# Hello! I'm new and need some help ;) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 17, 2014, 9:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-and-need-some-help/62646 "2014-08-17T09:25:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rchelr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/43a26b/32.png) [@rchelr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rchelr)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2014, 9:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-and-need-some-help/62646/1 "2014-08-17T09:25:53Z")
Hi! 24F from Asia here. I’ve contemplated on joining this forum for the longest time ever but heard so much from my friend who has bought his [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) here! I’m not exactly outgoing, very shy all the time and would very much prefer people to talk to me first to get the ball rolling. Also, i guess no one really talks to me first because of the places I go to, like the library, small quiet cafes etc. Only when I feel really confident, I go to clubs and pubs. But, I still find it intimidating approaching someone first, especially if I find them way smarter than I am. I’ve recently found a job which requires me to meet and talk to new people which is smth I’m terribly afraid of. I decided to take up the offer because I wanted to step out of my comfort zone and would require some help 😉 1. Can i get advice on which I should get? Instant sexiness A/B? 2. How much is the maximum number of pheromones I can mix without smelling like desperation? For example, 3 types (Instant sexiness A/B + instant openness + instant honesty) or just 2 types (Instant sexiness A/B + instant openness/instant honesty) P.S My job requires me to handle large amounts of clients’ money, so I don’t want to come off as desperate for their money but to make them ‘open up’ to me enough to trust me! Looking forward to suggestions! Thank you all! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![vanadium](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/c4cdca/32.png) [@vanadium](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vanadium)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2014, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-and-need-some-help/62646/2 "2014-08-17T19:43:05Z")
I’m twice your age and male, but I can tell you that likely most of us use three or more pheros/mixes sometimes, with good results. I compare it to cooking (taste is closely allied to smell which is closely allied with pheromones): you don’t want to eat pure salt, but a little can make a dish delicious (don’t forget that you are always playing along with your base natural phero signature). A soup with a few select ingredients is usually tastier than one with “everything that tastes good” until you can’t distinguish any one flavor. Please remember that pheros (both their self-effects and external effects) are only one element in your overall presentation, which others use to assemble an impression of you. If you act desperate, there’s a good chance that your pheros will be interpreted that way; if you seem sincere and confident, those same pheros may boost your presentation into the stratosphere. ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2014, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-and-need-some-help/62646/3 "2014-08-18T00:56:20Z")
Hi Rchelr, Welcome to the forum. Thx for your introduction. Some of the girls will be by soon to give you some pointers regarding IS/A or B. I would suggest I Shine for sure. It will help you and others open up and start conversations easier. ---
**Author:** ![rchelr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/43a26b/32.png) [@rchelr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rchelr)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2014, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-and-need-some-help/62646/4 "2014-08-18T04:39:40Z")
Hey! Thanks for the suggestion! I wasn’t planning on getting the I Shine, because I Openness seems like a better option (to me at least) if I wanna start a conversation with someone new. But thanks for the suggestion! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2014, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-and-need-some-help/62646/5 "2014-08-20T17:49:06Z")
\*\*Welcome to our community rchelr! We’re super happy to have you join us. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I hope to see more of you around here in the next few weeks! This is a quick note to let you know I’ve issued your gift certificate. It’s burning a hole in your email box as you read this! Have fun!" _~_~_~_~_~_\*\*