Hi Dave and welcome to the mone forum! 
Fragrances and EO will do much to influence other’s mood. Now, the mones will need a ‘piggy back’ on fragrances or oil to get to others to provide the influence. Mones, such as AMMO, which is my Sexy Confident Stud vibe with a bounce in my step is a good one to start with. From what you describe, I think it will be a great all around vibe.
You could pair it with IShine for a comfortable to be around the Sexy Confident Stud vibe. IShine is a great mone product, stand alone. They complement each other in combination, IME.
A recent post from a new user on AMMO and others, is here:
BANG for the Buck… AMMO, regular strength(good enough for your age) and IShine = big Impact!
1Alpha