# Hello, I already love this site! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 12, 2010, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968 "2010-03-12T17:18:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/1 "2010-03-12T17:18:10Z")
Hi my name is Mike, but you can call me Dukeman if you like. I’m 24 but I will be 25 in a few days. I attend school at a local Texas college. I’m a male if you couldn’t tell by my real name. I joined pherotalk after hearing nothing but great things. That’s why I joined and I already love the site. I’m pretty easy to get along with, I like fishing, camping, and playing some video games. Like any college student I run into looking females from time to time but when I try and talk with them I don’t get any hits. It’s like I’m invisible. Almost like fishing, I get some bites from time to time but I could never catch them. I was thinking if [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) from androticsdirect would solve this problem? There are so many to try and I could use some help to pick which is best for my situation. Would Instant Openness help me? What about Alpha A314? What do you think I should do, I’m not bad looking guy or anything, I have a great time when I’m around people. I do admit I’m shy when I sit next to my female classmates. When I do get lucky, I try and strike up a convo, but I don’t see increased eye contact, they really don’t flirt with me. I try to be nice and outgoing, but not sure that’s doing the trick. Should I change something in my personality? Not sure how much more nicer and I could be. I’ll complement them, and say nice hair, or that a cool shirt. I’ll use the pheromone when I’m in the classroom. Does the IO smell really good? I can’t wait to try them out. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/2 "2010-03-12T17:28:50Z")
Hi Dukeman, welcome to the forum! In answer to your questions, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and A314 may or may not be right for your situation. In order to find out, please tell us a little about your persoanlity and how you relate to others, whether you are confident and outgoing, or more on the shy side. Also, how are you thinking of using pheros? For Work? School? Romance? This info will help us recommend the best products for you, and also help you qualifuy for the $25 gift certificate. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/3 "2010-03-12T17:32:19Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Tell us more about your personality, are you shy? outgoing? Do you find it hard to keep conversation going with girls? Pheromones are not magic pills but they can surely help you.. Just tell us more about your personality so we can suggest products for your situation. Anyway what you already told i would suggest Ammo and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). IG would give you some rspect and that way girls could see you more boyfriend material.. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/4 "2010-03-12T17:36:00Z")
Almost like fishing, I get some bites from time to time but I could never catch them. I was thinking if [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) from androticsdirect would solve this problem? Hello and welcome Mike, , There plenty of information in the forum as you see. Could you, please tell us more about yourself; you ask me what I think, to be honest I would need more information about you. Also, Please, take the necessary steps to get the $25 gift certificate ([https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)), it only takes a few minutes of your time. Have fun, ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 5:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/5 "2010-03-12T17:42:53Z")
I’m a little shy, but I try and be outgoing to impress girls. I look them in the eye, and I really don’t see the eye contact from them. I sometimes get the “whatever” vibe when I talk to them. I’ll invite them to a party but they will say “I’m busy”. I like SkillyKitty’s advice. IO sound good. Would it help with my personality? I would like the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to make me stand out. I want to thank everyone for your input. I could use the help. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 5:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/6 "2010-03-12T17:53:22Z")
Thanks for the info! To help in those awkward social situations, Instant Openness is great for relaxing you and those around you, and making it easier to start conversations. People will become more chatty with you, and around you. Once you’ve made a connection, and started talking, Instant Honesty will help to maintain and deepen that connection. People will feel more comfortable with you and tend to trust you more. Ammo is one of the most popular mens products here, and is a great every day product that will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost. It can also be worn comfortably in any environment. Last, but definitely not least, is Instant Shine, which is an uplifting positive mix that will brighten your mood as well as the moods of those around you. I like to spray a little for self effects sometimes if I’m feeling a little down. You did mention A314, which is an excellent product, designed to elicit confidence, trust and respect in the work environment. It can be a little tricky though, as it can even make the wearer seem unapproachable and intimidating, and sometimes needs to be buffered to reduce that effect. Because you are young, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) may be even better. Plus IG is much less expensive. IG is like A314’s little brother, you will be perceived as more solid and responsible, a guy who has it together and knows whats going on. I hope this helps, and please ask if you have questions! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/7 "2010-03-12T18:03:13Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Thanks for the info! > > To help in those awkward social situations, Instant Openness is great for relaxing you and those around you, and making it easier to start conversations. People will become more chatty with you, and around you. > > Once you’ve made a connection, and started talking, Instant Honesty will help to maintain and deepen that connection. People will feel more comfortable with you and tend to trust you more. > > Ammo is one of the most popular mens products here, and is a great every day product that will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost. It can also be worn comfortably in any environment. > > Last, but definitely not least, is Instant Shine, which is an uplifting positive mix that will brighten your mood as well as the moods of those around you. I like to spray a little for self effects sometimes if I’m feeling a little down. > > You did mention A314, which is an excellent product, designed to elicit confidence, trust and respect in the work environment. It can be a little tricky though, as it can even make the wearer seem unapproachable and intimidating, and sometimes needs to be buffered to reduce that effect. Because you are young, Instant Gentleman may be even better. Plus IG is much less expensive. IG is like A314’s little brother, you will be perceived as more solid and responsible, a guy who has it together and knows whats going on. > > I hope this helps, and please ask if you have questions! 🙂 [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) would help, it would make them want to chat with me more, and make us both feel great. I like that you pointed out Instant Honesty and that would help leave a deep impact after we talk. They will remember me and we would have a stronger connection. Thanks for poining it out. You are a life saver. Would ammo pheromone help with my situation? It would make my personality more confident. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/8 "2010-03-12T18:07:09Z")
> [@Dukeman](#): > > Instant Openness would help, it would make them want to chat with me more, and make us both feel great. > > I like that you pointed out Instant Honesty and that would help leave a deep impact after we talk. They will remember me and we would have a stronger connection. > > Thanks for poining it out. You are a life saver. You are very welcome! 🙂 These are great products and very effective, I have been using them for a little over a year, and I’m totally hooked. They have made such a positive impact in my life. You really can’t go wrong with any of their products, though certain ones are more appropriate for certain situations than others, it all depends how you use them. They can also be combined for different effects as well. ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/9 "2010-03-12T18:13:08Z")
How much should be applied? Would one spray be enough or would I need to apply more? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/10 "2010-03-12T18:29:34Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Dukeman! Yes, it is true, we women to someone who is shy and don’t know us inside out can be very vicious. Good times, once you stick around here and deal with the guys they will take you under their wings and show you the ropes. Once you figure us women out and with your [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) you will start to do wonders. Sillykitty gave you some excellent recommendations and I won’t repeat what is already said to take away from the spot on advice. Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/11 "2010-03-12T18:29:42Z")
> [@Dukeman](#): > > How much should be applied? Would one spray be enough or would I need to apply more? Every person is different, so the first thing you need to do is “learn” your products so that they are the most effective and you get the most out of them. This post should help: _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/12 "2010-03-12T18:34:11Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Every person is different, so the first thing you need to do is “learn” your products so that they are the most effective and you get the most out of them. This post should help: _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) Steve did a wonderful job on explain each pheromone. As for you Skillykitty I can’t thank you enough your wonderful. Thanks a million. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/13 "2010-03-12T18:45:15Z")
> [@Dukeman](#): > > Steve did a wonderful job on explain each pheromone. As for you Skillykitty I can’t thank you enough your wonderful. Thanks a million. Yes, he really is a very smart guy! And if I can help you in any way or if you have any other questions, let me know, 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/14 "2010-03-12T18:52:50Z")
I like the welcome message thta Stevo O sent. Stevo O is a great person. I will pm you if I need help, because I know I will have more question to ask. Thanks for your input, I really learned a lot. ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/15 "2010-03-12T18:58:29Z")
Hi Mike and welcome to the forum! I fully endorse what Silly Kitty has recommend for you and Ammo and the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) will help you immensely. Start off using 1 spray of one pheromone - notice the self effects and the effects on other people. Use 2 sprays the next day if you dont notice anything - until you find your sweet spot. Once you know how many sprays you can use for each pheromone you can start combining them together. Regards Mackie ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 7:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/16 "2010-03-12T19:28:31Z")
> [@mackie72](#): > > Hi Mike and welcome to the forum! > > I fully endorse what Silly Kitty has recommend for you and Ammo and the social pheromones will help you immensely. > > Start off using 1 spray of one pheromone - notice the self effects and the effects on other people. Use 2 sprays the next day if you dont notice anything - until you find your sweet spot. Once you know how many sprays you can use for each pheromone you can start combining them together. > > Regards > Mackie [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) will work for me, that sounds like what I’m looking for. Mackie, have you used the ammo? Do you like the smell and did you notice a big difference the first time you used it? I can’t wait to try some. ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2010, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/17 "2010-03-12T21:10:14Z")
Hi Mike Yes I have used ammo and it is a fantastic stand alone product creating attraction, feeling more confident and sociable. I think it will be great for your circumstances. You can choose different scents for ammo. I think the scent I have is FF21 which smells great. Mackie ---
**Author:** ![Dukeman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8baadc/32.png) [@Dukeman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dukeman)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2010, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/18 "2010-03-13T03:55:17Z")
> [@mackie72](#): > > Hi Mike > Yes I have used ammo and it is a fantastic stand alone product creating attraction, feeling more confident and sociable. I think it will be great for your circumstances. You can choose different scents for ammo. I think the scent I have is FF21 which smells great. > > Mackie I didn’t know they made different scents. How would I be able to choose a differnt scent? If ammo has different scents would the other pheromones, have different scents too? Is it better to use a combo, or just use it one at a time? Thanks for your support! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2010, 4:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-already-love-this-site/36968/19 "2010-03-13T04:21:20Z")
> [@Dukeman](#): > > I didn’t know they made different scents. How would I be able to choose a differnt scent? If ammo has different scents would the other pheromones, have different scents too? Is it better to use a combo, or just use it one at a time? Thanks for your support! Ammo comes in two flavors, F21 and F22, you can find out about therm by doing a search or by browsing through the mens section or by posting a question. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Honesty and Openness come in neroli by default, neroli is a unisex citrusy fragrance that is fine on its own but also easy to cover. These products are made to be used both alone or layered with other products. As I said earlier, the best thing to do is test each on its own, using this method _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) and once you are familiar with how much of each you need to get the best effect, as wellas what the effects look and feel like, then you can combine.