Hi Harry
Nice intro. I think you would benefit from using Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, and Instant Shine. They are great social mixes that will draw ppl to you, and you to them. Helps build comfort and inturn attraction.
The advanced product Spaceland should be used with care, but can make you ultra chilled, which in my case helps me relax and open up to others, often strangers.
Read about these products here: The Mens Guide
Let us know if you have any more questions.
Good luck with the writing 