# Hello ladies — new here with questions: 22, in grad school, never used pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 28, 2007, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389 "2007-04-28T06:49:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2007, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/1 "2007-04-28T06:49:10Z")
Hope everyone is doing great tonight! Just wanted to drop by and say hello, I just joined and I had a few questions, concerns, curiosities you know all that good stuff. I’ve never used [pheromones](https://a314.com/) before, I’ve been researching them for quite a while but theres so many different brands and types that I really haven’t taken initiative in ordering…might be because I dont want to end up throwing my money away. Then magically researching online I found this site and began to read the posts and seemed to be drawned to everything you all talk about. As a very curious person I want to explore new things. So here’s the deal, I’m 22, I just started grad school…so I don’t know anyone, pretty much. I have so far made one friend, which shes awesome. However, there is this particular guy in one of my classes that I would really like to get to know and see if there is any possibilities his smile just draws me in besides the whole mystery to him…anyways I dont know if hes attracted to me at all or even knows I exist…lol But if any of you have any suggestios as to where I should start my adventure please help a scorpio in need of some charm! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2007, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/2 "2007-04-28T08:26:38Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum. Well sounds like you need something to break the ice and get people talking. I would get IO and IH and [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) in the to-go bottle this way you can try the products out and see if you like them before you invest in a large bottle. If money permits you may also want to check out MX140 and MX135 both of these are great feel good mixes which will get you attention. I have used some products from other companys before I found Androtics and had some results but nothing like I get with these products. After a little practice they work for me and I love them. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2007, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/3 "2007-04-28T17:00:12Z")
Basic introductions are basically the hardest part. Find some way to interact on a friendly level. Worked for me in grad school eons ago. Should still work. Of course smelling good with a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) boost couldn’t hurt. I’m sure the ladies will have some excellent suggestions. And call Jasmin toll-free. ---
**Author:** ![chirimoya](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chirimoya/32/1538_2.png) [@chirimoya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chirimoya)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2007, 5:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/4 "2007-04-28T17:31:49Z")
Welcome 🙂 I ditto [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Sexiness. Use at least 3-4 sprays of each. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2007, 1:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/5 "2007-04-29T13:37:27Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hi Welcome to the forum. > > Well sounds like you need something to break the ice and get people talking. I would get Instant Openness and Instant Honesty and Instant Sexiness in the to-go bottle this way you can try the products out and see if you like them before you invest in a large bottle. If money permits you may also want to check out MX140 and MX135 both of these are great feel good mixes which will get you attention. > > I have used some products from other companys before I found Androtics and had some results but nothing like I get with these products. After a little practice they work for me and I love them. > > Tisha what Tisha said. the best advice i can give is to listen to advice from those who have actually used the products. something that works great for one may not be the perfect thing for you, but you can tell where you will lean by reading the posts and finding a user whose personality is most like yours. i pretty much resonate with the mixes Tisha recommends, these will net you results that will keep you motivated to keep trying new things. so far i havent found a mix i do not like, but i have found mixes that work better for me than others. its trial and error, but the cool thing is that just like your mood changes, so does the signiture your going to want to put out and having different stuff at home is the best way to be prepared. for instance, [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) comes in 2 formulas… A and B. one is for a stronger personality, the other for a more demure one. i have both because i like changing it up. (have to say A is my fav though 😉 ) _have fun with it_. these are useful but they are FUN. ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2007, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/6 "2007-04-30T03:53:34Z")
Thank you so much ladies…I will most definitely will be ordering what you all suggested Tisha. I’ll just need you all to help me in giving suggestions on how to use them before I end up using too much and get myself into trouble…cuz I’ve read posts on what [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) can do. I am especially interested in getting them to work towards this guy iv’e told you about…Instant Openness sounds like a good idea but do I mix all three (Instant Sexiness, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness) together at the same time? Do i have to mix them with perfume or how does that all work. Also, do you know how long do the to-go bottles last? I cant wait to start experimenting! Wait what if I dont have like this supermodel body will they still work to get attractive guys 😃 ? I mean I think I’m cute but then again it depends on the eye of the beholder. Alright ladies time for me to start studying…cant seem to procrastinate in grad school as I did as an undergrad…🙂 -CharmfulScorpio ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2007, 9:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/7 "2007-04-30T09:11:21Z")
> [@CharmfulScorpio](#): > > Thank you so much ladies…I will most definitely will be ordering what you all suggested Tisha. I’ll just need you all to help me in giving suggestions on how to use them before I end up using too much and get myself into trouble…cuz I’ve read posts on what Instant Honesty can do. > I am especially interested in getting them to work towards this guy iv’e told you about…Instant Openness sounds like a good idea but do I mix all three (Instant Sexiness, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness) together at the same time? Do i have to mix them with perfume or how does that all work. > Also, do you know how long do the to-go bottles last? I cant wait to start experimenting! Wait what if I dont have like this supermodel body will they still work to get attractive guys 😃 ? I mean I think I’m cute but then again it depends on the eye of the beholder. > > Alright ladies time for me to start studying…cant seem to procrastinate in grad school as I did as an undergrad…🙂 > > -CharmfulScorpio The to-go bottles have about 40 sprays in them. When you first start out use one product at a time so you can see exactly what they do for you. After that you can start to mix. Most people start with about 3 sprays you may need more or less. It took me a few days of using the products before I started getting noticing there effect. Some people notice right away. Instant Honesty will effect you less if you spray it to the back of your head. The effect of most pheromones can last from 4 to 6 hours depending on enviroment and product. You dont have to mix them with perfume but you can cover with one if you dont like the smell of nerola. When you order big bottles later you can get them in different scents. I like chocolatini but I also like to get unscented so I can wear whatever scent to cover I am in the mood for that day. You can cover nerola easy. Instant sexiness effects others but it will also make you feel sexy and confident. Confident is pretty and I would say no you dont have to be a supermodel. However the pheromones do not change a persons free will. They just enhance your socialbility you have to do the rest. So say you use [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and he notices you and says Hi. Be prepared to say something back to him. The IO will make you feel more at ease talking as well. Hope this helps Tisha Oh yeah what Lor said Read Read Read the forum. Everything I learned is from the girls and guys here and experimenting with the products. ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2007, 6:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/8 "2007-05-01T06:40:46Z")
Wooohooo…So i finally ordered the to-go of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant honesty, Instant sexiness & last but not least Instant Shine. Ok, So remember that guy I was talking about…so we really haven’t talked much, we’ve just crossed like one or two words. I would really like it if he initiated the conversation…So I should be getting my shipment tom. and I have class tom. night what would you recommend to be my first pheromone experience with? (Do you think it would be too bold to start with Instant Sexiness, especially since it i will in a classroom for like 3-4 hrs) and where should i spray it to have a better effect…also ive been reading about some of the pheromones making u smile the whole time…now I dont want to look too silly smiling the whole entire time in my Counseling classes, that might just look a tad bit weird 😛 thank you all for the great replies, I cant wait to start using them and telling u all about it!😃 ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2007, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/9 "2007-05-03T17:39:33Z")
Hey everyone, woohoo the site is back up…I thought it was just my computer acting up. So I didn’t use the pheros 2 days ago, bcuz Fedex decided to play with my emotions and delivered them yesterday not on the day it said online..but no biggy. But today I have class tonight again so I was thinking of using Instant Oppeness and Instant sexiness (to-go) to get his attention. Any suggestions on how much to wear and where? Its a classroom of like 25-30 people so i dont want to overpower the room now!😛 Have a wonderful Day!!😃 ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2007, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/10 "2007-05-05T00:05:53Z")
So I had class last night as I had mentioned, and after reading all the suggestions and reading other threads I decided to use [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Sexiness. I sprayed them on my wrist, chest(near neck) and hair, well to start off I must say i loved the smell…that’s actually the type of perfume I use…reminds me of Ck one or cool waters. Ok so onto the effects: remember that guy I mentioned, well usually before class the professor sits outside on some benches near the classroom, so if we arrive early we join him, so my friend and I got there early and went directly over there not noticing the “the guy” was there. So we sat on the bench next to his (he was facing me). He was sitting with this other girl(having some type of conversation). Anyhow, this other classmate gets there and he sits next to me, which we have rarely chatted before but all of a sudden he began to talk to me and make conversation. So my friend and I were chatting it up with this classmate and ever so often I noticed that “the guy” kept on turning over and looking at me and smiling and would once in a while nodd or laugh, making me think he was obviously paying attention to my conversations, so I of course began to include him in the conversation by simply making eye contact and everything seemed to flow just right, however, he seems a bit shy around me, I dont know if its my intuition but i get the feeling like he wants to talk to me but doesnt know how, and ive noticed this before using pheros, so thats why i decided to use some instant opennes in there too 🙂 So I’m hoping that by using it more often i’ll get greater results. I dont think the attention I got from him was exactly visible like if he were to like come on to me, but I noticed his eyes were on me a lot. which i hope this does lead to something else 🙂 cuz hes a great guy; so he seems! and tonight i’m meeting with a couple of friends at Starbucks and im planning on using Instant honesty…what should I expect from this…oh and i should spray it on the back of my head right? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2007, 8:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/11 "2007-05-05T08:45:31Z")
Sounds like a great first day. How far was the bench he was sitting at in relation to yours? Maybe he wasnt close enough to get the full effect but got enough to make him aware of you. I do find that the products work better after using them for a few days. I dont know if its from build up or maybe they need time to mesh with are own chemistry. Keep experimenting with dosages and I am sure you will find your sweet spot. I am glad that you included him in your conversation instead of waiting for him to initiate. Some guys are really shy. Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2007, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/12 "2007-05-05T14:33:41Z")
i wrote this huge reply last night but it seems it never showed up ☹ bummer. well, i wanted to say great post and share some starbucks tips, but you been there / did that lol :o waiting to hear all about it! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2007, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/13 "2007-05-05T20:41:31Z")
Hey ladies! 🙂 So yeah last night I wore Instant Honesty…I sprayed it all in my hair didnt…Ive read the stories on Inst. Honesty! Mmm…I didnt notice much difference in what my friends and I were talking about, their talkative as it is. But it is normal is if the pheros get me sleepy after a while, cuz it was weird I had dranked a venti white chocolate mocha…lots of caffeine & sugar but i was getting sleepy, and I noticed that too when i wore [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and Instant Openness to class, when i got home i was soo tired and my head wanting to hurt. is it that i just need to get use to them? Tisha: My bench was really close to his…how can i describe the scenario?.. u know those small squared tables with the benches around, well his table was right next to mine and he was sitting parallel kinda like riding a horse(hope this makes sense lol) and there was no one sitting infront of me on my table so he was directly across from me. I dont know how close do they have to be to react to the pheros? b/c i would say he was about anywhere from 5-6 feet away Lor: I was looking foward to reading ur post I actually saw u viewing the topic and thinking u were replying, but then i checked and nothing came thru, so i figured it didnt, cuz the same thing happened to me twice but when i do it through the advance reply, not now im doing it through quick reply. So if your ever bored and feel like re-writing everything you had conjured already i’ll be more than please to read it! 🙂 hope to hear from you all, oh by the way im planning to go clubbing tonight for cinco de Mayo, should i just wear Instant sexiness? P.s. before posting i always do ctrl + a at the same time to highlight all then press ctrl+c at the same time to copy in case the post doesnt go through, i paste it again. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2007, 12:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/14 "2007-05-06T00:31:36Z")
> [@](#): > > P.s. before posting i always do ctrl + a at the same time to highlight all then press ctrl+c at the same time to copy in case the post doesnt go through, i paste it again. good idea. id instant sexiness myself like crazy. or maybe i would super instant shine myself, with a spray of [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) and a 2 sprays of IH … omg i can think of a million good cinco de mayo mixes ! ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2007, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/15 "2007-05-06T00:58:44Z")
LMAO!!! I think i’m gonna start the night with Instant Shine for dinner…and then add Instant Sexiness right before getting to the club so it can last on me for a while. Mmmm…i dont know if to add [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to be quite frankly i need to test it more to see what effects it can have…dont want to get into any trouble!! lol Mmmm…i can just imagine all the mixes that came to ur mind huh! I need to get more savvy, i’m such a curious person! We’ll lets see what type of attention I get today…hey maybe i’ll get some free drinks here and there…not that their getting any! jajaja 😉 “girls just wanna have fun!” i’m leaving in about an hr hopefully you see this before…if Not have fun tonight. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2007, 1:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/16 "2007-05-06T01:09:48Z")
> [@CharmfulScorpio](#): > > LMAO!!! I think i’m gonna start the night with Instant Shine for dinner…and then add Instant Sexiness right before getting to the club so it can last on me for a while. Mmmm…i dont know if to add Instant Honesty to be quite frankly i need to test it more to see what effects it can have…dont want to get into any trouble!! lol > > Mmmm…i can just imagine all the mixes that came to ur mind huh! I need to get more savvy, i’m such a curious person! > > We’ll lets see what type of attention I get today…hey maybe i’ll get some free drinks here and there…not that their getting any! jajaja 😉 “girls just wanna have fun!” > > i’m leaving in about an hr hopefully you see this before…if Not have fun tonight. have lots of fun, post about it later, and free drinks _are earned_ if you are a fun and sparkly gal to be with!~ 🙂 if your in floriduh, mention the hot spots later! i love to know what im missing 😃 ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2007, 7:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/17 "2007-05-07T07:17:41Z")
So i used Instant shine and inst. sexiness as i had said i was, i saw some reaction to them, but i guess the club(lounge) we ended up going didnt help at all, its this new club they recently just opened and so we went to check it out…so when we get there there was no one in line so I was like woohoo no waiting (yeah right) so when we get to the door the security guards are like ur just gonna have to wait a few minutes till we clear some people out (so im thinking it must be packed…being 5 de mayo) so cool we waited, then we see some guys going straight to the security guards and exchange some words and what not and let them in right away along with some girls…this happened a couple of times and us standing outside (so i begin to get irritated) then finally the security guard starts checking our I.D.'s so im thinkin finally right?? hells no we waited a few minutes more! Oh and i forgot to mention one of the security guards was dressed in a nice black suit and had a clipboard and acting like hes Mr. all that trying to look down on us…so i made sure i stared him right in the eyes when he was doing that! anyhow, we finally get in and the cover charge was a bit higher than the usual clubs here …which i dont mind if its good…but didnt help after all that waiting! so when we finally pay and get inside I straight up started laughing! I couldnt believe my eyes…They were acting like if the club was all packed just to realize the complete opposite, there was a couple of people but not to the extend they made it seem. My friends and I were just crackin up on the fact they make their club seem like its freakin hollywood status! I was just too Posh for my taste, a lot of the people in there seemed so fake…which didnt settle right with my Instant Sexiness & [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)! Not my type of crowd so I still need to try the club scene all over again at least in my type of environment…down to earth! but as usual i have class this week so ill keep on tryin it out with “the guy” sorry if i rambled on too much on my night out! lol ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2007, 7:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/18 "2007-05-07T07:28:23Z")
> [@CharmfulScorpio](#): > > I was just too Posh for my taste, a lot of the people in there seemed so fake… Sorry I meant to say “It was too posh for my taste” not me of course 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2007, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/19 "2007-05-07T10:06:52Z")
> [@CharmfulScorpio](#): > > Sorry I meant to say “It was too posh for my taste” not me of course 😃 you poshy poshness,you ! 😛 yeah ,that sounds like floriDUH, gals with diamonds inbedded in their flip-flops. 🙄 Bubba-joe-bob wearing the suit that he will have to get into again when his sister gets married… well,atleast you got in and had _a time_. 😉 if theres a nextime, MX134 or A314 and cops, heh heh heh ---
**Author:** ![CharmfulScorpio](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/charmfulscorpio/32/1675_2.png) [@CharmfulScorpio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CharmfulScorpio)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2007, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389/20 "2007-05-12T01:41:36Z")
So here’s an update on what has happened so far with “the guy” this past monday I used [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), Openness and Honesty. I had decided to go to campus earlier than the usual so I could go to the library and catch up on some reading (procrastination doesn’t seem to change in grad school..lol). As I was going up the stairs i looked up and He was coming down, he actually smiled and lightly said hello and so did I. I went into the library for a bit checking some stuff online and remembered I had to turn some stuff in to Financial Aid. So i headed over there, (just a side note the building serves as the Financial Aid office and Admissions &Records so its just One big’o room divided by some tables) So when I walk in there I head straight to the tables to get my stuff ready to turn in. For some reason I look up straight ahead, and yup he was there making line for the Admissions & Records and caught him staring, which I didnt seem to react in any way just kept on getting my stuff. I guess I didnt want him to think i was stalking him 🙂 So I turn everything in and leave. Then I realized I had to go to the Grad Office (right next to the Fin. Aid building) to check some stuff. So I would say 20-25 mins have passed already. I come out and sit on this bench to ready since there was only about 35 min till class. So I’m chillin and then suddenly He comes out of the Admissions and Records building. He all of a sudden starts walking towards me…( Oh my gosh could it be!!!) THen he says hello and starts telling me about the problem he has with his account. (at this point hes standing at the end of the bench..Im sitting down lookin up at him). After I told him what he should do, the conversation started stearing elsewhere. So then i said (in a playful, friendly tone) “Hey why dont u take a seat, I doubt ur gonna grow anymore” He smiled and sat next to me. So we started to talk about a whole bunch of different things and he mentioned stuff about me that I had never told him but i guess he over heard me talking about it, which means hes been payin attention. We probably had a 20 min conversation and got to learn more about him and his interests which has only drawn me in more. We ended up walking together to class and he actually sat next to me. And that was that for that day. Then Yesterday I Used Instant Sexiness and Openness only. During our class break I went outside to take a breath of fresh air and he was out there too. I just noticed he was staring at me but tries to play it off. So then at the end of the class I get my stuff and leave and it so happen we were walking almost the same way. And One thing we have in common is that we both like soccer and the same team which had played on wed. So I was probably 2 feet away from him and simply said “hey so did u see the game yesterday” and then we started talking a bit about it but nothing else we kept on walking in silence…So i felt a bit awkward. Then he simply says “well ill see u later” and goes a different way. I felt a bit weird. We’ll see what happens next…not forcing anything thats not meant to be! 🙂 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-ladies-new-here-with-questions-22-in-grad-school-never-used-pheromones/3389.md?page=2)