# Hello, I need advice on where to start... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 26, 2012, 10:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-need-advice-on-where-to-start/56234 "2012-07-26T10:33:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Miragwen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e8c25b/32.png) [@Miragwen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miragwen)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 10:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-need-advice-on-where-to-start/56234/1 "2012-07-26T10:33:07Z")
I’m an almost 28 year old stay at home mom to a wonderful 14 month old little boy. I’m from Missouri, USA. I’ve been in a relationship with his father for almost 7 years. We have a great relationship but since my pregnancy my body chemistry has changed and my boyfriend says that he no longer has a “chemical” attraction to me. He says he still finds me physically attractive (I’ve lost all pregnancy weight and look pretty much the same as before) but my “scent” for lack of a better word no longer turns him on the way it did before I got pregnant. Emotionally our relationship is the best it’s ever been. The only problem is I’ve noticed a difference in the sexual aspect of or relationship. Not so much in the sex itself but the things that make him want to have sex. For instance prior to my pregnancy anytime I would go to the gym and come home sweaty he’d get turned on. That’s totally changed. I’ve asked him if my post work out smell is off putting and he says “no, it just doesn’t turn me on” same with my “morning smell” he used to regularly be turned on in the morning telling me my smell really turned him on. I’m guessing it’s a change in body chemistry/pheromone production that happens after pregnancy/childbirth since I use all the same products (shampoo, soap, perfumes, etc) as before as well as my diet has stayed the same. Needless to say I’m hoping [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) could help turn him on in that way again. I’m clueless as to what product/s to start with. Any help/advice would be much appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![Marihino](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marihino/32/1286_2.png) [@Marihino](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marihino)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 10:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-need-advice-on-where-to-start/56234/2 "2012-07-26T10:55:20Z")
hey Miragwen, yes, I’m sure pheromones can help in this way. Make sure to say hello also in the Women’s section of the forum, our girls here are awesome and really really helpful and insightful. Also, read the “sticky” threads here in the “Introductions” as well as in Women’s and Men’s - all questions you can possibly have at this stage are already brilliantly answered there. Looking forward to reading your reports - I’m sure you can restore that fire 🙂 Welcome to the Pheromone Talk 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 11:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-need-advice-on-where-to-start/56234/3 "2012-07-26T11:53:48Z")
Hi there and welcome to the mone forum. I would agree with the issue of mones and chemistry being altered by your pregnancy. Now, mones can help out and I’m sure the gals of the forum will be able to MUCH better approach this with you, but I’ll try. 😉 IS/a and IS/b. To be tried individually to see what these do for you in self effects and also to see how he is affected by them. IS/a, my wife tells me, gets her a bit of a bitchy and more of a take charge vibe, in self effects. IS/b, is more of a kittenish sexy gal vibe which she is more comfortable with that vibe as she is more inclined naturally to be that way. I’ve been inclined to ‘see’ her in a more lustful way when she’s been wearing IS/b. Then, when I ask her what she’s wearing, she tells me IS/b, THEN, I say, OH, Yeah, That’s what IT is.. 😉 For other, more advanced chemicals, and technically not a mone, you could also try copulins, though not sold by Androtics. It stinks to high heaven, (I have some that I use, BTW 😉), and normally needs a heavy scent cover. It is a sexy/sexed women scent, that’ll get my wife all flustered, angry with me, and love me all at the same time. As it gives off a signal, when a man wears it, as someone who has been getting lucky with the gals. 🙂 When she’s worn it, it’s a Turn on for me… 😃 However, MANY experience mone users on board that can help out and you can do much with these to get the desired results from them. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2012, 11:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-i-need-advice-on-where-to-start/56234/4 "2012-07-27T11:49:22Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Miragwen, \*\*Alpha gave you **some good suggestions but because of your age and situation I definitely think you should start with is/a or is/b first along with some social products and if those don’t work you can look into cops and the ladies on the forum will be more than happy to assist with the cops.** **[Whats the difference between "Instant Sexiness" and "Instant Sexiness B"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-difference-between-instant-sexiness-and-instant-sexiness-b/39530)** **Your gc was issued!**