# Hello--I'm really Intrigued... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 7, 2009, 2:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375 "2009-08-07T02:36:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![HappyTimeHarry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e8c25b/32.png) [@HappyTimeHarry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HappyTimeHarry)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 2:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/1 "2009-08-07T02:36:46Z")
Hi guys. After stumbling on this site and looking around for a while, I’ve finally decided to register. I’m a 20 year old male and I live in Illinois. I have to say, these [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) have really intrigued me. I’m not exactly the most outgoing person. I’m very introverted, and this keeps me from forming relationships with new people. Put me in a room full of strangers and I wouldn’t know what to do.😛 The pheromones have piqued my interest. You guys have any recommendations for someone like me? Just something that could get my foot in the door and help me get out of my shell. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 2:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/2 "2009-08-07T02:46:00Z")
Welcome to the forum, Harry! First off, if you answer all the questions in the thread [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934), you’ll qualify for a $25 gift certificate which will help you try out your first couple of products essentially free (except for shipping.) Now, as for recommendations: Instant Shine might be a great product for you. In many users, it boosts confidence and outgoingness, and others perceive them as having a vibrant and youthful air. You might also try Instant Openness, which causes those around you to become chatty and want to talk to you, or Instant Honesty, which might not cause as much chattiness, but can lead to more deep and meaningful conversations. Another product you might give a shot is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It gives other people a feeling of respect towards you and projects a smooth, confident vibe. It may also cause you to feel more confident about yourself. I hope that helps, and if you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask! By the way, any idea why you’re so introverted? Bad experiences from the past, or just part of who you’ve always been? It’s not a bad thing, as I can be quite introverted myself; I’m just curious. ---
**Author:** ![HappyTimeHarry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e8c25b/32.png) [@HappyTimeHarry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HappyTimeHarry)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/3 "2009-08-07T02:48:54Z")
I’ve always been that way. Just who I am I guess. As a small child (2, maybe 3) I used to hide behind my parents legs. I guess I’ll expand on myself a bit. I’m 20, going on 21 soon. I live in the Rockford area of Illinois. Currently going to community college. Hoping to be a writer. Haven’t been in too many relationships, which again I attribute to my lack of openness. Lets just say my last girlfriend had to do all the work in order for the relationship to go further. It’s actually quite frustrating, as I know that there is nothing to be afraid of, but I still can’t get myself out in the open. I’ve only had a small close nit group of friends thoughout my life time. As a kid (grade school years) I was actually a bit better, but it seems I’ve regressed as I got older. So here I am. I’ve always been aware of pheromones and their part in attraction, but actually being able to read other people’s experiences with it has got me interested. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 8:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/4 "2009-08-07T08:34:11Z")
Hi Harry Nice intro. I think you would benefit from using [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Honesty, and Instant Shine. They are great social mixes that will draw ppl to you, and you to them. Helps build comfort and inturn attraction. The advanced product Spaceland should be used with care, but can make you ultra chilled, which in my case helps me relax and open up to others, often strangers. Read about these products here: [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168) Let us know if you have any more questions. Good luck with the writing 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/5 "2009-08-07T20:20:24Z")
WOW, I had this huge response and it got deleted. Well unfortunately with many introductions to do its just not going to be the same again. I do want to welcome you to the forum and let you know you are not alone here. This is an open and honest community that likes to share. I think you could skip the IO and IH and just go with the CTTM. Its a combo of both so you can save a bit of money. Also might want to have a gander at some Ishine. It elevates the mood. Then of course we come to HPP and EFT. EFT is emotional freedom technique or tapping. Don’t knock its hookeyness until you try it. Amazing and works wonders. HPP is Lloyd Glauberman and again works magic. Try his personal ecology CD. I would also suggest that you try out Hypnotica stuff. All this did wonders for me. **Oh and your GC has already been sent to your email** ---
**Author:** ![HappyTimeHarry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e8c25b/32.png) [@HappyTimeHarry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HappyTimeHarry)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/6 "2009-08-07T22:43:28Z")
Thanks Steve! I’m only finding Pre-release CTTM (mix 2), is that the only one? ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-im-really-intrigued/31375/7 "2009-08-07T23:59:30Z")
> [@HappyTimeHarry](#): > > Thanks Steve! > > I’m only finding Pre-release CTTM (mix 2), is that the only one? Thats the one