Hi Matt, you nice guys make me sick (joke!) 
OK, I suggest you read more about Instant Jerk, Dirty, and Turn up the Heat for the women that already have an interest in you. We gotta make you a bad boy man!
Ammo is a great all round product for people starting out.
Have a good read of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any more questions.
Do return and let us know about your results 