Hi Charity - Welcome to Pherotalk.
Certain Pheros are pretty much Unisex. I can’t say much about the Female line but in the Instant line, IS, IO, IH and others like CTTM2 seem to work for both sexes.
Also on the interaction front, I have found that putatives like P74 and P114 seem to promote good close/trusting/bonding interaction between people of both sexes - P114 is maybe more friendly/chatty whilst P74 can be more bonding/trusting/professional. However, these are not really beginners pheros and it would IMO be best for you to get to grips with the Instant line and the methodology of observing/evaluating your results/responses.
Hope to see your results soon.