# Hello Help! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 11, 2013, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-help/58721 "2013-04-11T14:51:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2013, 6:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-help/58721/3 "2013-04-12T06:12:44Z")
Take a deep breath, and take your time. Finding your ‘sweet spot’, or optimum dosage, takes a little time and observation. Start with one spray, as you did, and do that for a few days in a row. Observe people you interact with and see what sort of reactions you observe. Then move on to two sprays, and repeat procedure. Then three…you get the idea. Once you’ve reached your sweet spot, you’ll notice that others respond to you differently, and you’ll start seeing ‘hits.’ When you’ve gone beyond your sweet spot, or are wearing too much, those hits will begin to disappear, and people will either ignore you or become confused by your phero signature. Here is a thread that explains it: > [@How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146): > > Lately I have been getting a lot of calls from guys and gals unsure what the forum members mean when we say “sweet spot.”:stuck\_out\_tongue: Here’s a very simple way to find your individual sweet spot for each consumer line product like: Ishine IH IO AMMO A314 TUTH and so on. It’s very easy to do and I hope this guide offers you the assistance you need. When applying the pheromones, please ensure that you are using only one (1) [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) at a time. This step is extremely importan… Which version of Instant Sexiness did you purchase? Is it congruent with your own personality? I am a very “Instant Sexiness A” personality by nature, and when I wear [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) I feel invisible, and am often ignored. It is just not congruent with who I am, and people pick up on that confused vibe. So I stick with the A version. Feel free to post any other usage questions you have in the women’s forum. We’d love to help you out, and you’re welcome to ask whatever you want. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-help/58721)._