# Hello just a kid here who can use some help. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 29, 2009, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246 "2009-06-29T22:56:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Tommygunkid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tommygunkid/32/905_2.png) [@Tommygunkid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommygunkid)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2009, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/1 "2009-06-29T22:56:20Z")
Hi all… I am a 19 year old white male who lives in New Jersey… (long story short) I have just recently been dumped by a girl I thought I was going to marry (we went out for 5 years)… now when I go out now with my friends to clubs, bars, or just someone’s house I don’t seem to have that “drive” to make any interaction with any other women… I’m a cut guy with (in my opinion) decent looks I have a great personality but I’m very shy. Often when I she someone that I would be interested in I get beat to the punch because of my shyness… now combining the shy personality with my lack of “drive” I’m in a pretty award situation… and I was watching a TV show and they mentioned pheromones and I thought “BS”… so I’ve been looking around on the site and I was thinking maybe if I try a little sample see if it helps or not… (By sample I mean the travel sprays)… and who knows maybe this is just what I need to “get back in the game” So my questions are …. What would be good for me to use to start off with to see if pheromones are right for me? What pheromones would give me the best “bang for my buck”? Due to my young age how much should I use and where should I use them? I was thinking about using the $25 coupon inorder to buy the travel size **AMMUNITION and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/).** **If you think I should reconsider my order leave me a message I will read** **And thanks for the $25 off . (Even though I didn’t get it I’m just assuming that everything goes according to plan lol).** ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2009, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/2 "2009-06-29T23:09:47Z")
First things first Gun . . . . change your mind & your ass will follow. Understand ? Secondly, ammo may help as well as I-Shine but take a look @ post referencing mx138 too. Lighten up. You’ll hook up again. Don’t worry so much about gettin shot down … cause you’re gonna get shot down - it happens to everyone. Keep at it til you get over it. Seriously. > [@Tommygunkid](#): > > Hi all… > I am a 19 year old white male who lives in New Jersey… > (long story short) I have just recently been dumped by a girl I thought I was going to marry (we went out for 5 years)… now when I go out now with my friends to clubs, bars, or just someone’s house I don’t seem to have that “drive” to make any interaction with any other women… I’m a cut guy with (in my opinion) decent looks I have a great personality but I’m very shy. Often when I she someone that I would be interested in I get beat to the punch because of my shyness… now combining the shy personality with my lack of “drive” I’m in a pretty award situation… and I was watching a TV show and they mentioned pheromones and I thought “BS”… so I’ve been looking around on the site and I was thinking maybe if I try a little sample see if it helps or not… (By sample I mean the travel sprays)… and who knows maybe this is just what I need to “get back in the game” > So my questions are …. > What would be good for me to use to start off with to see if pheromones are right for me? > What pheromones would give me the best “bang for my buck”? > Due to my young age how much should I use and where should I use them? > > I was thinking about using the $25 coupon inorder to buy the travel size **AMMUNITION and Instant Shine.** > > **If you think I should reconsider my order leave me a message I will read** > **And thanks for the $25 off . (Even though I didn’t get it I’m just assuming that everything goes according to plan lol).** ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2009, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/3 "2009-06-29T23:58:33Z")
Hi Tommygunkid, welcome to the forums. In addition to Ammo and shine, I would also suggest [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It helps alleviate that shyness and makes conversations much more chatty. If you have any more questions dont hesitate to ask. -mco; ---
**Author:** ![Tommygunkid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tommygunkid/32/905_2.png) [@Tommygunkid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommygunkid)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2009, 1:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/4 "2009-06-30T01:14:49Z")
> [@Mco-gnv](#): > > Hi Tommygunkid, welcome to the forums. > > In addition to Ammo and shine, I would also suggest Instant Openness. It helps alleviate that shyness and makes conversations much more chatty. If you have any more questions dont hesitate to ask. > > -mco; ty for your post i do have a question with the sprays do i appy before i go out (1hour before) or by that time will the sent ware off? ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2009, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/5 "2009-06-30T01:38:37Z")
> [@Tommygunkid](#): > > ty for your post > > i do have a question > with the sprays > do i appy before i go out (1hour before) or by that time will the sent ware off? You seem to have a great recommendation already, and regarding the spray, both case is ok, as pheromone effect last up to 4-5 hours. If you want to ask whether how long it takes to have the [pheromone spray](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/) to be effective after you spray, then I would say **it starts affecting others almost immediately**. FYI: the scent when first apply is quite overpowering. so 15min-before is better than by-the-time. Have fun ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2009, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/6 "2009-07-01T21:43:38Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Tommy! When you think of relationship issues trust me many if not all of us has been there. You will find a variety of people here and any experience you can think of they have gone through. Longterm relationship break-ups, divorce, separation you’ll find it here. So feel at home, start reading through the men’s section and you will find some great journals of interest. The best thing about a break up is now your eyes are open for better things and better things will come. Your GC is on it’s way! ---
**Author:** ![Tommygunkid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tommygunkid/32/905_2.png) [@Tommygunkid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommygunkid)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-just-a-kid-here-who-can-use-some-help/30246/7 "2009-07-05T17:43:55Z")
well i just got my order of ammo (full size) and IH (on the go)… and i will soon be buying Ishine and IO… i am curently testing them now … i will post results