Check out the links in this post for publications:
also:
http://pheromones.com/professional.html
For job interviews: I would say MX105 or MX134 (these are test mixes).
For self-esteem - see above. Also Instant Shine.
For dating: Most women like Instant Sexiness A or B. I’m just now trying out the Drive Him Crazy series (test mixes again) and so far I like them better than IS-A, haven’t tried IS-B yet. Instant Openness, Instant Shine, and Come Talk To Me-2 are also good socially, just not as specifically sexual.
You can wear your perfumes with the products that are scented with neroli/musk; most of us do. It’s very light and easy to cover.
Have fun exploring!