# Hello, I'm New, I'm Divorced, I need Help **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 3, 2013, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206 "2013-06-03T19:20:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![kevster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/919ad9/32.png) [@kevster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kevster)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2013, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/1 "2013-06-03T19:20:01Z")
Hi guys! My name is Kevin and I’m recently divorced after 20 long years. I have been out of the dating scene for so long that I have no idea how to break the ice with a woman that I might be interested in. I’m not really shy and am confident in what I want in life but I’m also not going to walk up to a perfect stranger and introduce myself. I’d rather be “noticed” where I catch them staring at me so I can flirt back and then make a slow gradual move. So what do I need from you guys? Honestly, and I hate to say this because I’m new here (and I’m not sure how this will be taken), but I really need to get lucky if you know what I mean 😉. I’m not looking for a long term anything but instead a short term great time and something she won’t forget from the first time she sees me to the last time we part. If you haven’t noticed I’m speaking as though these things have happened and they haven’t, at least not yet. With all the threads I’ve seen here I think I might be in luck. BTW, I’m not bad looking, in fact I’m about a 7 or 8 on good days so my looks aren’t the problem, it’s my lack of being available for 20 years that has me at a disadvantage. Anyway, what do you guys recommend for me to get back in the game quickly? Get lucky with a younger woman (maybe early to mid 30’s)? Have a good time? Be “the one” every woman wants to be around? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks, Kevin ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2013, 8:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/2 "2013-06-03T20:08:13Z")
Hi Kevster, welcome to the mone forum. For breaking the ice and getting conversations flowing, IO is the way to go. Now, you do want to take it beyond a noticeable conversation, so, along with IO I would suggest AMMO, Summer Edition or the [World Edition](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/world-edition/), my personal top 2 AMMO lines. The AMMO will add an enhanced, sexy confident Male here vibe, more along the lines of a Brad Pitt, IME. You do need to smile and show interest to get to where you want to go. Check out my sig for some good pointers and observations on what mones can and can’t do. 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2013, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/3 "2013-06-04T02:11:14Z")
I agree with 1alpha, I’d definitely get some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and Ammunition. I’d also perhaps grab some Instant Shine for the self-effect (I find myself more willing to chat to complete strangers when I have a couple of sprays of Instant Shine). I’d go read the Intro to Mones by Steve O post in 1alpha’s signature too, it’s well put together. ---
**Author:** ![hypno](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/9de053/32.png) [@hypno](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hypno)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2013, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/4 "2013-06-04T04:20:30Z")
Hi Kev, Welcome and your in good hands, being single again is just like riding a bike and hopefully you will be riding one soon lol. I agree with the lads, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Ammunition, and Instant Shine and they smell great. Start slow testing and build up until you OD to find your sweet spot. Make a diary of what you use, amount and application spots and results. Your going to have lots of fun with the mones. Don’t take the negative results as bad, they are showing you your OD point which is good. I suggest you get some P83 and Turn up the heat for naughty time. Every one on here will help you and have a vast amount of knowledge and experience. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2013, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/5 "2013-06-04T13:50:01Z")
ey, Kevster! Welcome to the forum! These guys are pretty smart, they know what they are talking about. They’ve done lots of testing, which I hope that you will, too! Please feel free to ask us any questions you might have, and let us know about your experiences! ---
**Author:** ![kevster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/919ad9/32.png) [@kevster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kevster)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2013, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/6 "2013-06-06T19:00:10Z")
Thanks everyone for replying. I feel good that I actually have some responses here and makes me want to stay part of the community. I ordered Ammunition Summer Edition (although it says 2012?) and Turn up the Heat. I got a free trial size of P102 so I’m now curious how this will be used and I’ll look here in the forum and see how others have used it. I was on a budget this time around and am not used to spending more than $60 on any cologne so a $100 investment has to provide some results for me. I wanted to take (your) advice and also buy something that I think will give me the edge in the naughty area (TUTH) 😉 so I just couldn’t resist buying it. I received my package super-fast! Thanks! Both AMMO and TUTH smell really good and I’ve already sprayed some on me just to see how it smells and I don’t know why but after about 5 minutes I felt relaxed and comfy. I’m not complaining it’s just, well I think this is affecting me a little, it was just one spray of each. Anyway, I look forward to seeing how these work and will share any experiences I have positive or negative. ---
**Author:** ![Wyatt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b19c9b/32.png) [@Wyatt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wyatt)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2013, 7:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/7 "2013-06-08T07:14:55Z")
For your next purchase down the road, I’d suggest IG for the self effects and also some TAC to buffer the TUTH. Keep in mind you’ll open with IO+IS (and I’d throw in some IG to get you feeling confident) then later on sneak away and slap on the TUTH when you think things might be heading to the bedroom (slap on TAC beforehand if you have any, generally 20 mcg should mostly buffer 1 spray of TUTH). As for TUTH, you can OD and scare women away with it, but at the right time, they will have a better time in bed and be more ready to be taken to bed and when combined with TAC they are supposed to come harder (yet to test that out, but will find out in a few days to a few weeks). ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2013, 11:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/8 "2013-06-15T11:15:16Z")
Welcome Kevster, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) a chance. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![NeithSpell](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/neithspell/32/2264_2.png) [@NeithSpell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NeithSpell)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2013, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-new-im-divorced-i-need-help/59206/9 "2013-06-16T16:38:47Z")
Welcome to our group from Long Beach CA!! Hope you find what you are looking for. Neith