:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/3 "2009-03-02T04:59:49Z")
Hey hozanreckoners welcome to the board, You should def check out ammo. its a great phero which has both attraction properties, as well as ingredients that allow for slightly easier conversations. For even more flow of convos., you might want to add a bit of instant openness / instant honesty. Both are great. The openness for general chat , or the honesty for more deeper talk. Good luck man and tell us how it works out for you. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/4 "2009-03-02T05:19:18Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! Future777 and Chicagokid are right on target!! Are there any other situations you would like to improve? Pheros are not only good for romance/sex, but also for work, school, professional and family relationships and situations as well. Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![hyozanreckoners](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hyozanreckoners/32/645_2.png) [@hyozanreckoners](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hyozanreckoners)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/5 "2009-03-02T06:31:08Z")
Actually there is one other thing that I could use some help with. As you can guess I’m pretty young. I graduated high school early and went through a culinary arts program and graduated there early too. The problem is that at my current job I am the youngest person to ever have my position, by about 12 years. Everyone treats me like I know nothing even though I could throw down with them any day and beat them. Is there any way I could get the respect I think I’ve earned, not the amount I get from being 19? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 6:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/6 "2009-03-02T06:47:21Z")
> [@hyozanreckoners](#): > > Is there any way I could get the respect I think I’ve earned, not the amount I get from being 19? It sounds as though A314 might be just what you need, Hozanreckoners. It is supposed to be very effective in helping to increase the respect you get from others. ---
**Author:** ![hyozanreckoners](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hyozanreckoners/32/645_2.png) [@hyozanreckoners](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hyozanreckoners)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/7 "2009-03-02T23:09:40Z")
Thanks for all of the help. I think I’m going to go for instant shine. I’ve been reading and some people are saying that instant gentleman would work better for me at my age than A314. Is that true? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 3:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/8 "2009-03-03T03:37:39Z")
Hello Weclome to Pherotalk 🙂 In a work situation nothing beats A314 to up,your status and evoke trust and respect. In social situations its a harder product for men to use if they are shy and mot willing to take the lead. A314 gives the leader vibe and women will expect you to approach. It is smoother, mature, dependable increases respect but in a less aggressive way. Its has more draw then A314. Now for going out socially and getting out of the friends box you need something a little arousing. AMMO would be good. I do suggest because you shy you consider IO as well to break the ice. If you have questions just ask **Your GC is on its way** Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![hyozanreckoners](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hyozanreckoners/32/645_2.png) [@hyozanreckoners](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hyozanreckoners)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 5:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello-hi/26653/9 "2009-03-03T05:25:01Z")
Well I guess it’s time to test the water. I’m going to buy [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), AMMO, and A314. I’ll have to let you know how that goes.