# hello hello hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 5, 2009, 4:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760 "2009-04-05T16:00:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![narcjames](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5f8ce5/32.png) [@narcjames](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/narcjames)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 4:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/1 "2009-04-05T16:00:40Z")
hey all!! This is an interesting turn to my life! I have decided to take some bold steps and am pretty excited about this! I am old, way to old! I live in Singapore, and just went through a divorce. Things have been kinda hard since then, she was after all my college sweetheart! things never quite felt right since then. I am/used to be an average guy I guess, had fun at social gatherings, good friends and the sort.I am originally from Sydney, Australia, But for a year I havent really done much, and friends of mine have been urging me to get out there again. As hard as that may be, i have decided to try. But I need help, its been so long I dont even know where to start! Ice breakers for me please! ha. I love art and music, and I love to travel. What do you think I should try? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/2 "2009-04-05T16:11:29Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about your divorce. For ice breaking, you need IO. It will open up people and make people want to talk to you. You will enjoy more light conversation. IH will make the conversation deeper and more meaningful. They will be closer to you as they will feel they have known you for long time. Good luck to you ---
**Author:** ![ajo41992](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ajo41992/32/521_2.png) [@ajo41992](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ajo41992)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/3 "2009-04-05T16:11:51Z")
Ice breakers… hmmm. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)!!! This will increase the flow of conversation for you and others around you. Makes you easier to talk to, etc. One of my personal favorites; great in group settings You might also like Instant Shine, for a bit of extra confidence. Welcome to the Forums! If you have any more questions, don’t hesitate to ask! -Andrew ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/4 "2009-04-05T19:43:10Z")
Hello and welcome to the forums! Yes, a good icebreaker would be IO. It helps melt down the barriers that make conversations uneasy and allows them to flow better. When combined with IH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) they help increase the conversation as well. Either with IH making the conversation more deep and/or intimate, or Instant Shine making the conversation on the happier side. So you are an average guy. But are you shy, confident, friendly? Perhaps more secluded now? Are you an aggressive guy already? Or do you need more push to get yourself to be more aggressive? Finally, what would you like to get out of pheromones, besides, of course, enhancing you life… Social? Respect? Romance? Sex? Work? Get back to me with you answers. Much luck to you! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2009, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/5 "2009-04-05T20:20:06Z")
Hi james 🙂 Welcome! It sounds like you’ve had a rough time but now you’re ready to get back in the game. Well, you’ve come to the right place. So, you’re an Aussie?! Then I already know you’re social, friendly and outgoing. 😉 Your friends are right. You just need to get out a bit, it’ll boost your confidence. First things first. Get this “old” crap right outta your head, mate. I have shoes older than you! 😃 Good suggestions from jamesbonded, ajo and happykitsune. 🙂 Try some A314 for self confidence and to inspire respect in others. It’s just the thing for work to project higher value. Instant Shine to uplift you and everyone around you…makes you fun to be around. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) to encourage conversation…Instant Honesty for deeper connection/communication. AMMO, a well balanced sexual attraction mix. A little goes a long way around young women. So, go low and start with one spray. Take some time to read the sticky’s at the top of each forum. That’s the place to start gaining knowledge as to how all this works. First, you need to test each pheromone individually. That’s the only way to find your “sweet spot” (the dose that works for _you_) and determine the effects…then you’ll be better able to combine them to your advantage. You’re gonna have a blast! Bella ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/6 "2009-04-06T09:23:48Z")
Hello there, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Your not old, you’ve only just begun. The members made some great suggestions. I would suggest Ishine for a warm charismatic charm and boost in confidence and IO to break the ice and increase interaction with others. Your firends are right, now is the time to get back out there and have some fun. 😉 **Your GC is on its way**. 😃 If you have any questions just ask. Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-hello-hello/27760/7 "2009-04-06T23:17:04Z")
Of all the recommendations, Instant + Instant shine, two well done products, I feel are excellent and make a great club mix. Welcome and Have fun. P.S. - Keep a journal… makes things a lot easier -DJ